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The 7×5 Rule of Life-A Weekly Way of Living the Prayer Christ Taught Us
“For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory.”

The Demonic Battle Everyone Faces


1. Video Summary (U.S. Grace Force – Jesse Romero)

The video emphasizes that every person faces daily demonic pressure, not just the rare cases of possession. The battle is ordinary, subtle, and moral: temptations, discouragement, lies, and spiritual fatigue. Romero stresses that the devil’s ordinary work is to disrupt prayer, distort identity, weaken virtue, and isolate the soul. The proper response is not fear or fascination with the dramatic, but living in a state of grace, frequent Confession, sacramental life, disciplined prayer, and moral clarity. The battle is real, but Christ’s authority is greater.

2. CCC Grounding: What the Church Actually Teaches About Evil

The Catechism gives a sober, disciplined framework:

  • Evil is real but limited — Satan is a creature; his power is not equal to God (CCC 395).
  • The ordinary battle is moral — temptation, deception, and the disordering of the human heart (CCC 2846–2849).
  • Christ has already conquered — the Christian fights from victory, not toward it (CCC 2853).
  • Grace strengthens the will — the virtues, especially fortitude and prudence, order the soul against evil (CCC 1808, 1830–1832).
  • The sacraments are the Church’s weapons — Eucharist, Confession, and prayer anchor the soul in divine life (CCC 1436, 2014).
  • Spiritual warfare is primarily interior — conversion, truth, and fidelity are the battleground (CCC 1428, 1783–1785).

The CCC refuses sensationalism. It insists on clarity, sobriety, and confidence in Christ.

3. Confronting Evil: The Catholic Lens

When you integrate the video’s message with the Catechism, the pattern is unmistakable:

  • Evil is confronted by truth, not drama. The devil traffics in lies; the Christian confronts him by naming reality as God names it.
  • Evil is confronted by obedience. The disorder of sin is undone by the order of God’s commandments.
  • Evil is confronted by grace. A soul in the state of grace is beyond the devil’s dominion; this is the Church’s quiet confidence.
  • Evil is confronted by perseverance. The daily, unglamorous fidelity to prayer, virtue, and repentance is the real battleground.
  • Evil is confronted by courage. Fortitude orders fear and prevents panic, outrage, or spiritual theatrics.
  • Evil is confronted by communion. Isolation is the devil’s terrain; the Church fights as a body, not as scattered individuals.

The CCC’s message is simple and masculine: stand your ground, stay in grace, live the truth, and refuse to be moved.

Wednesday, May 13, 2026

 

Smoke in This Life and Not the Next

Wed, May 13 – The Dawn of Fatima
Virtue: Docility to Heaven
Cigar: Connecticut Shade — pale, gentle, dawn‑colored
Bourbon: Weller Special Reserve — soft, unobtrusive, quietly restorative
Reflection: “Whose care do I finally allow?”


The Devotion

May 13 is the day Heaven stepped quietly into the world’s sickroom.

Not with thunder.
Not with spectacle.
Not with force.

But with the same gentleness
as the girl in white who entered Hugette’s chamber at dawn—
modest, calm, and carrying the authority of Heaven
in the simplicity of her service.

Fatima is this same movement of God: a visitation that asks permission, a grace that does not intrude, a mercy that heals by presence rather than pressure.

The world, like Hugette, had been wounded
by its own physicians—
bled by its own cleverness,
reduced by its own pride,
left pale and fading on the bed.

And then Heaven entered the room.

A question was asked: “Will you accept My care?”

Fatima is not primarily a warning.
It is a nursing.
A tending.
A restoration offered to a dying age.

The girl in white tended the fire,
lifted the broken body,
and healed with a touch that was more mercy than miracle.

So too at Fatima: Heaven bends low,
serves quietly,
and restores what the world has nearly destroyed.

This day asks:

Where have I refused the care Heaven is offering?
Where have I insisted on healing myself?

The Virgin does not shame the wounded.
She simply enters the room at dawn
and begins to serve.

Her presence is the cure.

Pray today:

“Mother, teach me the humility
to accept the care Heaven offers.”

The Purgatory Line

A soul in Purgatory once confessed:

“I suffer here because I refused the help
that God sent me.”

Not rebellion.
Not scandal.
Not dramatic sin.

Refusal of grace.
Refusal of care.
Refusal of Heaven’s gentle intervention.

The soul brightened each night
as Blessed Stephen prayed—
its features lifting,
its clarity returning,
its wounds healing
under the mercy it once resisted.

The lesson is exact:

Purgatory is often the long undoing
of every place we insisted on doing it ourselves.

Heaven offers care.
The proud decline it.
The humble are healed by it.

Fatima is the same mercy: a visitation meant to spare the world
the fire it would otherwise choose.

The Cigar & Bourbon

Connecticut Shade — pale, gentle.
A wrapper like the garment of the girl in white,
soft but decisive,
quiet but healing.

Weller Special Reserve — soft, unobtrusive.
A bourbon that restores without demanding attention,
the way Heaven restores without spectacle.

Together they form a discipline of docility—
the willingness to be cared for
by a Love that enters quietly at dawn.

The Question for the Night Smoke

“Whose care do I finally allow?”

Not:
“What can I fix?”
but
“What healing have I refused
because I wanted to stay in control?”

Let the smoke rise like a prayer
for every place in your life
where Heaven is already standing at the bedside,
waiting for you to say yes.


MAY 13 Wednesday of the Sixth Week of Easter

Fatima Anniversary-Rogationtide-Third Shift Workers-Armed Forces

 

1 Samuel, Chapter 23, Verse 17

He said to him: “Have no FEAR, my father Saul shall not lay a hand to you. You shall be king of Israel and I shall be second to you. Even my father Saul knows this.”

 

This is the last statement of Jonathan to David where he openly acknowledges that David will be king. Jonathan does not live to see David made king. Jonathan’s visit strengthens David and attests to the hidden care of the Lord for him. During this time David is in his wilderness strongholds.

Q: There are those who say that David and Jonathan had a homosexual relationship to justify the modern homosexual agenda.

Father Edart[1]: The account in 1 Samuel 18:1-5 shows gestures and words that express a profound attachment between Jonathan and David. Although the terms used describe a real affective bond, their usual use in the Old Testament in no way allows for seeing a homosexual relationship there. For an example you can see Jacob and his son Benjamin in Genesis 44:30-31. The expression "to love as oneself" — as his soul — is frequent — Leviticus 19:18.34. The verb "to love," in a context of alliance, takes on a political dimension, the beneficiary being considered as partner or superior. Moreover, the gift that Jonathan made to David of his weapons illustrates the transfer of his prerogatives, among which was the right of succession to his father's throne. It's a political gesture. In the account, nonetheless, David ends up replacing Jonathan — 1 Samuel 23:17. Other passages, developed by Innocent Himbaza in our book, illustrate the friendship between Jonathan and David. All the gestures posed between these two men, however, can take place between parents and children — Jacob and Benjamin; between brothers — Joseph and his brothers; between father-in-law and son-in-law — Jethro and Moses; between close friends — Jonathan and David; between warriors — Saul and David, Jonathan and David; and between brothers and sisters in the faith — Paul and the Ephesians. We risk interpreting the latter asked here, but these are actually normal and usual gestures for people who feel close to one another. We can affirm that nothing in the texts we are faced with allows for seeing any homosexuality between David and Jonathan, not even implicitly. If at times an expression is ambiguous for a modern spirit, reading it in context removes that possibility.

Q: The Church preaches love of neighbor but is often reproached for wanting to put "barriers" to love, for not understanding every person's profound need to love. If the Church does not approve homosexuality, what message of hope can she give to a person who finds in homosexuality the means to give himself and to love?

Father Edart: The suffering of a homosexual person can be very great and not accessible to people who do not experience this situation. Indeed, our whole world is marked by this fundamental fact of heterosexual love. Even the Chinese civilization, hardly susceptible to having been shaped by Judeo-Christian culture, also lives this reality. In that civilization, homosexuality is also perceived as outside the norm. The homosexual person experiences an internal suffering, attested by psychological studies, but he also suffers from his confrontation with a world that very often will judge and condemn him. This rejection will often even be violent. In fact, everybody passes a phase in their psychological development of ambiguity on the sexual plane in adolescence. A person might be, for some time, attracted by persons of the same sex, without being for all that a homosexual! If this stage of growth is badly lived or unfinished, it results in psychic suffering. Subsequently, every confrontation with homosexuality will trigger this suffering, which will be translated in violent behavior. To learn to consider a homosexual person without reducing him to his sexual orientation can be difficult and lead to recognizing one's personal poverty. In the face of this situation, the Church, in fidelity to the Bible, recognizing that active homosexuality cannot be a good for the person, forcefully affirms, in the same fidelity to the word of God, that every person, regardless of his sexual orientation, has the same dignity and in no way must be the object of unjust discrimination. As every baptized person, homosexual persons are called to holiness and to live here and now a living relationship with Christ in the Church. The message of the Gospel is a source of hope for these persons and the Church witnesses to this. Christian communities can be places where people see their personal suffering accepted and understood. The latter will then be able, with the support of these communities, to seek to correspond to God's call. The development of friendly and fraternal relations lived in chastity is an important place of psychological and spiritual healing. Friendship with Christ is certainly the principal support and guide on this path. He is the best of friends. This friendship is nourished in the life of faith, prayer and the sacraments. The homosexual person desirous of progressing toward Christ will find an indispensable support there. He wants to be in alliance with each one by meeting the person just as he is and to conduct him to himself gradually with the continuous and unconditional support of his mercy. It's a long and difficult but possible path. It is certain that the development of homosexuality in our Western society is an appeal to Christians to create new places to help those who are wounded in their sexuality.

Marriage: The Gift of Love and Life[2]

C.S. Lewis once wisely observed: “When everyone is rushing headlong towards the precipice, anyone going in the opposite direction would appear to be mad.” In July of 1968, the world at large thought Pope Paul VI had lost his mind. For in that month, he issued his long-awaited encyclical Humanae Vitae (July 25, 1968), which reiterated the Church’s age-old ban on every form of contraception. A tidal wave of angry dissent erupted over the pope’s decision. Catholic and non-Catholic alike berated “the celibate old man in the Vatican” for hindering the Church’s full entry into the modern era. As we approach the fortieth anniversary of that historic document, I wish to emphasize its importance for our times.  As a backdrop for my remarks, I would like to place it in the context of its time. In the same year that Pope Paul issued Humanae Vitae, another Paul—Paul Ehrlich— published a book entitled, The Population Bomb. In that 1968 bestseller, Ehrlich made some stark predictions. For example: 

“The battle to feed humanity is over.  In the 1970s the world will undergo famines …hundreds of millions of people (including Americans) are going to starve to death…” 

Fact: Food production worldwide is well ahead of population growth, and obesity now kills 300,000 Americans a year.

“India couldn’t possibly feed two hundred million more people by 1980.” 

Fact: Since 1968 India has doubled its population by half a billion and is still self-sufficient in food.

Comparing population explosion to a cancerous tumor, Ehrlich prescribed “cutting out the cancer [too many people]” as the only remedy to save humanity.

Fact: Today Europe is dying, with most countries fluctuating around the 60% replacement level.    

Against this foreboding background, the reaction to Pope Paul’s encyclical came as no surprise, even though it only restated what the Church has taught for 2,000 years. Namely:

“There is an inseparable link between the two meanings of the marriage act: the unitive meaning [making love] and the procreative meaning [making babies].  This connection was established by God himself, and man is not permitted to break it on his own initiative.” (H.V, no. 12)      In Deuteronomy 18:21 we learn how to tell an authentic prophet from a false one: Has the prophecy materialized or not? Judged by that benchmark, Paul Ehrlich is a false prophet.  What about Paul VI?

Pope Paul predicted four dire consequences if the use of contraception escalated:

1) increased marital infidelity.

2) a general lowering of morality, especially among the young.

3) husbands viewing their wives as mere sex objects; and

4) governments forcing massive birth control programs on their people.

Forty years later the moral landscape is strewn with the following stark reality:

1) The divorce rate has more than tripled. 

2) Sexually transmitted diseases have increased from six to fifty.

3) Pornography, especially on the Internet—is a plague, addicting millions annually. 

4) Sterilization is forced on women in third world countries, with China’s one-child policy in the vanguard.

In the waning years of his life, St. Augustine wrote his mammoth work, The City of God. According to Augustine, the whole world is comprised of two communities: The City of God and the City of Man. Citizens of each city are determined not by one’s birthplace or residence, but rather by the object of one’s love: placing the love of God above self, or the love of self above God. The two cities are still with us. Paul Ehrlich and Paul VI could well serve as icons of each city. In one case, death and darkness prevail—in the other, life and light. Death or life? The choice is ours!

The Transmission of Human Life Is a Most Serious Role[3]

Married people must collaborate freely and responsibly with God the Creator. It has always been a source of great joy to them, even though it sometimes entails many difficulties and hardships. The fulfillment of this duty has always posed problems to the conscience of married people, but the recent course of human society and the concomitant changes have provoked new questions. The Church cannot ignore these questions, for they concern matters intimately connected with the life and happiness of human beings. The changes that have taken place are of considerable importance and varied in nature. In the first place there is the rapid increase in population which has made many fear that world population is going to grow faster than available resources, with the consequence that many families and developing countries would be faced with greater hardships. This can easily induce public authorities to be tempted to take even harsher measures to avert this danger. There is also the fact that not only working and housing conditions, but the greater demands made both in the economic and educational field pose a living situation in which it is frequently difficult these days to provide properly for a large family. Also noteworthy is a new understanding of the dignity of woman and her place in society, of the value of conjugal love in marriage and the relationship of conjugal acts to this love. But the most remarkable development of all is to be seen in man's stupendous progress in the domination and rational organization of the forces of nature to the point that he is endeavoring to extend this control over every aspect of his own life—over his body, over his mind and emotions, over his social life, and even over the laws that regulate the transmission of life.

Unlawful Birth Control Methods

We base Our words on the first principles of a human and Christian doctrine of marriage when We are obliged once more to declare that the direct interruption of the generative process already begun and, above all, all direct abortion, even for therapeutic reasons, are to be absolutely excluded as lawful means of regulating the number of children. Equally to be condemned, as the magisterium of the Church has affirmed on many occasions, is direct sterilization, whether of the man or of the woman, whether permanent or temporary.

Similarly excluded is any action which either before, at the moment of, or after sexual intercourse, is specifically intended to prevent procreation—whether as an end or as a means.

Neither is it valid to argue, as a justification for sexual intercourse which is deliberately contraceptive, that a lesser evil is to be preferred to a greater one, or that such intercourse would merge with procreative acts of past and future to form a single entity, and so be qualified by exactly the same moral goodness as these. Though it is true that sometimes it is lawful to tolerate a lesser moral evil in order to avoid a greater evil or in order to promote a greater good," it is never lawful, even for the gravest reasons, to do evil that good may come of it—in other words, to intend directly something which of its very nature contradicts the moral order, and which must therefore be judged unworthy of man, even though the intention is to protect or promote the welfare of an individual, of a family or of society in general. Consequently, it is a serious error to think that a whole married life of otherwise normal relations can justify sexual intercourse which is deliberately contraceptive and so intrinsically wrong

Copilot’s Take

Jonathan’s final words to David — “Have no fear… you shall be king of Israel and I shall be second to you” — set the tone for a reflection on confronting evil in any age. Standing inside a kingdom unraveling around him, Jonathan refuses to let fear distort what God has already revealed. His loyalty strengthens David and reveals the hidden care of the Lord. In a culture that manipulates language to justify its desires, this moment exposes the first battleground: the defense of truth against distortion. Modern attempts to recast the David–Jonathan relationship as homosexual are a prime example of this distortion, and as Father Edart notes, nothing in the biblical text supports such a reading. Confronting evil begins with the courage to resist the age’s pressure to rewrite Scripture according to its own appetites.

The Church’s teaching on persons with same‑sex attraction reveals a second battleground: compassion without capitulation. The dignity of every person is affirmed without surrendering the truth about the human person and the moral order. The world demands affirmation; Christ calls for conversion. The world reduces the person to his impulses; the Church insists on his capacity for holiness. Evil thrives when Christians choose cruelty in the name of orthodoxy or compromise in the name of mercy. The harder path — the Christian path — is to love the person while refusing to bless the wound. This is the terrain where charity and truth must stand together.

A third battleground emerges in the modern revolt against life itself. The contrast between Paul Ehrlich’s Population Bomb and Paul VI’s Humanae Vitae illustrates the clash between the City of Man and the City of God. Ehrlich predicted famine, collapse, and the need to “cut out the cancer” of human beings. Yet the demographic winter now gripping Europe reveals the deeper crisis: not too many people, but too little hope. Paul VI warned that widespread contraception would unleash infidelity, moral collapse, objectification, and coercive population control — predictions that have unfolded with sobering accuracy. Evil often disguises itself as progress, but its fruits expose its true nature.

A fourth battleground is the illusion of control. Modern society seeks mastery over every dimension of life — the body, emotions, social structures, and even the laws governing the transmission of life. This is the ancient temptation of Eden, now armed with technology. The desire to dominate fertility, erase sexual difference, or sever love from life is not liberation but rebellion. The Church’s prohibitions against contraception, abortion, and sterilization are not arbitrary restrictions but protections against the dehumanizing logic of self‑creation. Confronting evil requires recovering the humility to receive the human person as gift rather than project.

A fifth battleground is the virtue of fortitude — the willingness to stand against the age. C.S. Lewis observed that the one walking away from the cliff appears mad to the crowd rushing toward it. Jonathan stood with David when the kingdom was collapsing. Paul VI stood with the tradition when the world mocked him. The Church stands with the dignity of the human person when the culture demands surrender. Confronting evil requires naming lies without fear, defending life when it is inconvenient, and trusting God’s design when the world insists it can design itself.

The final battleground is hope. The choice between the City of Man and the City of God remains the defining decision of every age: death or life. Evil is loud, but it is not lasting. The witness of Jonathan, the Church’s teaching on chastity, the prophetic clarity of Humanae Vitae, and the defense of human dignity all testify that God continues to write the story. The City of Man exhausts itself; the City of God endures. In this confidence, the Christian confronts evil not with despair but with the steady courage of one who knows that light has already overcome the darkness.

Fatima[4]

All Saints’ Day was originally on May 13 in Rome, but the feast day was transferred to November 1, right at the time of harvest to provide food for the pilgrims traveling to Rome.

May 13 is the anniversary of the apparition of Our Lady to three shepherd children in the small village of Fatima in Portugal in 1917.  She appeared six times to Lucia, 9, and her cousins Francisco, 8, and his sister Jacinta, 6, between May 13, 1917, and October 13, 1917. The story of Fatima begins in 1916, when, against the backdrop of the First World War which had introduced Europe to the most horrific and powerful forms of warfare yet seen, and a year before the Communist revolution would plunge Russia and later Eastern Europe into six decades of oppression under militant atheistic governments, a resplendent figure appeared to the three children who were in the field tending the family sheep.

“I am the Angel of Peace,” said the figure, who appeared to them two more times that year exhorting them to accept the sufferings that the Lord allowed them to undergo as an act of reparation for the sins which offend Him, and to pray constantly for the conversion of sinners.

Then, on the 13th day of the month of Our Lady, May 1917, an apparition of ‘a woman all in white, more brilliant than the sun’ presented itself to the three children saying “Please don’t be afraid of me, I’m not going to harm you.” Lucia asked her where she came from and she responded, “I come from Heaven.”  The woman wore a white mantle edged with gold and held a rosary in her hand. The woman asked them to pray and devote themselves to the Holy Trinity and to “say the Rosary every day, to bring peace to the world and an end to the war.”

She also revealed that the children would suffer, especially from the unbelief of their friends and families, and that the two younger children, Francisco and Jacinta would be taken to Heaven very soon, but Lucia would live longer in order to spread her message and devotion to the Immaculate Heart.

In the last apparition the woman revealed her name in response to Lucia’s question: “I am the Lady of the Rosary.” That same day, 70,000 people had turned out to witness the apparition, following a promise by the woman that she would show the people that the apparitions were true. They saw the sun make three circles and move around the sky in an incredible zigzag movement in a manner which left no doubt in their minds about the veracity of the apparitions.  By 1930 the Bishop had approved of the apparitions and they have been approved by the Church as authentic. The messages Our Lady imparted during the apparitions to the children concerned the violent trials that would afflict the world by means of war, starvation, and the persecution of the Church and the Holy Father in the twentieth century if the world did not make reparation for sins. She exhorted the Church to pray and offer sacrifices to God in order that peace may come upon the world, and that the trials may be averted.

Our Lady of Fatima revealed three prophetic “secrets,” the first two of which were revealed earlier and refer to the vision of hell and the souls languishing there, the request for an ardent devotion to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, the prediction of the Second World War, and finally the prediction of the immense damage that Russia would do to humanity by abandoning the Christian faith and embracing Communist totalitarianism. 

The third “secret” was not revealed until the year 2000 and referred to the persecutions that humanity would undergo in the last century: “The good will be martyred; the Holy Father will have much to suffer; various nations will be annihilated'”.  The suffering of the popes of the 20th century has been interpreted to include the assassination attempt on Pope John Paul II in 1981, which took place on May 13, the 64th anniversary of the apparitions. The Holy Father attributed his escape from certain death to the intervention of Our Lady: “... it was a mother's hand that guided the bullet's path and in his throes the Pope halted at the threshold of death.” What is the central meaning of the message of Fatima?

Nothing different from what the Church has always taught: it is, as Cardinal Ratzinger, the former Pope Benedict the XVI, has put it, “the exhortation to prayer as the path of “salvation for souls” and, likewise, the summons to penance and conversion.” Perhaps the most well-known utterance of the apparition of Our Lady at Fatima was her confident declaration that “My Immaculate Heart will triumph”. Cardinal Ratzinger has interpreted this utterance as follows: “The Heart open to God, purified by contemplation of God, is stronger than guns and weapons of every kind. The fiat of Mary, the word of her heart, has changed the history of the world, because it brought the Savior into the world—because, thanks to her Yes, God could become man in our world and remains so for all time. The Evil One has power in this world, as we see and experience continually; he has power because our freedom continually lets itself be led away from God. But since God himself took a human heart and has thus steered human freedom towards what is good, the freedom to choose evil no longer has the last word. From that time forth, the word that prevails is this: “In the world you will have tribulation but take heart; I have overcome the world” (Jn 16:33). The message of Fatima invites us to trust in this promise.

Rogationtide Wednesday[5]

Today would be a good day to reflect on what we want to harvest this fall; so, like farmers we must till the soil of our soul reflecting this day on our use of our TREASURE (yes money/tithe) and look at in what ways we may offer our money to Christ to help build a harvest for His Kingdom. It has been said that money is the root of all evil. Yet, this is not exactly true for the real root of all evil is not money but the LOVE of money. Those who fear the Lord know that money is a gift from God. It is not to be buried but sown. This is the correction that God wishes us to accept. We are all sowers, and we are to spread the seeds or gifts that God gives us out.

 

Does God need a tithe from us? Or Does God need our hearts free from the love of money?

 

Do not make my house a marketplace. For love of money or the lust for money is what corrupts men not the money itself.

 

Donate a Day Wages to a Charity Day[6]

We all have causes that we care about, problems we want to see erased from society, and issues that have affected us deeply throughout our lives. However, most people are busy and haven’t had the time or opportunity to dedicate as much as they would want to charities and the causes of their choice. Donate A Day’s Wages to Charity Day is there to change that. Whether you have trouble keeping up with charitable donations and you want to make a difference or you believe that you should make a pledge that matters once a year, it’s the day to do it.

Your Money or Your Life[7]

 

At this tense moment in our history, when external wars and internal violence make us so conscious of death, an affirmation of the sanctity of human life by renewed attention to the family is imperative. Let society always be on the side of life. Let it never dictate, directly or indirectly, recourse to the prevention of life or to its destruction in any of its phases; neither let it require as a condition of economic assistance that any family yield conscientious determination of the number of its children to the decision of persons or agencies outside the family. Stepped-up pressures for moral and legal acceptance of directly procured abortion make necessary pointed reference to this threat to the right to life. Reverence for life demands freedom from direct interruption of life once it is conceived. Conception initiates a process whose purpose is the realization of human personality. A human person, nothing more and nothing less, is always at issue once conception has taken place. We expressly repudiate any contradictory suggestion as contrary to Judeo-Christian traditions inspired by love for life, and Anglo-Saxon legal traditions protective of life and the person. Abortion brings to an end with irreversible finality both the existence and the destiny of the developing human person.

 

·         Conscious of the inviolability of life, the Second Vatican Council teaches: God, the Lord of life, has conferred on man the surpassing ministry of safeguarding life, a ministry which must be fulfilled in a manner that is worthy of man. Therefore, from the moment of its conception life must be guarded with the greatest care while abortion and infanticide are unspeakable crimes (Gaudium et Spes, 51).

·         The judgment of the Church on the evil of terminating life derives from the Christian awareness that men are not the masters but the ministers of life. Hence, the Council declares: Whatever is opposed to life itself, such as any type of murder, genocide, abortion, euthanasia, or willful self-destruction, whatever violates the integrity of the human person...all these things and others of their like are infamies indeed. They poison human society, but they do more harm to those who practice them than those who suffer from the injury. Moreover, they are a supreme dishonor to the Creator" (Gaudium et Spes, 27)

 

Fairness is a word that means physical beauty. In a sense God is asking us to not do those things that mar the physical beauty of another. This means is essence that we need to nourish each other and to give to share with other the gifts we receive from God. This means to respect each person as a person, physically, mentally, and emotionally; to provide for their welfare. One of the greatest ways we can honor our creator is in how we deal fairly with ourselves, our families, our friends, and those who we detest or are our enemies.

Christ gave us the ultimate example of fairness:

Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, they know not what they do.” They divided his garments by casting lots. (Luke 23:34)

Charity is an act of fairness and justice.

 In which you give the other their due[8]

Traditional Jews give at least ten percent of their income to charity.

·         Traditional Jewish homes commonly have a pushke, a box for collecting coins for the poor, and coins are routinely placed in the box. Jewish youths are continually going from door to door collecting for various worthy causes.

·         A standard mourner's prayer includes a statement that the mourner will make a donation to charity in memory of the deceased.

·         In many ways, charitable donation has taken the place of animal sacrifice in Jewish life: giving to charity is an almost instinctive Jewish response to express thanks to G-d, to ask forgiveness from G-d, or to request a favor from G-d.

·         According to Jewish tradition, the spiritual benefit of giving to the poor is so great that a beggar actually does the giver a favor by giving a person the opportunity to perform tzedakah.

The Meaning of the Word "Tzedakah"

"Tzedakah" is the Hebrew word for the acts that we call "charity" in English: giving aid, assistance and money to the poor and needy or to other worthy causes.

·         The nature of tzedakah is very different from the idea of charity. The word "charity" suggests benevolence and generosity, a magnanimous act by the wealthy and powerful for the benefit of the poor and needy.

·         The word "tzedakah" is derived from the Hebrew root Tzadei-Dalet-Qof, meaning righteousness, justice or fairness.

·         In Judaism, giving to the poor is not viewed as a generous, magnanimous act; it is simply an act of justice and righteousness, the performance of a duty, giving the poor their due.

The Obligation of Tzedakah

Giving to the poor is an obligation in Judaism, a duty that cannot be forsaken even by those who are themselves in need.

·         Tzedakah is the highest of all commandments, equal to all of them combined, and that a person who does not perform tzedakah is equivalent to an idol worshipper.

·         This is probably hyperbole, but it illustrates the importance of tzedakah in Jewish thought.

·         Tzedakah is one of the three acts that gain us forgiveness from our sins.

·         The High Holiday liturgy repeatedly states that G-d has inscribed a judgment against all who have sinned, but teshuvah (repentance), tefilah (prayer) and tzedakah can alleviate the decree. See Days of Awe.

·         According to Jewish law, we are required to give one-tenth of our income to the poor.

·         This is generally interpreted as one-tenth of our net income after payment of taxes.

·         Taxes themselves do not fulfill our obligation to give tzedakah, even though a significant portion of tax revenues in America and many other countries are used to provide for the poor and needy.

·         Those who are dependent on public assistance or living on the edge of subsistence may give less, but must still give to the extent they are able; however, no person should give so much that he would become a public burden.

·         The obligation to perform tzedakah can be fulfilled by giving money to the poor, to health care institutions, to synagogues or to educational institutions.

·         It can also be fulfilled by supporting your children beyond the age when you are legally required to, or supporting your parents in their old age.

·         The obligation includes giving to both Jews and gentiles; contrary to popular belief, Jews do not just "take care of our own." Quite the contrary, a study reported in the Jewish Journal indicated that Jewish "mega-donors" (who give more than $10 million a year to charity) found that only 6% of their mega-dollars went to specifically Jewish causes.

·         Judaism acknowledges that many people who ask for charity have no genuine need. In fact, the Talmud suggests that this is a good thing: if all people who asked for charity were in genuine need, we would be subject to punishment (from G-d) for refusing anyone who asked.

·         The existence of frauds diminishes our liability for failing to give to all who ask, because we have some legitimate basis for doubting the beggar's sincerity.

·         It is permissible to investigate the legitimacy of a charity before donating to it.

·         We have an obligation to avoid becoming in need of tzedakah.

·         A person should take any work that is available, even if he thinks it is beneath his dignity, to avoid becoming a public charge.

·         However, if a person is truly in need and has no way to obtain money on his own, he should not feel embarrassed to accept tzedakah.

·         No person should feel too proud to take money from others.

·         It is considered a transgression to refuse tzedakah. One source says that to make yourself suffer by refusing to accept tzedakah is equivalent to shedding your own blood.

Levels of Tzedakah

Certain kinds of tzedakah are considered more meritorious than others. The Talmud describes these different levels of tzedakah, and Rambam organized them into a list. The levels of charity, from the least meritorious to the most meritorious, are:

  1. Giving begrudgingly
  2. Giving less than you should but giving it cheerfully.
  3. Giving after being asked
  4. Giving before being asked
  5. Giving when you do not know the recipient's identity, but the recipient knows your identity.
  6. Giving when you know the recipient's identity, but the recipient doesn't know your identity.
  7. Giving when neither party knows the other's identity.
  8. ENABLING THE RECIPIENT TO BECOME SELF-RELIANT. (If only this was the goal of our politicians rather than steal from those who are self-reliant (work) to give to their supporters).

 

Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.

 

Are these words just words highlighted by men during the age of enlightenment or are they the inspired will of the creator?

 

America is special in that the founders realized this when they wrote our constitution which was established to ensure that laws are enacted and enforced that support life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Much of our misery in this country is caused by laws that reverse the order ensuring that wealth trumps liberty and liberty trumps life. No, it must be life first.

The transmission of human life is a most serious role in which married people collaborate freely and responsibly with God the Creator. It has always been a source of great joy to them, even though it sometimes entails many difficulties and hardships.

The fulfillment of this duty has always posed problems to the conscience of married people, but the recent course of human society and the concomitant changes have provoked new questions. The Church cannot ignore these questions, for they concern matters intimately connected with the life and happiness of human beings.

The protection of Life has primacy.

·         If we are the children of the creator, we know that life must be protected at conception to its natural end.

·         We must seek the dignity of the unborn, the living and the aged in our laws and traditions.

Are you into composting?[9]

When Americans die, most are buried or cremated. Washington could soon become the first state to allow another option: human composting. The novel approach, known as “recomposition,” involves placing bodies in a vessel and hastening their decomposition into a nutrient-dense soil that can then be returned to families. The aim is a less expensive way of dealing with human remains that is better for the environment than burial, which can leach chemicals into the ground, or cremation, which releases earth-warming carbon dioxide.

“People from all over the state who wrote to me are very excited about the prospect of becoming a tree or having a different alternative for themselves,” said state Sen. Jamie Pedersen, a Democrat, who is sponsoring a bill in Washington’s Legislature to expand the options for disposing of human remains. The recomposition bill would also make Washington the 17th state to allow alkaline hydrolysis, the dissolving of bodies in a pressurized vessel with water and lye until just liquid and bone remains. Pedersen plans to introduce the bill when the new legislative session begins next month.

Well, I guess we wouldn’t have to depend on Russia for fertilizer

This is scary, sounds like the movie “Soylent Green” was prophetic. Maybe if you are over fifty you need to stay healthy as possible for as long as you can.

Bible in a year Day 312 Conclusion to the Old Testament

Fr Mike celebrates the accomplishment of reading the entire Old Testament and wraps up the books of 2 Maccabees and Wisdom, talking through the key themes of the Old Testament visible in the conclusions to these books. He also discusses the motivation of the Maccabees to defend the temple and maintain its purity as well as uphold God’s honor. Today’s readings are from 2 Maccabees 15, Wisdom 19, and Proverbs 25:21-23

 

Third Shift Workers’ Day

 

Most people work during the day, which is lucky for them. Third Shift Workers’ Day celebrates those who lead more nocturnal lives. Do you ever spare a thought for the nurses, fire-fighters, supermarket shelf-fillers, and all the other brave people that work the graveyard shift while you sleep soundly in your soft, warm bed?

 

They are the people that really keep the world turning, yet they might as well be invisible as far as most of us are concerned. Inhabiting the strange, monochromatic world of dreams, they keep us safe from harm, make sure our packages are delivered on time, and see to it that our morning croissant is freshly baked. Now come on and drink a toast to the health of third shift workers everywhere. Lets face it, what with the ravages wreaked on their immune systems from having their body clock messed around so much, theyll be grateful for it!

 

Armed Forces Day Build Up

 

US Navy[10]

John Barry, an Irish Catholic, was the "Father of the American Navy." He has been forgotten by all but a few historians, but he outranks John Paul Jones and was the official father of the Continental and U.S. Naval forces. He went to sea at a young age in Ireland and settled in Philadelphia. In October 1775, John was given command of the Continental Congress vessel, the Leviathan, and his commission, the first issued, was dated Dec. 7, 1775. When the war began, John Barry served in a spectacular manner. If his ship was shot out from under him, he and his crew battled on land. They were with George Washington at Trenton and Princeton. At the end of the war, Congress enacted on March 27, 1794, a law establishing the U.S. Navy. The U. S. Senate issued the appointments of officers made by George Washington, and John Barry's commission reads: "Captain of the U.S. Navy...to take rank from the 4th day of June, 1784...registered No. 1." With victory in hand at the end of the Revolutionary War, Americans in cities, towns and villages chanted a new ditty:

'Irish Commodore'

"There are gallant hearts whose glory

Columbia loves to name,

Whose deeds shall live in story

And everlasting fame.

But never yet one braver

Our starry baner bore,

Then saucy old Jack Barry,

The Irish Commodore."


Please pray for the intentions of my dear friend from my South Pole adventure and the Godfather of my daughter Claire, the eminent Navy Chief James Grace.



Here is a link where you can get a copy of the book or audible of Jimmy and my adventure at the south pole.


Around the Corn
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Try Catholic Recipe: Portuguese Chicken

o   Spirit Hour: Top Gun Cocktail

o   National Pet Month

o   Red Cross Month

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Victims of clergy sexual abuse

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Make reparations to the Holy Face

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan




RUBY GENTRY (1952)

Jennifer Jones • Charlton Heston • Karl Malden

A Southern‑Gothic melodrama where class, desire, and vengeance twist together in a Carolina swamp town that punishes anyone who dares to cross its invisible lines. Directed by King Vidor, the film gives Jennifer Jones one of her fiercest roles—raw, wounded, and uncontainable—while Charlton Heston plays the proud, restless man who wants her body but not her name, and Karl Malden embodies the tragic decency of a man who tries to lift a woman the town refuses to let rise.

1. Production & Historical Setting

Released in 1952 by 20th Century‑Fox, Ruby Gentry stands at the crossroads of:

Southern Gothic fatalism — swamps, storms, decaying aristocracy, and a community that polices class boundaries with religious fervor.
Post‑war American anxiety — prosperity on the surface, resentment and inequality underneath.
The rise of the “dangerous woman” archetype — not a femme fatale, but a woman whose independence threatens the social order.
Charlton Heston’s early persona — masculine pride, ambition, and the inability to love a woman who doesn’t fit the mold.
King Vidor’s moral landscapes — where nature mirrors the soul: storms for rage, swamps for secrets, and lightning for judgment.

The world is small: country roads, hunting cabins, church pews, backwater docks, and the Gentry mansion where wealth cannot buy acceptance.

But the moral terrain is vast— class cruelty, sexual hypocrisy, vengeance, shame, and the cost of loving someone you’re too proud to claim.

The cultural backdrop:

  • A rigid Southern caste system masquerading as morality
  • The humiliation of poverty in a community obsessed with appearances
  • The post‑war shift in gender roles—women refusing to stay in their assigned place
  • The American myth of upward mobility colliding with the reality of inherited status
  • Religion as both refuge and weapon

The film’s power lies in its contrasts: Jones’s volcanic emotional force, Heston’s masculine pride and confusion, Malden’s wounded gentleness, and a Carolina town that feels like a moral swamp—beautiful, dangerous, and unforgiving.

2. Story Summary

Ruby Corey (Jennifer Jones)
Poor. Beautiful. Wild.
Raised in the swamps, marked by poverty, and judged by a town that loves her beauty but despises her origins.

She has always loved:

Boake Tackman (Charlton Heston)
A once‑wealthy landowner’s son—proud, ambitious, and too class‑bound to marry a girl from the wrong side of the river.
He desires Ruby, but he will not claim her.

When Boake marries a wealthy woman for status, Ruby—humiliated and heartbroken—accepts the proposal of:

Jim Gentry (Karl Malden)
A wealthy, older widower who once sheltered her and genuinely loves her.
Ruby does not love him, but she accepts the safety and dignity he offers.

The town rejects her anyway.
She is too poor for the rich, too proud for the poor, and too beautiful for the women who fear her.

A public confrontation between Jim and Boake ends in violence.
Soon after, Jim dies in a boating accident—
and the whispers begin:

Did Ruby let him drown?
Did she marry for money?
Did she kill for freedom?

Now wealthy and scorned, Ruby turns her inheritance into a weapon.

She calls in debts.
Shuts down businesses.
Crushes the people who humiliated her.
And yet she remains bound to Boake—
a toxic, irresistible bond that pulls them toward a violent, storm‑lit end.

3. Spiritual & Moral Resonances

A. The Wound of Class

Ruby’s suffering is not just personal—it is structural.

The film exposes how communities enforce invisible hierarchies with gossip, religion, and shame.

B. Desire Without Courage

Boake wants Ruby’s fire but not her story.

His failure is not lust—it is cowardice.

C. Vengeance as a False Salvation

Ruby’s revenge is understandable, even righteous,

but it cannot heal the wound of being unwanted.

Vengeance clarifies nothing; it only deepens the swamp.

D. The Tragedy of Misread Strength

Ruby’s independence is interpreted as sin.

Her beauty is treated as a threat.

Her poverty is treated as a stain.

The film reveals how communities punish women who refuse to be small.

E. Judgment Without Mercy

The town’s religiosity is a mask.

Its morality is cruelty dressed as righteousness.

Ruby becomes a symbol of what happens when a woman refuses to bow to a corrupt moral order.

4. Hospitality Pairing — The Carolina Storm Spread

A pour of Wild Turkey 101 — bold, earthy, unrefined, the drink of a woman who refuses to apologize for her strength.
A Maduro cigar — dark, humid, swamp‑rich, echoing Ruby’s emotional depth and the film’s Southern heat.
Pecan pralines — sweetness with a burn, like Ruby’s love for Boake.
A weathered leather journal — the place where a man confronts the pride, desire, and fear he hides from the world.

A setting for nights when you want to reflect on class, desire, and the cost of refusing to stay in your assigned place.

5. Reflection Prompts

  • Where have I allowed pride or fear to keep me from claiming what I truly love.
  • What wounds from my past still shape how I see myself today.
  • Who have I judged based on class, background, or reputation rather than truth.
  • Where am I tempted to use power or success as a form of revenge.
  • What part of my story still needs mercy instead of shame.

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