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Friday, December 19, 2025


NIC’s Corner

·         Jesus is Flower of Jesse: Isaiah 11:1-3 Symbols: flower, plant with flower

·         How to celebrate Dec 19th

o   Ever felt the urge to delve into the emo side of life? Toss on some dark eyeliner, blast sad music, and pen some poetry. Let each tear become a badge of honor on National Emo Day. Next up, indulge in the underrated delight of oatmeal muffins. Bake a batch to savor with a steaming cup of tea, celebrating National Oatmeal Muffin Day. Then, let the sweetness linger with some nostalgic hard candies. Pop a few in your mouth, reveling in the sugary taste on National Hard Candy Day. Afterward, embark on a scavenger hunt for the perfect evergreen. Embrace the search, enjoying the crisp air and earthy scents on Look for an Evergreen Day. Get ready to declutter and destress by embracing the art of re-gifting. Find a hidden gem in your possessions and pass it along on National Re-Gifting Day. Lastly, pay homage to the unsung heroes and heroines in your life. Write a letter, make a call, or simply reflect on their impact on National Heroes and Heroines Day. So, go ahead and immerse yourself in this delightful medley of offbeat celebrations!

·         Fish Friday: Mexican Fish Bake Banuelos

🇦🇹 Austria vs 🇷🇼 Rwanda — Baroque Altars and Genocide Graves

Two More Stops on the Rich vs Poor Tour: A Catholic Contrast in Memory and Mercy

🇦🇹 Austria — Wealthy, Historic, and Culturally Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$63,300 USD (2024)

🧮 Why Austria Ranks High



• EU Integration: Strong trade, tourism, and finance sectors.
• Industrial Base: Machinery, chemicals, and services drive growth.
• Social Safety Net: Universal healthcare, education, and pensions.
• Cultural Capital: Vienna is a global hub for music, art, and diplomacy.

• Political Stability: Democratic institutions and low corruption.

✝️ Catholic Landscape
• Majority Faith: ~55% Catholic, though declining.
• Nine Dioceses: Including Vienna, Salzburg, and Graz-Seckau.
• Baroque Heritage: Lavish churches, monasteries, and sacred music.
• Clergy Influence: Historically strong, now more symbolic.
• Pilgrimage Sites: Mariazell Basilica and Melk Abbey draw thousands.

⚠️ Challenges
• Secularization: Church attendance and vocations are declining.
• Cultural Catholicism: Faith often expressed through tradition, not practice.
• Clergy Scandals: Past abuse cases have eroded trust.
• Immigration Tensions: Integration of migrant Catholics is uneven.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue
Austria is a journey of sacred memory—where the Eucharist is offered beneath gilded domes, and the Church stands as both monument and mirror to Europe’s spiritual heritage.


🇷🇼 Rwanda — Poor, Rebuilding, and Forgiving Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$3,300 USD (2024)

🧮 Why Rwanda Ranks Low




• Post-Genocide Recovery: 1994 genocide devastated institutions and economy.
• Landlocked Geography: Trade and transport are limited.
• Agricultural Economy: Coffee and tea dominate exports.
• Youthful Population: Over 60% under age 25.
• Climate Vulnerability: Rainfall variability affects food security.

✝️ Catholic Landscape
• Majority Faith: ~43% Catholic, deeply embedded in national identity.
• Nine Dioceses: Including Kigali, Butare, and Ruhengeri.
• Genocide Wounds: Some clergy were complicit; others were martyred.
• Reconciliation Ministry: The Church plays a key role in healing and justice.
• Marian Devotion: Kibeho is an approved apparition site, drawing pilgrims from across Africa.

⚠️ Challenges
• Trauma Legacy: The Church must navigate its role in both harm and healing.
• Poverty: Parishes often lack resources for catechesis and outreach.
• Vocational Strain: Many priests serve multiple communities.
• Youth Formation: Rebuilding trust and faith among post-genocide generations.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue
Rwanda is a journey of mercy and memory—where the Eucharist is offered in chapels of tears and hope, and the Church walks with a people learning to forgive, rebuild, and believe again.


🕊️ Editorial Reflection

Austria and Rwanda offer a profound contrast: one rich in cultural Catholicism, the other rich in redemptive suffering. In Austria, the Church is a museum of memory. In Rwanda, it is a field hospital of forgiveness. The Rich vs Poor Tour reminds us that the Gospel is not bound by marble or mud—it flourishes in cathedrals and confessionals, in requiems and resurrection.

What does it mean to be Catholic in a land of gilded heritage—or genocide graves?


Where does the Church feel more alive—in the echo of Mozart or the silence of Kibeho?



 

DECEMBER 19 Ember Friday

Evergreen Day

 

Acts, Chapter 26, Verse 5-7

They have known about me from the start, if they are willing to testify, that I have lived my life as a Pharisee, the strictest party of our religion.  But now I am standing trial because of my HOPE in the promise made by God to our ancestors. Our twelve tribes hope to attain to that promise as they fervently worship God day and night; and on account of this hope I am accused by Jews, O king.

 

Paul clearly explains that his entire life was in preparation for the hope of Israel, Christ Jesus, who Israel did not recognize as the son of God. Paul states that the prophets and Moses had foretold that the Christ would suffer, and as first to be raised from the dead, he would proclaim light to both God’s people and the Gentiles. The resurrection is God’s promise to Israel. Paul like Christ ultimately was a victim of intolerance.[1]

 

Copilot’s Take

 

On December 19, marked as Ember Friday and Evergreen Day, Paul’s defense before King Agrippa in Acts 26 reminds us that the strict discipline of his Pharisaic life was not wasted but prepared him to bear witness to the hope of Israel fulfilled in Christ. He proclaims that the resurrection is God’s promise, a light for both Jews and Gentiles, even though this very hope makes him a target of intolerance. The evergreen, celebrated today, becomes a fitting symbol of that promise—life that endures through winter, faith that remains steadfast in trial, and hope that cannot be extinguished. Ember Friday’s call to fasting and prayer deepens this witness, inviting us to strip away distractions so that the evergreen truth of resurrection may root itself more firmly in our lives.

 

Ember Friday[2]

The purpose of these “mini-Lents” is to pray, fast and to thank God for the gifts He gives us through nature.  They follow the four seasons of the year with the beauty and uniqueness of each particular season.   They are here for us to teach us to use, with moderation, what God gives us through nature, and to also share these gifts with the poor.

So what does this mean for you?

Well, because of the changes in Church law, not a whole lot; at least not officially. The mandatory observation of Ember days was excised from Church practice during the pontificate of Pope Paul VI. But as voluntary practice, there is much that is salutary in observing the Ember days of the Church.

How do we observe Ember days?

On Wednesday and Saturday, we observe partial fast and abstinence – two small meatless meals, and one full meal that can include meat.

On Friday, we may have two small meals and one full meal, but observe total abstinence from meat even at the main meal. This is identical to the currently observed fasts of Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.

Spiritual Crib[3] 

A special devotion that can be performed during Advent to prepare for the coming of the Infant Savior. It can be adapted for adults and/or children and applied as is appropriate to your state in life. 

·         9th day, December 19th: THE OX—Silence Today we may speak nothing unnecessary, much less give way to distracting thoughts. On the contrary, hold interior converse with God by loving aspirations to Him. 

Evening Antiphon[4]

Come to deliver us, and tarry not.

O Root of Jesse, who stands for an ensign of the people, before whom kings shall keep silence and unto whom the Gentiles shall make supplication: Come to deliver us, and tarry not.

O Root of Jesse 

"Come to deliver us and tarry not." The world cries out for Christ its King, who shall cast out the prince of this world (John 12:31). The prince of this world established his power over men as a result of original sin. Even after we had been delivered from the servitude of Satan through the death of Christ on the cross, the prince of this world attempts to exercise his power over us. "The devil, as a roaring lion, goeth about seeking whom he may devour" (I Pet. 5:8). In these trying times, when faith in Christ and in God has largely disappeared, when the propaganda of a pagan culture is broadcast everywhere, and the forces of evil and falsehood rise up to cast God from His throne, who does not feel the power of the devil? 

Does it not appear that we are approaching that time when Satan will be released from the depths of hell to work his wonders and mislead, if possible, even the elect? (Apoc. 20:2; Matt. 24:24.) 

"Come, tarry not." Observe how thoroughly the world of today has submitted to the reign of Satan. Mankind has abandoned the search for what is good and holy. Loyalty, justice, freedom, love, and mutual trust are no longer highly regarded. Establish, O God, Thy kingdom among us, a kingdom established upon truth, justice, and peace. "Come, tarry not." "Thy kingdom come." 

God’s Handiwork 

Every Christmas although the same in many ways is always new for each Christmas expresses a hope learned from a lifetime of praising God. For every Christmas if we open our eyes to truth, we will see the handiwork of God; the rock of our salvation. Perhaps in these final days of anticipation it would do us well to reflect on the virtues (Humility, Generosity, and Chastity) of Mary Christ’s very own mother and in these final days in some way reflect them in our own lives. 

Chastity[5] a pouring out of the soul to God 

After the fall of Adam, man's senses became rebellious to reason. As a consequence, chastity is the most difficult of all the virtues to practice. Saint Augustine says: "Of all inner conflicts the most arduous are concerned with chastity. These battles are of daily occurrence, but victory is rare." However, Mary is a shining example of this virtue. Saint Sophronius replies: "God chose a pure virgin for his mother, that she might be an example of chastity to everybody." That is why Saint Ambrose calls Mary "the standard-bearer of virginity." Because of Mary's purity the Holy Spirit declared that she is as beautiful as the turtledove: Your cheeks are beautiful as the turtledove's (Cant 1:9). "A most pure turtledove" is what Aponius calls her. She inspired everybody who saw her with chaste thoughts. Saint Thomas confirms this when he says that the beauty of the Blessed Virgin incited to chastity all who looked at her. Saint Jerome maintains that Saint Joseph remained a virgin as a result of living with Mary. Saint Gregory of Nyssa says that the Blessed Virgin loved chastity so much, that to preserve it she would have been willing to renounce even the dignity of Mother of God. This seems evident from her reply to the archangel: How shall this happen, since I do not know man? (Lk 1:34). And from the words she added then: Be it done to me according to your word (Lk 1:38), signifying that she gave her consent on the condition that, as the angel had assured her, she should become a mother only by the overshadowing of the Holy Spirit. Saint Ambrose says that "anyone who preserves chastity is an angel; anyone who loses it is a devil." Our Lord assures us that those who are chaste become angels: They...shall be as the angels of God in heaven (Mt 22:30). But the unchaste become hateful to God, like devils. Saint Remigius used to say that the majority of adults are lost by this vice. We have quoted Saint Augustine as saying that a victory is very seldom gained in this combat. Why is this? Because the means by which the victory may be gained are very seldom used. These means are threefold, according to Bellarmine and the masters of the spiritual life: fasting, the avoidance of dangerous occasions of sin, and prayer. 

1. By fasting we mean especially mortification of the eyes and the appetite. Although our Blessed Lady was filled with divine grace, she nevertheless practiced mortification of the eyes, according to Saint Epiphanius and Saint John Damascene. Her glances were always modest, and she never gazed fixedly at anyone. She was so unassuming, even from childhood, that everyone who saw her was charmed by her reserve. Saint Luke remarks that when she went to visit Elizabeth, she went with haste (Lk 1:39), in order to avoid the public gaze. Saint Gregory of Tours maintains that she fasted throughout her life. Saint Bonaventure explains this: "Mary would never have found so much grace if she had not been moderate in her meals, for grace and gluttony do not go together." In short, Mary was mortified in everything, so that it was true to say of her: My hands dripped with myrrh (Cant 5:5). 

2. The second means is avoidance of the occasions of sin: He that is aware of the snares shall be secure (Prov 11:15). Saint Philip Neri coined the expression: "In the war of the senses, cowards conquer." By cowards he means those who flee from dangerous occasions. Mary fled as much as possible from the gaze of men. Remember Saint Luke's remark that, in going to visit Elizabeth, Mary went with haste into the hill country. One author calls attention to the fact that Our Lady left Elizabeth before Saint John was born: And Mary remained with her about three months and returned to her own house. Now Elizabeth's time was fulfilled that she should be delivered, and she brought forth a son (Lk 1:56-57). Why did Mary not wait for Saint John's birth? Because she wanted to avoid the hubbub and excitement that usually accompany such an event. 

3. The third means is prayer. The Wise Man said: And as I knew that I could not otherwise be continent except God gave it...I went to the Lord and besought him (Wis 8:21). Mary revealed to Saint Elizabeth of Hungary that she did not acquire any virtue without effort and without continual prayer. Saint John Damascene calls our Immaculate Mother "a lover of purity." She cannot endure those who are content to be unchaste. And if anybody appeals to her to be delivered from unchastity she will certainly help him. All he has to do is call upon her confidently. The Venerable John of Ávila used to say that many have conquered impure temptations merely through devotion to Mary Immaculate. 

The Battle of the Soul and Flesh[6] 

Beginning with Cain and Abel, there have been children of God who obeyed God's commandments, and, on the other hand, children of Satan, as Holy Scripture, call them, who seek their salvation in the pleasures of this life. Since the time of Cain and Abel, mankind has been split into two divisions, one seeking the kingdom of God, the other the kingdom of the world, the kingdom of Satan. When our Savior conquered Satan, He left him power over those who make themselves slaves to the sensual pleasures, and thus there exists an evil force against the Church, and it will exist to the end of time.

This is a fact that we must keep in view in order to fully understand and judge the conditions. The realm of darkness, Satan's realm, stands opposed to the realm of Christ. Satan and his adherents carry on the warfare against the Church of Christ, as they assaulted Christ Himself. "As they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you," so did Christ prophecy. The Church of Christ demands the subjection of the flesh; she preaches against luxury, pride and selfishness. She preaches chastity and submission to the commandments of God; she preaches penance alike to those of high and low station in life. This angers all those who would indulge in the evil things of this world. They cry: "Let us break her bonds asunder; and let us cast away her yoke from us." But as Christ foretold the persecution of His Church, so He also foretold that the gates of hell would not prevail against her.

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[7]

Want to start a small group? Download our 33 Days to Eucharistic Glory Study Guide

Day 28

On this 28th day the reception of the Eucharist compels us to greater unity with the church

Copilot:

The reception of the Eucharist compels Catholics to greater unity with the Church in several profound ways:

1.      Shared Belief and Practice: The Eucharist is a central belief and practice in the Catholic faith. Participating in this sacrament unifies believers around a common ritual that transcends individual differences.

2.      Communion with Christ: Receiving the Eucharist is a direct encounter with Christ, which strengthens the bond between the individual and the entire Body of Christ, the Church.

3.      Sense of Belonging: The communal aspect of the Eucharist fosters a sense of belonging to the Church family, reinforcing the idea that believers are part of a larger spiritual community.

4.      Unity in Diversity: The Eucharist brings together people from diverse backgrounds and cultures, united in their shared faith and devotion to Christ.

5.      Strengthening Community Bonds: Regular participation in the Eucharist helps build and strengthen relationships within the Church community, fostering mutual support and encouragement.

6.      Commitment to the Church’s Mission: The Eucharist inspires believers to commit to the Church’s mission of spreading the Gospel and serving others, working together to build the Kingdom of God.

7.      Living Out Christ’s Commandments: By receiving the Eucharist, Catholics are reminded of Christ’s commandments to love God and love one another. This common goal unites believers in their efforts to live out these teachings.

8.      Mutual Forgiveness: The Eucharist encourages believers to seek and offer forgiveness, promoting reconciliation and unity within the Church.

9.      Sharing in Christ’s Sacrifice: The Eucharist is a participation in Christ’s sacrificial love, which calls believers to live sacrificially and selflessly, fostering greater unity and compassion within the Church.

10.  Strengthening the Church’s Witness: A united Church is a stronger witness to the world. The Eucharist empowers Catholics to be effective ambassadors of Christ’s love and message.

11.  Support in Faith Journey: Receiving the Eucharist provides spiritual support and strength for individual faith journeys, which is further enhanced by the collective journey of the Church community.

12.  Encouragement of Service: The Eucharist inspires acts of charity and service, encouraging believers to work together in ministry and outreach, strengthening the Church’s communal bonds.

13.  Celebration of Unity: The Eucharist is a celebration of the unity of the Church, bringing believers together in worship and praise of God.

Through these ways, the reception of the Eucharist not only strengthens individual faith but also reinforces the unity and cohesion of the Church as a whole, fostering a community that is united in purpose, love, and service.

Bible in a Year Day 171 Elijah and Elisha

Fr. Mike breaks down the moment Elijah is taken up to heaven, and the miracle Elisha performs at the spring. In 2 Chronicles, we also read about how king Amaziah suddenly turned his heart away from God by worshipping idols. Today's readings are 2 Kings 2, 2 Chronicles 25, and Psalm 70.

Evergreen Day[8]

Every year one thing remains the same around the holidays, people everywhere have to decide at what point before the big day they’re going to go out and hunt down a Christmas tree. Look for an Evergreen Day is about the last opportunity you have if you haven’t already gotten yours to ensure you have a tree for the Holidays. Even if you’ve already got your tree for this year, this is a great opportunity to go out and familiarize yourself with the other types of Evergreens in your neighborhood, and discover that these regal giants are around you all year round. Look for an Evergreen Day was originally established by the National Arborist Association to create a day to appreciate the beauty of these trees outside of the confines of merely being bedecked with glittering lights and ornaments even in the depths of winter these noble trees keep their foliage, providing that wonderful green and white contrast that is so representative of deep winter. Evergreens have played an important role in many societies throughout the ages, selected for religious observances due to their seemingly eternal nature even in a season of death, ·but that’s not the only place they’re represented, the Native Americans of the Pacific Northwest were entirely reliant on the red cedar for multiple aspects of their culture. Whether they were making clothing, fishing line, ropes, or building their homes or canoes, the red cedar was vital a vital part of their lives. Going back even further, most people have heard about how Socrates was made to drink a glass of hemlock tea, which he did with his normal unflinching nature. Hemlocks are a shade tolerant evergreen with short striped needles. As you can tell, knowing the difference between your evergreens could one day save your life!

How to celebrate Look for an Evergreen Day

·         The best way to celebrate is to grab a book of local flora/fauna, and head out to identify all the different types of evergreen plants that grow in your part of the world· There are literally thousands of different varieties from every place in the vegetable kingdom, so there are certain to be multiple examples in your local area.

·         Obviously, if you haven’t gotten your tree yet, then Look for an Evergreen Day is when it should happen· By understanding the difference between Blue Spruce, Douglas Fir, and the dozens of other varieties of Christmas Tree available, you’ll know which ones will have the most even spread, which ones will be the most dense, and will best compliment your home and decorating scheme.

Christmas Tree[9]

The Christmas tree has become one of the most accepted traditions of the modern world at Christmas. Here we have a short explanation of the Christian symbolism.

It's not always possible to set up a tree at Christmas Eve but waiting until the 3rd or 4th Sunday of Advent is a good compromise.

DIRECTIONS

There is a beautiful symbolism in the traditional Christmas tree which is so popular in our country. The tree represents the long period of waiting for the coming of the Christ, Who is represented by a star or some other shining ornament at the top of the tree. The ornaments, candles and lights represent His gifts and graces to us. This meaning of the Christmas tree should be made clear to all the children of the family — they will love the element of mystery they find here.

In Germany and in many other countries, candy, cookies and nuts are hung on the branches. The children love this. These articles represent good things which can be eaten as well as looked at.

Therese Mueller suggests that the best time to put up the tree is on Christmas Eve, and not before. All of the symbolism points to the Nativity of Our Lord and premature erection of the tree and crib takes something from the meaning of these things (Cf. Family Life in Christ, Liturgical Press: Collegeville, MN, p. 15).

Activity Source: How to Make Your House a Home by Rev. Bernard Stokes, O.F.M., Family Life Bureau, Washington D.C., 1955

Fitness Friday[10] 

3 Healthy Things to Do Every Winter Solstice 

1. Sleep deep. Shortest day = longest night. Take advantage of this and plan for it to be a perfect night of sleep. 

Check in with yourself to evaluate your sleep hygiene. Sleep experts recommend that you establish a simple ritual before you go to bed to tell your body it is time to rest. 

Brush your teeth, wash your face, read a book or meditate for several minutes before you close the light. Make your slumber environment clear of stressors by making your room as dark as possible, turning off the television and silencing your phone. 

Set yourself up to be successful by making your bedroom a sanctuary for sleep.  

2. Sweat often. It’s dark when we leave for work and dark when we return home. It’s only normal that motivation to move wanes without the friendship of the sun. 

While it’s tempting to skip the gym in favor of extra time hunkered down, do your best to move each day, especially today. 

Walk an extra few minutes to a bus or subway stop further away, take the stairs and walk the mall to incorporate a little more movement into your daily routine. 

Also, you don’t have to be a weekend warrior to enjoy an hour or two of cross-country skiing, a few minutes on the ice rink, or an afternoon sledding with the kids. Make time during the week for simple, active pleasure. 

The benefits will show in your mood first. Remember these little bits of movement can not only add up but can also motivate us to move more and get in a “real” workout.  

3. Live consciously. We spend a lot more time inside when it’s dark and cold outside. Spending time making your home or office a space that you like to be in will deflect some of the stress and help you lead a well and healthy life. 

Winter cleaning isn’t so bad when you play your favorite music, and the result often makes you feel great. Carve out an hour to freshen up your space today. 

Light scented candles and shift some furniture around so that you can enjoy it in a new way. Take a minute to look at what is and isn’t working in the space you live in so that you can feel empowered in your world. Take time to appreciate your surroundings today – those in nature and those you created for yourself. 

Acknowledge the winter solstice this year, and every year going forward. Honor yourself and your work as you pursue your personal Nutritious Life ambitions for another season. Make it a day every year that you press the reset button amid the chaos of the holiday season and focus on you. 

As you look forward to sunnier days, remember to enjoy the darker days, too!

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Conversion of Sinners

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary



[1]The Collegeville Bible Commentary

[6]Frings, Math Josef. The Excellence of the Rosary Conferences for Devotions in Honor of the Blessed Virgin

[10] https://nutritiouslife.com/nurture-yourself/winter-solstice/

Quick Answer: Oh, Mr. Porter! (1937) is a British comedy about an inept railway worker turned stationmaster who, with two bumbling colleagues, accidentally thwarts gunrunners. Its Catholic lessons can be drawn from themes of perseverance, humility, vigilance against evil, and the dignity of even flawed service.


🎬 Film Summary

  • Premise: William Porter (Will Hay), a clumsy railway worker, is promoted to stationmaster at a dilapidated rural station in Northern Ireland. His assistants are the elderly Harbottle (Moore Marriott) and cheeky Albert (Graham Moffatt).
  • Comic Chaos: The trio mishandle stolen livestock, botch renovations, and fall prey to local legends about the ghost of One-Eyed Joe.
  • Conflict: Porter unwittingly agrees to transport smugglers (gunrunners) disguised as football fans. The criminals hijack the train, diverting it to a haunted windmill.
  • Resolution: Despite their incompetence, Porter and his companions escape, recapture the train, and alert authorities. The railway mobilizes to stop the smugglers, who are arrested. The film ends with comic respect for the old engine, which promptly explodes.

✝️ Catholic Lessons & Reflections

Though a secular comedy, the film’s themes resonate with Catholic moral imagination:

  • Humility in Service: Porter is inept, mocked, and underestimated, yet his persistence leads to justice. Catholic teaching emphasizes that God works through the humble and imperfect (cf. 1 Corinthians 1:27).
  • Perseverance in Trial: Despite ridicule and repeated failure, Porter continues striving. This echoes the virtue of fortitude, enduring difficulties for the sake of the good.
  • Vigilance Against Evil: The smugglers represent hidden corruption. Porter’s eventual recognition and resistance reflect the call to discern and oppose evil, even when disguised as ordinary life.
  • Communal Action: The railway’s mobilization to stop the criminals mirrors the Church’s teaching on solidarity—evil is overcome when communities act together for justice.
  • Respect for Tradition: The trio’s salute to the old engine, even after its comic explosion, suggests reverence for what has carried them forward. This parallels Catholic respect for tradition and the instruments of grace, even when fragile.
  • Comic Redemption: The humor itself is instructive—Catholic spirituality often values joy and laughter as signs of hope, reminding us that God’s providence can shine through even absurd circumstances.

🌲 Why It Matters for Devotional Hospitality

For your hospitality and devotional framework, Oh, Mr. Porter! can be paired with:

  • Evergreen Hope: Like the old engine “Gladstone,” faith may seem worn but remains capable of carrying us forward.
  • Symbolic Meal Cue: A simple railway-themed meal (bread rolls as “tickets,” tea in tin mugs) could embody humility and perseverance.
  • Scriptural Tie-In: Luke 12:37–40 (“Blessed are those servants whom the master finds vigilant”) aligns with Porter’s accidental but faithful vigilance.



Thursday, December 18, 2025

 

Rachel’s Corner

Not only that, but we even boast of our afflictions, knowing that affliction produces endurance, and endurance, proven character, and proven character, hope, and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the holy Spirit that has been given to us. (Romans 5:3-5)

·         do a personal eucharistic stations of the cross.

·         Jesse Tree ornament: Jesus is Lord: Ex. 3:2; 20:1 Symbols: burning bush, stone tablets.

·         Steven Spielberg’s birthday; 1946

·         Bake Cookies Day

·         How to celebrate Dec 18th

o   You wake up to a world filled with possibilities. Start your day by baking a batch of cookies, celebrating the art of homemade treats. As they bake, take some time to appreciate the beauty of the Arabic language. Explore its sounds and script, maybe even learn a new word or phrase. Embrace the uniqueness of every flake, outside and in—find joy in the intricate details. When the phone rings, answer with the spirit of Buddy the Elf—spread cheer and laughter through every conversation.

o   For lunch, consider trying a new dish that celebrates cultural diversity, like a flavorful roast suckling pig. Take a moment to reflect on the journeys of migrants around the globe, their courage and resilience. Share stories or research ways to support migrants in need. End your day with a simple gesture of kindness, perhaps by offering a warm meal to someone in your community.

Best Place to visit in December: Antarctica

Now’s as good a time as any to finally book that once-in-a-lifetime trip you’ve always dreamed about—like an expedition to Antarctica,



for example. The white continent is at its best from December to March, when wildlife is active and the sun shines for nearly 24 hours a day. And while trips like these typically require a lot of advance planning, there’s still time to book a spot on an expedition cruise ship before 2024 wraps up (although you may want to use this time to start researching for next year).

Ponant has seven sailings available through the end of December, with trips ranging from 10 to 15 nights and including stops in South Georgia and the Falkland Islands. Another great option is Quark Expedition’s “Antarctic Explorer: Discovering the 7th Continent” voyage, an 11-day trip with four departure dates within the month of December (plus many in 2025). Each sailing includes the typical stops, but Quark also started offering a majorly cool add-on a few years ago: alpine heli-trekking, in which guests board a helicopter (just imagine those views) and fly to typically inaccessible terrain to enjoy hiking or snowshoeing.

Thursday Feast

Thursday is the day of the week that our Lord gave himself up for consumption. Thursday commemorates the last supper. Some theologians believe after Sunday Thursday is the holiest day of the week. We should then try to make this day special by making a visit to the blessed sacrament chapel, Mass or even stopping by the grave of a loved one. Why not plan to count the blessing of the week and thank our Lord. Plan a special meal. Be at Peace.

Dinner Menu

o    Main Course


🇪🇸 Morón AB – Andalusian Endurance & Eucharistic Witness

A week of frontier endurance, Eucharistic clarity, civic resilience, and military recreation

Day 1 – Fri, Dec 19 – Arrival & Base Orientation

Lodging: Air Force Inns – Morón AB ($65–$95/night)

Evening walk in Seville’s Plaza de España

Orientation at Morón Fitness Center (MWR)

Day 2 – Sat, Dec 20 – Marian Anchors & Recreation

Morning visit to Seville Cathedral (Marian devotion, civic anchor)

Afternoon Outdoor Rec trip: Córdoba Mezquita (~€40, transport + guide)

Evening bowling or intramural sports via MWR

Day 3 – Sun, Dec 21 – Sunday Mass & Civic Witness (Fourth Sunday of Advent)

Sunday Catholic Mass at Morón Chapel: 9:00 AM (base chapel schedule)

Afternoon civic witness in Seville – Alcázar fortress and civic squares

Evening resilience: base community center family activities

Day 4 – Mon, Dec 22 – Civic Resilience & Fitness

Excursion to Cádiz – fortress walls and cathedral

Afternoon workout at Morón Fitness Center

Dinner: Andalusian tapas with sherry pairing

Day 5 – Tue, Dec 23 – Fortress Witness & Outdoor Rec

Visit Castillo de Almodóvar del Río



(fortress of civic endurance)

Outdoor Rec trip: hiking in Sierra Morena (~€40)

Evening bowling league

Day 6 – Wed, Dec 24 – Christmas Vigil & Civic Witness

Christmas Eve Mass at Morón Chapel: 7:00 PM

Civic witness: Seville Christmas markets and nativity displays

Evening vigil with candlelight at base quarters

Day 7 – Thu, Dec 25 – Christmas Day Eucharistic Clarity

Christmas Day Mass at Morón Chapel: 9:00 AM

Festive meal: Andalusian roast lamb with citrus pairing

Ritual Act: Pour wine into a chalice, light a candle, and name one fortress that became mercy

Evening film pairing: The Nativity Story




DECEMBER 18 Thursday of the Third Week in Advent

Feast of the Expectancy 

Acts, Chapter 24, Verse 24-26

Several days later Felix came with his wife Drusilla, who was Jewish. He had Paul summoned and listened to him speak about faith in Christ Jesus. But as he spoke about righteousness and self-restraint and the coming judgment, Felix became frightened and said, “You may go for now; when I find an opportunity I shall summon you again.” At the same time, he HOPED that a bribe would be offered him by Paul, and so he sent for him very often and conversed with him.

 

As you can see play for pay has been around for a very long time.

🇺🇸 America’s Systemic Corruption in 2025

You don’t have to bribe your postman in the United States, but in many keyways America remains structurally more corrupt than countries often labeled “corrupt” in the global South. With an economy worth over $27 trillion a year, the scale of corruption here means far more money changes hands than anywhere else.

1. Campaign Finance

Instead of short, publicly funded campaigns with limited advertising, the U.S. runs permanent election cycles where candidates must raise billions. Politicians represent donors and billionaires, not ordinary citizens. Democracy is being hollowed out by money.

2. Regulatory Capture

Industries like banking, tech, and AI spend heavily to block regulation. Politicians are bribed—legally, through lobbying—to reduce oversight. This ensures corruption thrives.

3. Financial Accountability



The precedent of the 2008 financial crisis—where Wall Street executives escaped prosecution—still defines the system. Corporate leaders remain untouchable, even as ordinary Americans struggle with debt, inflation, and housing crises. Impunity itself is corruption.

4. Military Budget

The U.S. military budget is larger than the next dozen nations combined. Half of it goes to private contractors, not soldiers. This is corporate welfare on a cosmic scale.

5. Mass Incarceration

Over 2 million Americans remain imprisoned, with private prisons and outsourced prison services profiting from incarceration. Justice is commodified, and profit motives corrupt the system.

6. Tax Policy

The wealthy lobby to reduce their taxes, and they succeed. Billionaires pay lower effective rates than working families, proving how money bends policy.

7. Surveillance State

The NSA and other agencies continue vast domestic surveillance, with millions of contractors involved. Insider trading and corruption thrive in the shadows of this surveillance‑industrial complex.

8. Congressional Insider Trading

Congress weakened laws against insider trading by lawmakers. Members of Congress still trade stocks based on privileged knowledge of government policy. That this remains tolerated is itself corruption.

9. Asset Forfeiture

Civil asset forfeiture in the “war on drugs” continues to corrupt police departments and courts, incentivizing seizures over justice.



10. Media Capture

Corporate money saturates the media. Disinformation campaigns—on climate change, elections, and public health—are funded by powerful interests. Americans are told with a straight face that scientists aren’t sure about human‑caused global warming, even as evidence mounts.

Present Reality

The U.S. may not rank as “the most corrupt” country on global indices, but its corruption is systemic, legalized, and structural. It doesn’t look like bribing a clerk—it looks like billionaires buying policy, corporations writing laws, and elites escaping accountability.

Copilot’s Take:

Felix’s hunger for a bribe in Acts mirrors America’s legalized bribery through lobbying, campaign finance, and insider privilege. Advent reminds us that corruption is not just a civic failure but a spiritual wound—it erodes righteousness, self‑restraint, and the expectancy of justice. To prepare for Christ’s coming is to resist the normalization of pay‑to‑play politics, to reclaim integrity in public life, and to live as witnesses that truth cannot be bought.

Feast of the Expectancy[1]

This feast, which in recent times has been kept not only throughout the whole of Spain, but also in many other parts of the Catholic world, owes its origin to the bishops of the 10th Council of Toledo, in 656. These prelates thought that there was an incongruity in the ancient practice of celebrating the Feast of the Annunciation on the 25th of March, inasmuch as this joyful solemnity frequently occurs at the time when the Church is intent upon the Passion of Our Lord, so that it is sometimes obliged to be transferred into Easter time, with which it is out of harmony for another reason. They therefore decreed that, henceforth, in the Church of Spain there should be kept, eight days before Christmas, a solemn Feast with an octave, in honor of the Annunciation, and as a preparation for the great solemnity of Our Lord's Nativity.

In the course of time, however, the Church of Spain saw the necessity of returning to the practice of the Church of Rome and of the whole world, which solemnize the 25th of March as the day of Our Lady's Annunciation and the Incarnation of the Son of God. But such had been, for ages, the devotion of the people for the Feast of the 18th of December, that it was considered requisite to maintain some vestige of it. They discontinued, therefore, to celebrate the Annunciation on this day; but the faithful were requested to consider, with devotion, what must have been the sentiments of the Holy Mother of God during the days immediately preceding Her giving Him birth. A new Feast was instituted, under the name of "the Expectation of the Blessed Virgin's Delivery."

This Feast, which sometimes goes under the name of Our Lady of O, or the Feast of O, on account of the great antiphons which are sung during these days, and, in a special manner, of that which begins O Virgo virginum (which is still used in the Vespers of the Expectation—together with the O Adonai, the antiphon of the Advent Office), was kept with great devotion in Spain. A High Mass was sung at a very early hour each morning during the octave, at which all who were with child, whether rich or poor, considered it a duty to assist, that they might thus honor Our Lady's Maternity, and beg Her blessing upon themselves.

It is no wonder that the Holy See approved of this pious practice being introduced into almost every other country. We find that the Church of Milan, Whose Advent fast lasted 40 days, long before Rome conceded this Feast to the various dioceses of Christendom, celebrated the Office of Our Lady's Annunciation on the sixth and last Sunday of Advent, and called the whole week following the Hebdomada de Exceptato (for thus the popular expression had corrupted the word Expectato). But it, too, has given way to the Feast of Our Lady's Expectation, which the Church has established and sanctioned as a means of exciting the attention of the faithful during these last days of Advent.

Most just indeed it is, O Holy Mother of God, that we should unite in that ardent desire Thou hadst to see Him, Who had been concealed for nine months in Thy chaste womb; to know the features of this Son of the Heavenly Father, Who is also Thine; to come to that blissful hour of His birth, which will give glory to God in the highest, and on earth, peace to men of good will. Yes, dearest Mother, the time is fast approaching, though not fast enough to satisfy Thy desires and ours. Make us redouble our attention to the great mystery; complete our preparation by Thy powerful prayers for us, that when the solemn hour has come, our Jesus may find no obstacle to His entrance into our hearts.

O Virgin of virgins! How shall this be? For never was there one like Thee, nor will there ever be. Ye daughters of Jerusalem, why look ye wondering at Me? What you behold is a divine mystery.

Spiritual Crib[2] 

A special devotion that can be performed during Advent to prepare for the coming of the Infant Savior. It can be adapted for adults and/or children and applied as is appropriate to your state in life. 

·         8th day, December 18th THE MULE—Patience To practice this virtue, we must complain of no one or nothing. No shade of impatience should be seen on our countenance, nor an impatient word heard. Be brave. The Infant Jesus suffered much more for you. 

Today’s Antiphon

Come and redeem us with outstretched arm.

O Lord and Ruler of the House of Israel, who appeared to Moses in the flame of the burning bush and gave him the law on Sinai: Come and redeem us with outstretched arm.

 

·         As Moses approached the burning bush, so we approach the divine Savior in the form of a child in the crib, or in the form of the consecrated host, and falling down we adore Him. "Put off the shoes from thy feet, for the place whereon thou standest is holy ground . . . I am who am." "Come with an outstretched arm to redeem us." This is the cry of the Church for the second coming of Christ on the last day. The return of the Savior brings us plentiful redemption.[3]

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[4]

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Day 27

On this 27th day the reception of the Eucharist provides increased holiness striving to live a more virtuous life

Copilot:

The reception of the Eucharist plays a crucial role in helping Catholics strive for increased holiness and a more virtuous life through the following ways:

1.      Divine Grace: The Eucharist imparts divine grace that strengthens the soul, enabling believers to overcome sin and grow in holiness.

2.      Union with Christ: By receiving the Body and Blood of Christ, believers are united with Him in a profound way. This union transforms their hearts and minds, encouraging them to live according to Christ’s teachings.

3.      Spiritual Nourishment: The Eucharist provides spiritual nourishment that sustains and fortifies believers, giving them the strength to pursue a virtuous life.

4.      Forgiveness of Venial Sins: Participating in the Eucharist helps in the forgiveness of venial sins, which purifies the soul and renews the commitment to avoid sin.

5.      Renewed Commitment: Each reception of the Eucharist is an opportunity to renew one's commitment to living a holy life, inspired by Christ's example.

6.      Moral Strength: The grace received from the Eucharist empowers believers to resist temptations and choose virtuous actions.

7.      Inspiration to Imitate Christ: The Eucharist serves as a reminder of Christ’s love and sacrifice, inspiring believers to emulate His virtues such as humility, compassion, and selflessness.

8.      Healing and Wholeness: The Eucharist brings spiritual healing, helping believers to overcome weaknesses and grow in virtue.

9.      Sense of Community: Sharing the Eucharist with the faith community provides support and encouragement to live a virtuous life, reinforcing the collective pursuit of holiness.

10.  Peace and Focus: The inner peace and clarity gained from the Eucharist help believers focus on living according to God’s will.

11.  Reflection and Self-Examination: Preparing for and receiving the Eucharist involves self-examination, helping believers identify areas for growth in virtue.

12.  Hope and Encouragement: The Eucharist offers hope and encouragement, reinforcing the belief that holiness is achievable with God’s help.

13.  Guidance of the Holy Spirit: The Eucharist invites the Holy Spirit to work more fully in believers' lives, guiding them towards greater holiness and virtue.

By continually receiving the Eucharist, Catholics are spiritually strengthened and inspired to live out a life of increased holiness and virtue, drawing closer to God and embodying His love in the world.

Bible in a Year Day 170 Joash's Downfall

Fr. Mike looks at Joash's downfall and disobedience after the death of Jehoida. We learn how important it is to have good mentors in our lives who keep us grounded in the faith. Finally, Fr. Mike emphasizes the significance of Psalm 69 and how to properly interpret it. Today's readings are 2 Kings 1, 2 Chronicles 24, and Psalm 69.

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Absent Fathers (Physically & Spiritually)

·         Religion in the home: Preschool for December

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary

Quick Answer: Three Girls About Town (1941) is a screwball comedy about three sisters entangled in hotel chaos, labor disputes, and a missing mediator’s “corpse.” Beneath the farce, Catholic lessons emerge around family responsibility, truth versus deception, the dignity of work, and chastity in relationships.


🎬 Film Summary

  • Setting: The Merchants Hotel during overlapping conventions—morticians and aircraft labor negotiations.
  • Main Characters:
    • Hope Banner (Joan Blondell): A hostess, practical and caring.
    • Faith Banner (Binnie Barnes): Her sister, equally caught in the hotel’s reputation struggles.
    • Charity Banner (Janet Blair): The youngest, supposed to be in private school, but eager to join her sisters’ hostess work.
    • Tommy Hopkins (John Howard): A reporter in love with Hope, torn between romance and career ambition.
  • Plot Highlights:
    • A dead body (actually a mediator in suspended animation) is discovered.
    • The sisters scramble to hide it to protect the hotel’s reputation.
    • Tommy sees a scoop, complicating matters.
    • The corpse is shuffled through poker games, laundry carts, and coffins.
    • Tommy impersonates the mediator, resolves the labor dispute, and wins professional recognition.
    • The “corpse” revives, revealing hypnosis rather than death.
    • Romantic resolution: Tommy seeks to marry Hope, not Charity, despite Charity’s flirtations.
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✝️ Catholic Lessons & Reflections

Though a light comedy, the film offers moral cues that resonate with Catholic teaching:

  • Family Responsibility:

    • Hope works long hours to pay for Charity’s education. This reflects the Catholic value of sacrificial love within family, echoing Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 2214–2220) on duties of siblings and parents.
  • Truth vs. Deception:

    • Much of the comedy comes from hiding the body and lying to protect reputations. Catholic teaching warns against falsehood (CCC 2464–2487). The chaos illustrates how deception multiplies problems, while truth ultimately restores order.
  • Dignity of Work & Social Justice:

    • The labor dispute subplot highlights the importance of fair negotiation and patriotism. Catholic social teaching (e.g., Rerum Novarum) emphasizes the dignity of workers and the moral duty to seek just compromise. Tommy’s mediation echoes this principle.
  • Chastity & Proper Relationships:

    • Charity’s flirtations with Tommy, contrasted with Hope’s genuine love, underscore the virtue of chastity (CCC 2337–2349). The film humorously but clearly affirms that authentic love requires fidelity and respect, not manipulation.
  • Redemption & Resurrection Imagery:

    • The mediator’s revival from “suspended animation” can be read symbolically as a comic echo of resurrection—life restored when least expected. It reminds viewers of Christian hope in renewal and divine intervention.

📖 Takeaway

While Three Girls About Town is primarily screwball comedy, its deeper resonance lies in family sacrifice, honesty, justice in labor, and chastity in love. For Catholic reflection, it’s a reminder that even lighthearted stories can carry moral lessons when viewed through the lens of faith.



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