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Monday, February 16, 2026

 🔸 February 2026 – Mercy & Hidden Grace

  • Feb 2 – Black Narcissus (1947)
  • Feb 9 – The Fugitive (1947)
  • Feb 16 – Au Hasard Balthasar (1966)
  • Feb 23 – The Lady’s Not for Burning (1974)


Au Hasard Balthasar (1966) is one of those rare films that feels less like a story and more like a parable carved into celluloid. Given your love for Catholic moral architecture, symbolic storytelling, and the transmission of virtue through suffering, this one sits right in your wheelhouse.

Au Hasard Balthasar (1966)

Director: Robert Bresson

Genre: Spiritual Drama

Plot Summary

Balthasar, a humble donkey, passes through the hands of several owners in a rural French village. Each owner represents a different human vice or wound: childish innocence, adolescent cruelty, greed, lust, pride, and spiritual blindness.

Parallel to Balthasar’s journey is the story of Marie, a young woman whose purity and dignity are slowly eroded by the sins of others — especially the violent delinquent Gérard.

Balthasar endures beatings, exploitation, forced labor, and neglect, yet he remains steady, patient, and strangely holy. In the final sequence, wounded and burdened, he wanders into a field of sheep. The flock surrounds him like a living halo as he lies down and dies — a quiet, wordless martyrdom.

Major Themes

1. Innocence in a Fallen World

Balthasar is not a symbol of naïveté but of uncontaminated goodness. He absorbs the world’s cruelty without returning it.
He is the “beast of burden” in the most biblical sense — a silent Christ-figure.

2. The Banality of Sin

Bresson refuses melodrama. The sins inflicted on Balthasar and Marie are small, everyday, almost casual.
This is the film’s moral sting: evil often advances through ordinary people doing ordinary harm.

3. The Mystery of Suffering

Balthasar’s suffering is not redemptive in a transactional sense. It is redemptive because it reveals the truth about the human heart.
He becomes a mirror: each person’s treatment of him exposes their soul.

4. Grace Hidden in the Ordinary

Bresson’s Catholic imagination is austere. Grace is not loud.
It flickers in gestures: a child’s affection, a moment of tenderness, the sheep gathering around the dying donkey like a wordless absolution.

Catholic Resonances

Christological Echoes

  • Balthasar’s burdens mirror the Stations of the Cross.
  • His final resting among sheep evokes the Good Shepherd and the Paschal Lamb.
  • His silence recalls Isaiah’s Suffering Servant:
    “He opened not his mouth.”

Marie as a Marian Figure

Her name is not accidental.
She suffers not because she is guilty, but because she is good.
Her purity is assaulted by the world’s disorder — a meditation on how sin disfigures the innocent.

The Donkey in Salvation History

From Balaam’s donkey to the donkey that carries Christ into Jerusalem, Scripture consistently uses the humble animal as a vessel of revelation.
Balthasar continues that lineage:
a creature who sees clearly while humans remain blind.

Moral Takeaway

Holiness is often unnoticed.
Suffering borne with patience becomes a quiet testimony.
And the measure of a soul is revealed in how it treats the powerless.

Hospitality Pairing: Austerity with Dignity

This film demands a pairing that honors its simplicity and spiritual gravity.

Drink: A Rustic French Table Wine

  • A modest red from the Languedoc or Rhône
  • Unpretentious, earthy, slightly rough
  • The kind of wine peasants would drink at a wooden table after a day’s labor

It matches the film’s rural setting and its theology of the ordinary.

Food: Pain de Campagne with Salted Butter

  • Thick slices of country bread
  • High-quality cultured butter
  • Nothing fancy — just honest, nourishing, elemental

This is hospitality stripped to its bones, mirroring Bresson’s filmmaking.

Atmosphere

  • Dim lighting
  • Silence before and after the film
  • A posture of receptivity rather than entertainment

This is not a movie night; it’s a meditation.

Ramadan in Kuwait Highlights-Christopher’s day, I pause to remember the year my son spent stationed in Kuwait — a year marked not only by desert heat and military duty, but by the rhythm of Ramadan that shapes life across the country. During that month, the days grow quiet as the nation fasts from sunrise to sunset. Restaurants close, streets slow, and even the air feels still. But when the sun drops, Kuwait comes alive: families gather for iftar, mosques fill for Taraweeh prayers, and the city glows with a kind of nighttime warmth and hospitality unique to the Gulf.

Christopher lived inside that rhythm — respecting the fasting hours, adjusting to shortened work schedules, and watching a whole culture reorder itself around prayer, charity, and self‑discipline. It takes humility to serve in a place where the customs are so different, and strength to do it with steadiness and respect. That year didn’t just test him; it shaped him. It added depth, patience, and a quiet resilience that only comes from serving far from home. His time in Kuwait is part of his legacy now — a chapter of courage I carry with pride.

Christopher’s Corner

·         Eat waffles and Pray for the assistance of the Angels

·         Try[6]The world's most famous roast suckling pig

·         Carnival Time begins in Catholic Countries.

·         Bucket List trip: Chocolate Shop in Madrid

·         Spirit hour Derby Cocktail

·         MondayLitany of Humility

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         How to celebrate Feb 16th

o   Islander Day is a midwinter pause built especially for Prince Edward Island

o   National Hot Breakfast Month

o   National Fasting February

🕯️ Bucket List Trip [3] – Part 17: USA 70 Degree Year Journey

Dates: February 16–22, 2026
Theme: Southern Ordinary Time – Roots, Renewal & the Quiet Work of Grace
Route: Charleston → Savannah → Tybee Island → St. Simons → Jekyll Island
Style: Lowcountry–coastal blend, contemplative Ordinary Time, Eucharistic grounding
Climate Alignment: Daily highs 68–72°F (Savannah / Georgia Coast)

💰 Estimated Cost Overview

Category

Estimated Cost

Lodging (6 nights)

~$710 (mid‑range inns)

Food (daily meals)

~$250

Transit (rental car only)

~$180 (continuing from Charleston)

Symbolic extras

~$70

Total Estimate

~$1,210

🛏️ Lodging Options

Savannah: The Marshall House

Jekyll Island: Jekyll Island Club Resort

🌠 Day 1 – Monday, February 16

Location: Savannah – Cathedral Basilica of St. John the Baptist
Symbol: Roots of Faith
Ritual Prompt: “Let your roots deepen where beauty meets devotion.”
Afternoon visit; pray a decade for steadfastness in Ordinary Time.
🥗 Foodie Stop: The Collins Quarter (~$26)

🌿 Day 2 – Tuesday, February 17

Location: Savannah Historic District – Live Oaks & Squares
Symbol: Enduring Grace
Ritual Prompt: “Walk slowly—grace grows in the shade.”
Stroll through Chippewa Square, Lafayette Square, and Forsyth Park.
🍲 Foodie Stop: Mrs. Wilkes’ Dining Room (~$25)

🌊 Day 3 – Wednesday, February 18

Location: Tybee Island – North Beach & Lighthouse
Symbol: Steady Light
Ritual Prompt: “Let the lighthouse remind you to stand firm.”
Beach walk + reflection on constancy and direction.
🥘 Foodie Stop: The Crab Shack (~$28)

🕊️ Day 4 – Thursday, February 19

Location: St. Simons Island – Christ Church, Frederica
Symbol: Quiet Renewal
Ritual Prompt: “Return to the quiet places where God restores you.”
Visit the historic church; journal beneath the moss‑covered oaks.
🍷 Foodie Stop: Southern Soul Barbeque (~$22)

🌴 Day 5 – Friday, February 20

Location: St. Simons – Driftwood Beach
Symbol: Beauty in the Broken
Ritual Prompt: “Let the weathered wood teach you resilience.”
Morning walk; reflect on God’s work through imperfect things.
🧺 Foodie Stop: Palmer’s Village Café (~$18)


 Day 6 – Saturday, February 21

Location: Jekyll Island – Historic District
Symbol: Stewardship
Ritual Prompt: “Honor the gifts entrusted to you.”
Explore the cottages; reflect on legacy, responsibility, and vocation.
🍽️ Foodie Stop: The Wharf (~$28)

🌠 Day 7 – Sunday, February 22 (Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time)

Location: Jekyll Island – St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church (Brunswick)
Symbol: Mercy in Action
Ritual Prompt: “Love your enemies—pray for those who hurt you.”
Sunday Mass + blog reflection: “Lowcountry Roots & the Quiet Work of Grace.”
🍷 Foodie Stop: Indigo Coastal Shanty (~$30)

February 16 Shrovetide Monday

Holy Face Day 9-Novena for the 25th Day-Presidents Day-Winter’s Back Breaks-Ramadan

Numbers, Chapter 14, Verse 9

Only do not rebel against the LORD! You need not be AFRAID of the people of the land, for they are but food for us! Their protection has left them, but the LORD is with us. Do not fear them.”

 

There’s a happy thought. The Israelites were a hard people, but little did they know that God would turn that around to Him being food for us. Yes, we are all hard people. Yes, we eat our young. Look at the comments coming out of Planned Parenthood about making so much money from tissue sales they will be driving Lamborghinis.

 

Looking at the world we can see that more and more there is a battle between the light and the dark. Look at advertising, marketing, media, politics; all are fighting either for Him who is or him who thinks he is. Choose but choose to wisely-do not fear them.

 

Our Lady tells us the battle is already won-their protection has left them!

 

Copilot’s Take

 

In both Scripture and the news, evil always tries the same tactic: intimidation. The spies in Numbers saw giants and fortified cities; today we see institutions captured by ideology, the casual devaluing of human life, and a culture that treats moral clarity as extremism. But the biblical punchline remains unchanged—their protection has left them. Evil is loud precisely because it is hollow. When a society builds its power on lies, the façade eventually cracks. The Church’s task is not to match the world’s volume but to stand in the quiet, immovable confidence that comes from belonging to the Lord. Fear is the enemy’s first victory; fidelity is the Lord’s first triumph.

 

At the same time, confronting evil today requires more than denunciation. It demands the kind of luminous witness that exposes darkness simply by existing. When the Church defends the unborn, protects the poor, refuses corruption, and forms consciences instead of crowds, she becomes the “Joshua and Caleb” of our age—men and women who see the same landscape as everyone else but interpret it through the presence of God rather than the power of the enemy. The news may highlight chaos, scandal, and decline, but the deeper story is the same one Our Lady repeats at every apparition: the battle is already won. Our role is to live as if that victory is real, to walk into the land without fear, and to let our courage become food for the fainthearted who still believe the giants are in charge.

Shrovetide Monday-Carnival Port of Spain, Trinidad and Tobago[1]

You can’t really understand Trinidad unless you come for Carnival, or mas (for masquerade), as it’s locally known. Trinidad is a melting pot of West African, East Indian, Chinese, South American, and European, which has influenced both its music and Carnival itself. The country’s West African roots gave birth to the steel pan (or steel drum, originally made from empty oil barrels), calypso music, and its more recent souped-up version, soca (“soul-calypso”), which makes this Carnival the loudest and wildest in all the Caribbean.

It’s the national obsession, with Port of Spain at its heart. Bands and masqueraders begin their preparations a year in advance. Things start to hum after Christmas, gradually building to a crescendo of rehearsals, concerts, open-air fêtes, and calypso duels. The final 2-day explosion of color, music, and unbridled excess officially kicks off at 4 A.M. on Carnival Monday with the “opening day” parade called J’Ouvert (pronounced joo-VAY). Fueled by copious amounts of beer, revelers covered in mud, grease, body paint, and chocolate form a mass of happy humanity as they follow trucks blasting soca and “chip” (dance) until sunrise.

Monday (“old mas”) continues with bands and dancers along a 6-mile parade route. The glitter and glamorous costumes of “pretty mas” are saved for Shrove Tuesday (Mardi Gras), the day before Ash Wednesday. Tens of thousands take to the streets in costume (often sequined bikinis and feather headdresses), with groups as large as 3,000 in identical costume following flatbed trucks carrying steel bands competing for the title of “Masquerade Band of the Year.” Getups are at their most extravagant for the Kings and Queens Costume Competition— some can weigh up to 200 pounds (and are attached to wheels for mobility) and incorporate fog, fireworks, and other special effects. “Pan” bands with as many as 100 musicians perform nonstop in a riotous celebration of King Carnival.

Rosenmontag[2]

(English: Rose Monday) is the highlight of the German Karneval (carnival), and takes place on the Shrove Monday before Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent. Mardi Gras, though celebrated on Fat Tuesday, is a similar event. Rosenmontag is celebrated in German-speaking countries, including Germany, Austria, Switzerland and Belgium (Eupen, Kelmis), but most heavily in the carnival strongholds which include the Rhineland, especially in Cologne, Bonn, Düsseldorf, Aachen and Mainz. In contrast to Germany, in Austria, the highlight of the carneval is not Rosenmontag, but Shrove Tuesday.

The name for the carnival comes from the German dialect word roose meaning "frolic" and Montag meaning Monday.

Overview

The Karneval season begins at 11 minutes past the eleventh hour on 11 November and the "street carnival" starts on the Thursday before Rosenmontag, which is known as Weiberfastnacht ("women's carnival", Fat Thursday). Karneval is prevalent in Roman Catholic areas and is a continuation of the old Roman traditions of slaves and servants being master for a day. Karneval derives from the Latin carnem levare ("taking leave of meat") marking the beginning of Lent.

Carnival is not a national holiday in Germany, but schools are closed on Rosenmontag and the following Tuesday in the strongholds and many other areas. Many schools as well as companies tend to give teachers, pupils and employees the Thursday before Rosenmontag off as well and have celebrations in school or in the working place on Weiberfastnacht, although every now and then there are efforts to cut these free holidays in some companies.

Celebrations usually include dressing up in fancy costumes, dancing, parades, heavy drinking and general public displays with floats. Every town in the Karneval areas boasts at least one parade with floats making fun of the themes of the day. Usually sweets (Kamelle) are thrown into the crowds lining the streets among cries of Helau or Alaaf, whereby the cry Kölle Alaaf is only applied in the Cologne CarnivalAlaaf stems from or Alle af, Ripuarian for "all [others] away". Sweets and tulips are thrown into the crowd.

The celebrations become quieter the next day, known as Veilchendienstag ("Violet Tuesday", Shrove Tuesday), and end with Ash Wednesday.

NOVENA TO THE HOLY FACE

DAILY PREPARATORY PRAYER

 O Most Holy and Blessed Trinity, through the intercession of Holy Mary, whose soul was pierced through by a sword of sorrow at the sight of the passion of her Divine Son, we ask your help in making a perfect Novena of reparation with Jesus, united with all His sorrows, love and total abandonment.

We now implore all the Angels and Saints to intercede for us as we pray this Holy Novena to the Most Holy Face of Jesus and for the glory of the most Holy Trinity, Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ninth Day

Psalm 51, 18-21.

For in sacrifice you take no delight, burnt offering from me you would refuse, my sacrifice a contrite spirit. A humbled, contrite heart you will not spurn. In your goodness, show favor to Zion; rebuild the walls of Jerusalem Then you will be pleased with lawful sacrifice, holocausts offered on your altar.

Sacred Face of our Lord and our God, what words can we do to express our gratitude? How can we speak of our joy? That you have deigned to hear us, that you have chosen to answer us in our hour of need. We say this because we know that our prayers will be granted. We know that you, in your loving kindness, listened to our pleading hearts, and will give, out of your fullness, the answer to our problems. Mary, our Mother, thank you for your intercession on our behalf. Saint Joseph, thank you for your prayers.

Through the merits of your precious blood and your Holy Face, O Jesus, grant us our petition, Pardon and Mercy.

Prayer to the Holy Trinity

Most Holy Trinity, Godhead indivisible, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, our first beginning and our last end. Since you have made us after your own image and likeness, grant that all the thoughts of our minds, all the words of our tongues, all the affections of our hearts and all our actions may be always conformed to your most Holy Will, so that after having seen you here on earth in appearances and in a dark manner by the means of faith, we may come at last to contemplate you face to face, in the perfect possession of you forever in paradise. Amen.

Pray one (1) Our Father, (3) Hail Mary’s, (1) Glory Be.
O Bleeding Face, O Face Divine, be every adoration Thine. (Three times

The Devil and Temptations[3]

There are many and varied ways in which sin and evil are presented to us in an attractive way.

Hypnotism.

·         Although hypnotism is now used sometimes by respectable doctors, dentists, and therapists, it was linked in the past with the occult and with superstition.

·         Even when it is legitimate, there are certain real dangers that must be very carefully considered. In hypnotism, one surrenders for a time his own capacity to reason; there is a dependence of the one hypnotized on the will of the hypnotist; also, there can be unfortunate aftereffects that result from this technique.

·         Except for a very serious reason, avoid submitting to a hypnotist; never do it for the purpose of entertainment.

Music.

In our day, hard rock music played by "satanic" musical groups presents additional problems. This music often glorifies Satan and also, at times, awakens desires to commit suicide, to use drugs, and to misuse sex. The music is also known to encourage physical violence. Even hell is proposed as a desired end of life. The evil is found in the musical combination of words, rhythm and noise. Records or tapes of this kind should not be kept in the home but should be destroyed, even if they have cost a considerable amount of money. Choose the Kingdom of God!

Devil Worship.

·         It goes without saying that praying to the devil, worshipping Satan, reading the Satanic bible, or taking part in a Black Mass which mocks the crucifixion of Jesus, and the Eucharist are among the most serious sins that one can commit.

·         In some Satanic worship, there is at times sacrifice to Satan by a horrible killing of animals, and even the murder of human infants. The secrecy surrounding this activity enables the "Church of Satan" to obtain a certain respectability in our society. It has the same legal standing as any other church.

Do not be deceived; being involved in this false church is a very serious matter. Catholics who wish to repent must resign from the false religion at whatever cost, renounce Satan and their sin in all their heart, and confess this sin in the Sacrament of Reconciliation

🕊️ Monthly Novena for the 25th Day

A Simple Family Devotion Honoring the Birth of Jesus
From the Raccolta

💡 What Is This Novena?

This is a short, meaningful prayer devotion that helps us remember the birth of Jesus—not just at Christmas, but every month on the 25th. It’s perfect for families, including those with small children, and can be prayed at home in just a few minutes each day.

It’s a way to keep the light of Christ alive in our homes all year long.

📅 When to Pray

·         Start on the 16th of each month

·         Pray daily through the 24th

·         Celebrate Jesus on the 25th with joy and thanksgiving

You can pray together at the dinner table, before bedtime, or during a quiet moment in the day.

🙏 Why It Matters

·         Keeps Jesus at the center of family life

·         Teaches children the story of Christ’s birth in gentle, daily steps

·         Builds a rhythm of prayer, gratitude, and hope

·         Helps us prepare spiritually for Christmas every month

🛐 Daily Novena Structure (16th–24th)

Each day, pray the five offerings below. After each offering, say the Gloria Patri:

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit,
as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

The Five Offerings

1.      The Birth of Jesus
ETERNAL FATHER, I offer to Thy honour and glory, and for my own salvation, and for the salvation of all the world, the mystery of the Birth of our Divine SAVIOUR.
Gloria Patri

2.      Mary and Joseph’s Journey to Bethlehem
ETERNAL FATHER, I offer to Thy honour and glory, and for my eternal salvation, the sufferings of the most holy Virgin and of St Joseph in that long and weary journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem…
Gloria Patri

3.      The Stable and the Infant Jesus
ETERNAL FATHER, I offer to Thy honour and glory, and for my eternal salvation, the stable where JESUS was born, the hard straw which served Him for a bed…
Gloria Patri

4.      The Circumcision and First Shedding of Blood
ETERNAL FATHER, I offer to Thy honour and glory, and for my eternal salvation, the pain which the divine Child JESUS felt…
Gloria Patri

5.      The Virtues of the Child Jesus
ETERNAL FATHER, I offer to Thy honour and glory, and for my eternal salvation, the humility, mortification, patience, charity, and all the virtues of the Child JESUS…
Gloria Patri

📖 Versicle & Response

V/. The Word was made flesh.
R/. And dwelt among us.

🙏 Closing Prayer

O GOD, whose only-begotten SON was made manifest to us in the substance of our flesh; grant, we beseech Thee, that our souls may be inwardly renewed through Him, whom our eyes have seen externally like unto ourselves. Who liveth and reigneth with Thee for ever and ever. Amen

Bible in a Year Day 229 Shepherds of Israel

Fr. Mike explains the beautiful connections between all of our readings today. He emphasizes how good shepherds are willing to face the truth, and also sacrifice for his sheep, like Jesus who laid down his life for us. In our reading of Jeremiah, Fr. Mike also explains that the experience of shame points to the reality that there is something good within us that ought not to be violated. Today we read Jeremiah 6, Ezekiel 34-35, and Proverbs 14:25-28

President's Day[4]

President's Day, or Washington's Birthday as it is still legally known, was originally designed as a celebration of George Washington's birthdate.  In 1880, Congress voted to make this the first national holiday which honored an individual.  In 1968, Congress enacted the Uniform Monday Bill, to give workers as many long weekends as possible. This moved as many holidays as possible to a standard Monday each year.  Many states were already honoring Abraham Lincoln's birthday, February 12th, and this celebration was combined with George Washington's birthday, for one federal holiday.  It is observed on the third Monday in February each year.

President's Day Facts

·         According to the Julian calendar, Washington was born February 11, 1732.  The Gregorian calendar was adopted in 1752, changing Washington's Birthday to February 22.

·         Since 1888, Washington's Farewell Address has been read aloud in the U.S. Senate on February 22nd.

·         George Washington was the Commander in Chief of the Continental Army, first U.S. President, and President of the Constitutional Convention.

·         Presidents Day never falls on Washington's actual birthdate (Feb. 22).  The third Monday in February can never be any later than February 21st.

President's Day Top Events and Things to Do

·         Visit Mt. Vernon, VA, Washington's ancestral home and place of both he and his wife Martha's tomb.  Admission is free on President's Day.

·         Go shopping for a car.  Presidents’ Day weekend typically features some of the best car deals of the year as dealers try to clear out prior-year inventory.

·         Read George Washington's Farewell Address and reflect on his contributions to United States.

·         Read Abraham Lincoln's Emancipation Proclamation and reflect on his contributions to the United States.

·         Visit the Lincoln Memorial in Washington D.C.

Salute the Presidents

What better way to celebrate President's Day than with a trip to Mount Rushmore. This national memorial in South Dakota features the heads of George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Theodore Roosevelt and Abraham Lincoln.

Copilot:

Presidents Day began as a celebration of George Washington’s birthday—the first national holiday honoring an individual. Over time, it expanded to include Abraham Lincoln and eventually became a day to reflect on the presidency itself: the office, the burdens, the moral tests, and the moments when a single leader had to confront the evils of his age.

Today, the holiday arrives in a culture saturated with slogans. One side shouts “orange man bad,” the other fires back with its own dismissive labels, and the result is the same: we stop thinking, we stop listening, and we stop discerning. The phrase “TDS” is just another example of how quickly we reduce moral questions to psychological accusations. None of this helps us confront evil. It only helps us avoid the harder work of confronting ourselves.

Washington and Lincoln understood something we often forget: evil is real, but it is rarely defeated by rage, hysteria, or tribal reflexes. It is defeated by clarity, virtue, sacrifice, and the courage to name the darkness without becoming part of it.

And they were not alone.

Presidents Who Confronted Evil

George Washington — Resisting the Evil of Tyranny

Washington’s greatest confrontation was not with the British, but with the temptation of power. He refused a crown. He restrained himself. He showed that liberty requires leaders who can govern their own passions.

Abraham Lincoln — Confronting the Evil of Slavery

Lincoln named slavery for what it was: a moral cancer. He called the nation back to its founding creed and paid for that confrontation with his life.

Franklin D. Roosevelt — Naming Totalitarianism and Proclaiming the Four Freedoms

As fascism spread across the world, Roosevelt answered with a moral vision:

Freedom of Speech

Freedom of Worship

Freedom from Want

Freedom from Fear

These were not abstractions. They were a declaration of what human dignity requires.

Dwight D. Eisenhower — Warning Against the Machinery of War

Having seen the horrors of global conflict, Eisenhower confronted a quieter evil: the temptation to let fear justify excess. His farewell address remains a call to vigilance.

John F. Kennedy — Facing the Shadow of Nuclear Destruction

Kennedy confronted the most dangerous moment in human history during the Cuban Missile Crisis. His leadership showed that courage is not recklessness; it is disciplined resolve.

Ronald Reagan — Challenging Soviet Oppression

Reagan named the Soviet system for what it was—an empire built on coercion—and helped bring the Cold War to a peaceful close.

Donald Trump — Confronting the Evils of Distrust, Disorder, and Global Volatility

Without taking sides, we can name the conditions of the era:

A rising tide of institutional distrust

The spread of disinformation and foreign interference

The resurgence of great‑power rivalry

The erosion of shared civic confidence

A culture increasingly tempted by contempt

Any president serving in this moment must confront these forces. The office itself demands it. And the American tradition shows that such confrontations, though difficult, are not new.

The Four Freedoms as a Compass for Today

Roosevelt’s Four Freedoms remain a moral map for confronting evil in any age:

Freedom of Speech

Resist censorship, propaganda, and the weaponization of information.

Freedom of Worship

Protect conscience in a time when belief is often mocked or pressured.

Freedom from Want

Care for the vulnerable in an age of economic volatility.

Freedom from Fear

Reject the politics of panic, outrage, and dehumanization.

These freedoms are not partisan.
They are the inheritance of every American and the responsibility of every generation.

Why This Gives Hope

Because the American story is a story of confronting evil—and winning.

Tyranny was resisted

Slavery was abolished

Totalitarianism was defeated

Nuclear war was avoided

Segregation was dismantled

Empires collapsed without a shot fired

And modern evils—division, distrust, manipulation, fear—can be confronted too

Presidents Day is not nostalgia.
It is a reminder that evil can be faced, and that the American people have never lacked leaders willing to step into the fire.

In an age of slogans and contempt, that may be the most urgent lesson of all.

Follow‑Up Reflection: The Real Evil We Must Confront

Presidents Day invites a quieter kind of reflection. We honor Washington, Lincoln, Roosevelt, and others not simply because they held office, but because they confronted the evils of their age with moral clarity. Their courage forces us to ask a harder question of our own moment: What is the real evil we face today?

Some point to institutions. Others point to leaders. Still others point to policies or agencies. But the American founding and Catholic teaching both insist that evil is not first a matter of personalities or parties. It is a matter of truth, dignity, and the moral order that makes life, liberty, and property possible.

From the natural‑rights tradition, evil is anything that destroys life, undermines liberty, or seizes what belongs to another.
From Catholic teaching, evil is anything that dehumanizes, manipulates, blinds conscience, or corrodes the common good.

When you combine these lenses, a deeper pattern emerges:
the greatest danger to a nation is the loss of truth and the collapse of trust.
When people no longer share a moral vocabulary, they cannot agree on what is good, let alone what is evil. Fear fills the vacuum. Outrage becomes currency. Narratives replace discernment. And the nation becomes vulnerable to every lesser evil because it can no longer recognize the greater ones.

This is why the presidency matters.
This is why civic virtue matters.
This is why formation matters.

And this is why the Four Freedoms still speak with prophetic force: speech, worship, sufficiency, and freedom from fear. They are not relics. They are guardrails against the very forces that fracture a people’s moral vision.

As winter begins to loosen its grip, the question before us is simple: Will we recover the clarity needed to confront the real evils of our time?


History suggests we can.

But only if we refuse to let confusion, manipulation, and contempt define us.


February 16 Almanac Note — Winter’s Back Breaks

In the old farm almanacs, this phrase marks the moment when the long freeze finally loosens—when the sun climbs higher, the winds soften, and the first cracks appear in winter’s grip. It’s the turning point, not the finish line. Fittingly, it often falls near Presidents Day, a holiday that remembers leaders who faced the coldest seasons in our national life and refused to let darkness have the last word. Washington, Lincoln, Roosevelt, and others proved that moral winters—tyranny, slavery, totalitarianism, division—also have breaking points. As the earth begins to thaw, Presidents Day reminds us that nations, like seasons, move toward renewal when courage and clarity rise.

Presidents Day Open Letter: Honoring Every Generation

(February — Youth Leadership Month)

 

February carries a quiet kind of symbolism. It’s the month we honor our presidents — the men who carried the weight of a nation on their shoulders — and it’s also Youth Leadership Month, a time when schools and communities focus on forming the next generation of leaders. Leadership doesn’t begin in adulthood; it begins in the small habits of service, discipline, and responsibility that young people practice now.

 

One of the finest tools we have for shaping young leaders is the Congressional Award Program, the nation’s official youth achievement award created by Congress. It teaches discipline, service, perseverance, and the courage to grow — not through competition, but through steady, month‑by‑month effort.
Learn more at the Congressional Award official site.

 

But as I look across America, I see another generation whose leadership is far from finished: the Social Security crew. Retirees, veterans, grandparents, and older adults who still carry wisdom, strength, and a desire to contribute. They have time. They have experience. They have stories that can steady the young and strengthen communities. What they lack is a national invitation.

 

So on this Presidents Day, in a month dedicated to youth leadership, I offer a simple idea:

 

What if the Congressional Award model expanded to include seniors?

 

Imagine a senior version of the Award — built on the same four pillars the youth program uses:

 

Voluntary Service — mentoring youth, supporting nonprofits, helping veterans, strengthening neighborhoods

 

Personal Development — learning new skills, exploring new interests, continuing to grow

 

Physical Fitness — age‑appropriate goals that promote health and vitality

 

Exploration — cultural outings, historical visits, pilgrimages, or discovering new places

 

These pillars are not just for the young — they are for anyone who wants to live with purpose.

 

Such a program would honor a truth we often forget: purpose does not retire.


It would bridge generations — youth learning from elders, elders finding renewed purpose through the young.


It would strengthen communities by activating the wisdom and availability of millions of older Americans. It would remind us that leadership is not limited to age; it is a lifelong calling. If the youth program builds the next generation, a senior program would honor the generation that built us. And together, they would form a national rhythm of service — young and old, side by side, each giving what they can. On this Presidents Day, in the heart of Youth Leadership Month, that feels like an idea worthy of the country we hope to be.

 

Take the Next Step

 

If this vision resonates with you — the idea of a nation where both youth and seniors grow through service, discipline, and exploration — I invite you to learn more about the program that already forms thousands of young leaders each year.
Visit the Congressional Award Program.

 

And if you believe, as I do, that America’s elders deserve a parallel path of purpose, you can share your encouragement or ideas directly with the national office:
Contact the Congressional Award Foundation.

 

Together, we can help shape a country where every generation leads, serves, and grows.

 

Ramadan begins[5]

 

Ramadan is the holiest month in the Islamic calendar, during which, for a period of thirty days, Muslims abstain from eating, and drinking from sunrise to sunset. Muslims do this because it is a pillar of Islam, and obligatory for everyone and the entire month is holy for Muslims so that they can increase their remembrance of life after death.  Muslims also abstain from all bad deeds and habits, like smoking, swearing, backbiting, and disrespectfulness. Muslims reflect upon themselves, their religion. Fasting during Ramadan is one of the five pillars of Islam. Fasting and abstaining from bad habits teaches Muslim’s self-control, humility, and generosity. Ramadan is a time for charity, family, and good deeds.  Muslims fast because they believe it is vital for spiritual health. Unlike the fast of Ashurah, the fasts of Ramadan and salah (praying towards Mecca), fasting helps Muslims maintain spiritual and physical health. The month of Ramadan begins when the new moon of Ramadan is sighted and ends when the new moon of Sha'ban is sighted. Muslims also believe that devils are chained up during Ramadan.

 

Ramadan Facts & Quotes

 

·         Ramadan comes from the word ramadaa, which means 'sunbaked' in Arabic. This is perhaps a reference to the pangs of hunger Muslims feel when fasting.

·         According to Islamic tradition, menstruating women, women who are experiencing bleeding after giving birth, people who are sick (either with short term or long-term illnesses), and travelers are exempt from fasting. Pregnant women also have the option of skipping fasts.

·         In Islamic countries, when Ramadan ends and the crescent moon is first seen, people bang drums and give mighty shouts.

·         According to Sunnah belief, the Prophet Muhammad once said, there is no conceit in fasting.

·         who believe, fasting is decreed for you as it was decreed for those before you; perchance you will guard yourselves (Quran, 2:183)

Ramadan Top Events and Things to Do

 

·         The fast is usually broken in a family setting, where traditional foods are served. Most Muslims begin their meal with a few dates and a glass of milk because the Prophet Muhammad used to do the same.  The high sugar content of the dates sends energy to weary fasting Muslim, while the fiber in the dates and the protein in the milk fills them up and prevents nausea.

·         During Ramadan, Muslims congregate every night in the mosque to pray Taraweeh prayers in congregation. In the United States, in between sets of prayers, the Imam gives a brief sermon and encourages people to give to charity.

·         In Islamic countries, the end of the fast is signaled by a loud call to the sunset prayer. Most people eat a small meal, pray at the mosque, and then join their families for a large, festive dinner.


Daily Devotions/Practices

·         Today's Fast: Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: For the Poor and Suffering

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary



[1]Schultz, Patricia. 1,000 Places to See Before You Die

[6] Sheraton, Mimi. 1,000 Foods To Eat Before You Die: A Food Lover's Life List (p. 800). Workman Publishing Company. Kindle Edition.


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