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Vinny's Corner See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. Yet so we are. The reason the worl...

Saturday, December 27, 2025

 

Vinny’s Corner-Get an indulgence

See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. Yet so we are. The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. (1 John 3:1)

·         Visit the Zoo Day

·         How to celebrate Dec 27th

o   Leftovers are a versatile resource for creating unique dishes. Start your day by crafting a delicious leftover meal, adding your own twist for an unexpected flavor burst. Embrace the spirit of creativity and experimentation in the kitchen!

o   After fueling up with your tasty creation, head out to the zoo for a day of animal encounters and outdoor adventures. Make sure to take some cut-out snowflakes with you to enjoy a whimsical touch as you explore the zoo. These unique decorations can add a festive spirit to your day out!

o   While at the zoo, why not indulge in some fruitcake? Yes, it may not be everyone’s favorite, but give it a chance! It’s a sweet treat that can surprise you with its rich flavors. Share a slice with a friend or family member and make it a special moment.

o   End your day by enjoying a cozy evening at home, reminiscing about the fun experiences of the day. Use the leftover cut-out snowflakes as decorations around your living space for a touch of winter charm. Curl up with a warm blanket and savor the memories made on this delightful day celebrating the weird and wonderful national holidays.

From December 28, 2025, to January 3, 2026, your pilgrimage to Montserrat and Barcelona centers on the Black Madonna—La Moreneta—and the sacred mountain that has drawn mystics, monarchs, and musicians for centuries.

⛰️ Black Madonna & Sacred Mountains – Montserrat & Barcelona, Spain

Dates: December 28, 2025–January 3, 2026
Theme: Mystical Ascent, Marian Wisdom, and Catalan Devotion

Montserrat is more than a mountain—it is a spiritual beacon. The Santa Maria de Montserrat Abbey houses the revered Black Madonna, known as La Moreneta, a 12th-century Romanesque statue believed to have darkened over time from candle smoke and devotion. She is the patron saint of Catalonia and a symbol of mystical motherhood and cosmic wisdom.

๐Ÿ—“️ Daily Itinerary & Symbolic Acts

Dec 28: Arrival & Sacred Ascent

·         ๐Ÿ• Symbolic Act: “Mountain of Mercy”
Begin your journey at 
Montserrat,



ascending by train or cable car. Pause at the [Basรญlica de Montserrat] to orient your heart toward pilgrimage.

·         ๐Ÿ›️ Stay: Hotel Abat Cisneros Montserrat or Hostal Guilleumes

Dec 29: La Moreneta & Throne of Wisdom

·         ๐Ÿ•Š️ Symbolic Act: “Touch of the Cosmos”
Visit 
La Moreneta, the Black Madonna. Touch her orb—symbol of the universe—and open your other hand to Christ. Pray for mystical clarity and maternal intercession.

Dec 30: Santa Cova & Hidden Light

·         ๐Ÿ• Symbolic Act: “Cave of Consolation”
Walk the trail to the [Santa Cova de Montserrat], the cave where the statue was discovered. Reflect on hidden grace and the mystery of divine presence.

Dec 31: Nature & Benediction

·         ๐ŸŒฟ Symbolic Act: “Mountain Benediction”
Hike through the 
Reserva Natural Parcial de la Muntanya Montserrat. Offer prayers for environmental stewardship and spiritual elevation.

Jan 1: New Year at the Abbey

·         ๐Ÿ•Š️ Symbolic Act: “Marian Renewal”
Attend New Year’s Mass at the basilica. Begin the year with a prayer for wisdom, mercy, and Marian guidance.

Jan 2: Barcelona – Civic Light

·         ๐Ÿ›️ Symbolic Act: “Urban Pilgrimage”
Visit the 
Sagrada Famรญlia and Barcelona Cathedral, praying for the harmony of sacred architecture and civic life.

Jan 3: Final Benediction

·         ๐Ÿ• Symbolic Act: “Return to the Mountain”
Return to Montserrat for a final moment of silence. Touch the pillar near La Moreneta and seal your pilgrimage with gratitude.




๐Ÿ’ถ Cost Breakdown (Per Person)

Category

Budget (USD)

Mid-Range (USD)

Lodging (6 nights)

$240–$360

$480–$720

Meals

$120–$180

$240–$360

Transport

$40–$80

$80–$160

Sightseeing & Tips

$40–$80

$80–$160

Total Estimate

$440–$700

$880–$1,400

 

 December 27 Saturday-Feast of Saint John, Apostle

Three French Hens 

Genesis, Chapter 20, Verse 8

Early the next morning Abimelech called all his servants and informed them of everything that had happened, and the men were filled with FEAR.

 

Abimelech was a pagan King warned in a dream not to take Sarah, who by accounts in the scripture was a most beautiful and alluring woman, into his Harem because she was the wife of Abram (Abraham) a visitor to his kingdom. Abimelech even though a pagan was a righteous man; so, he was warned in a dream from God about Sarah. Abimelech and his servants and men demonstrated holy fear when they realized how close the King came to culminating a grievous sin that surely would have caused the ruin of the entire kingdom. Being honest men, they may have listen to that small still voice of God’s spirit that calls men to right actions knowing instinctively the words God spoke on mount Sinai to Moses

 

“I, the LORD, your God, am a jealous God, inflicting punishment for their fathers’ wickedness on the children of those who hate me, down to the third and fourth generation; but bestowing mercy down to the thousandth generation on the children of those who love me and keep my commandments.”(Exodus, 20:5-6)

 

I would like to share something of why Sarah was one of the most beautiful women of all times.

 

The apparent implication is that Sarah was beautiful inside and out—and what’s more, that the inside and outside were interdependent. Her face was a transparent canvas from which emanated her inner radiance. Chassidic philosophy demonstrates three ways in which the body and soul can interact:

 

·         The soul can try and mitigate the urges of the body. Things that look good, taste good and feel good are stimulating and addictive. Most of us live life with our body in the driver’s seat. The soul just can’t compete. And so, the soul tries to negotiate reasonably, and encourages moderation.

·         Or the soul can choose to reject the body and abhor anything associated with materialism. The soul-driven person would then rebel against society’s shallow and false veneers. Simplicity and ascetism become the ultimate goals of the soul.

·         The third scenario is not a compromise between the first two. It is an entirely new approach, where the body and soul learn to work together. The soul neither leans towards the body nor rejects it. It does not react; it pro-acts. In a proactive position, the soul directs and channels the body’s inclination in a constructive way.

·         In this last approach, instead of repressing the body’s needs, the soul views them as an opportunity to serve God in a whole new way. [1]

 

Now is the time to plan to attain a religious retreat or conference before Easter. This book was conceived after attending a Marian conference.[2] 

Copilot’s Take

Chassidic philosophy’s teaching on body–soul harmony resonates deeply with Catholic spirituality: both traditions emphasize that holiness is not about rejecting the body, but integrating it with the soul so that every aspect of life becomes a channel for God’s grace.

  • Holy Fear: Abimelech’s response shows that even those outside the covenant can recognize God’s authority. Catholic tradition calls this fear of the Lord, one of the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit, which safeguards us against sin.
  • Radiance of Sarah: Her beauty was not diminished by her humanity but elevated by holiness. Catholic saints often describe holiness as a light that shines outward—faces transfigured by peace and grace.
  • Body–Soul Integration: The Chassidic “third way”—where the soul channels the body’s inclinations toward God—parallels Catholic sacramental life. Bread, wine, water, oil, fasting, feasting, and pilgrimage are bodily acts that unite with the soul’s devotion.

Catholic Application

  • Sacramental living: material realities become vehicles of grace.
  • Integration, not dualism: body and soul form one human nature.
  • Retreat practice: fasting, silence, chant, and pilgrimage weave body and soul together in worship.

This perspective enriches Catholic retreats and conferences, especially before Easter, by reminding us that the body’s desires can be redirected into service of God rather than suppressed. 

Feast of St. John, the Apostle[3] 

DECEMBER 27. 

JOHN, the brother of St. James the Greater, was a son of Zebedee, a fisherman of Galilee, and of Salome, a cousin of the Blessed Virgin Mary (Matt. iv. 21). He was the youngest of the apostles, and, with Peter and James, was the most trusted of the disciples of Jesus, by Whom he was most tenderly loved, on which account he is called the Disciple of Love. Of this Jesus gave the most convincing evidence when, at the Last Supper, He allowed that disciple to lean upon His breast, and when, from the cross, He committed to the care of John His own Mother. After the ascension John preached the Gospel in Palestine; afterwards went to Asia Minor, fixed his residence in Ephesus, and established many churches there. He was, with the other apostles, taken prisoner and scourged by the Jews, and in the year 95, under the Emperor Domitian, before the Latin Gate, at Rome, was thrown into a vessel of boiling oil. Having endured this torture without injury, he was then banished to the island of Patmos, where, by command of the Lord, he wrote the Apocalypse, or Revelation, concerning the fortunes of the Church. On returning from his banishment, he again governed the churches of Asia Minor as chief pastor, as he had done before, and, at the age of nearly one hundred years, died at Ephesus a peaceful arid natural death. 

The Introit of the Mass reads: “In the midst of the Church the Lord opened his mouth and filled him with the spirit of wisdom and understanding, and clothed him with a robe of glory. It is good to give praise to the Lord, and to sing to Thy name, O Most High.” 

Prayer. 

Mercifully illustrate Thy Church, O Lord, that, enlightened by the doctrines of Thy blessed apostle and evangelist St. John, she may arrive at gifts everlasting. 

EPISTLE. Ecclus. xv. 1-6. 

He that feareth God will do good: and he that possesseth justice shall lay hold on her, arid she will meet him as an honor able mother and will receive him as a wife married of a virgin. With the bread of life and understanding, she shall feed him and give him the water of wholesome wisdom to drink: and she shall be made strong in him, and he shall not be moved: and she shall hold him fast, and he shall not be confounded: and she shall exalt him among his neighbors, and in the midst of the Church she shall open his mouth, and shall fill him with the spirit of wisdom and understanding, and shall clothe him with a robe of glory. She shall heap upon him a treasure of joy and gladness, and our Lord God shall cause him to inherit an everlasting name. 

ON PURITY.

“He that loves wisdom,” saith the Holy Ghost, “will obtain it, for it will not enter into a malicious soul, nor dwell in a body subject to sins” (Wis. i. 4). St. John was from his childhood an angel of purity, on which account he was particularly be loved by Jesus, and endowed by the Holy Ghost with such wisdom and knowledge that, as St. Augustine has remarked, he begins his gospel in a manner more lofty and sublime than the other three evangelists. For while they walk with the God-man upon earth, speaking comparatively little of His divinity, St. John, as if despising the world, soars beyond the vault of heaven, above the hosts of angels, and comes to Him by Whom all things are made, saying, “In the beginning was the Word.” At the Last Supper he was permitted to lean on the bosom of Jesus, but what he there drank in secretly he imparted openly. Apply thyself, therefore, to purity of heart, and thou shalt be like St. John, a beloved disciple of Jesus, and shalt be filled with heavenly wisdom. 

GOSPEL. John xxi. 19-24. 

At that time: Jesus said to Peter: Follow Me. Peter turning about, saw that disciple whom Jesus loved following, who also leaned on His breast at supper, and said: Lord, who is he that shall betray Thee? Him therefore when Peter had seen, he saith to Jesus: Lord, and what shall this man do? Jesus saith to him: So, I will have him to remain till I come, what is it to thee? follow thou Me. This saying therefore went abroad among the brethren, that that disciple should not die. And Jesus did riot say to him: He should not die; but so, I will have him to remain till I come, what is it to thee? This is that disciple who giveth testimony of these things, and hath written these things: and we know that his testimony is true. 

Feast of St John[4] 

The Feast of St. John the Apostle commemorates his life.  He was one of Jesus' 12 disciples.  He was one of the three disciples, which included Peter and James, who were involved in some of the most important events in the life and ministry of Jesus Christ, including Jesus' crucifixion and transfiguration.

St John Facts

 

·         John was a fisherman before he began following Christ.  He was the brother of St. James the Greater.  Jesus gave the brothers the name, sons of thunder. (Mark 3:17)

·         When Jesus was dying on the cross, he asked John to take care of his mother (John 19:25-27).

·         In the Gospel of John, he frequently refers to the most beloved disciple. Some theologians believe he is referring to himself, while others believe the reference is used for the reader to insert himself into the role.

·         Besides Paul, John was the most prolific writer in the New Testament.  His body of work includes 'The Revelation of John' and three epistles.

·         The Feast Day for St. John the Apostle is held in the Roman Catholic Church and some Protestant denominations on December 27, the third day of Christmas.  In the Orthodox Church, it is called the Feast of the Holy and Glorious Apostle and Evangelist John the Theologian, which is held September 26.  This feast shouldn't be confused with the Feast of St. John the Baptist, which is held in both faith traditions on June 24. 

St John Top Events and Things to Do

 

·         Read the Gospel of John.  It is different than the other three Gospels and was thought to be the last written of the four books in the New Testament.

·         Read the Revelation of John, thought to be written by the apostle.  The rich symbolism has been thought to foretell the end of the world, but many biblical scholars believe it was written to offer hope to Christians persecuted by Rome.

·         St John is the Patron Saint of Turkey.  Consider visiting this beautiful country - or take a virtual tour with Google Maps.

·         St. John answered the call to be an apostle of Jesus. Have you listened for Jesus's call in your life?

·         Pray today to know your own vocation.

·         Bless your wine for the new year. 

Blessing of the Wine[5] 

Traditionally wine is blessed on the Feast of St. John. Wine if used in moderation is a good thing. Yet sometimes it may cause an increase in our fears or make us fool hardy when speaking, giving us a false sense of courage. So, blessing our wine is a good idea to dedicate its use for our good and not our detriment. 

St. John's Day[6] (December 27) 

Saint John was the only Apostle who did not suffer martyrdom, though several attempts were made on his life. One of these involved giving him a glass of wine that had been poisoned. The saint, however, suffered no harm because he blessed it before he drank. It is in honor of this deliverance that the blessing and drinking of wine on St. John's Day was once a popular custom. People had a bottle of wine blessed after the Saint's Mass and then drank it at the family dinner (notice how easily this can still be done). The special blessing for this occasion from the Roman ritual sums up the meaning of this custom: 

%  Blessing for the 1st Cup

 

Holy Lord, Father Almighty, eternal God! You willed that Your Son, equal to You in agelessness and substance should descend from heaven and in the fullness of time be born of the most holy Virgin Mary. Thus, He could seek the lost and wayward sheep and carry it on His shoulders to the sheepfold, and could cure the man fallen among robbers of his wounds by pouring in oil and wine. Deign now to bless and sanctify this wine which You produced for man's drink. Whoever drinks of it on this holy feast, grant him life in body and soul. By Your goodness, let it be to him strength to prosper him on the way, that his journey may come to a blessed end. Through the same Christ our Lord.  Amen.

 

Eat your First Course of the meal.

Soup/bread

 

%  Blessing for the 2nd Cup

 

O Lord God deign to bless and consecrate with Thy right hand this cup of wine and of whatever drink: and grant that through the merits of Saint John, Apostle and Evangelist, all who believe in Thee and who drink from this cup may be blessed and protected. And as blessed John drank from the cup of poison and remained completely unharmed, may, through his merits, all who drink from the cup on this day in honor of blessed John be rescued from every sickness of poison and from every kind of harm; and, offering themselves up body and soul, may they be delivered from all fault. Through Christ our Lord. Amen. 

Eat your Second Course Meal

Salad 

%  Blessing of the 3rd Cup 

Bless, O Lord, this creature of drink: that it may be a remedy of salvation for all who consume it: and grant through the invocation of Thy holy name that whoever will have tasted of it may, through Thy giving, experience health of the soul as well as of the body. Through Christ our Lord. Amen. 

Eat your Main Course Meal

Filet Mignon 

%  Blessing of the 4th Cup 

Almighty God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit descend upon this creature of wine and of whatever drink and remain forever. Amen. 

Eat your Dessert

Fresh fruit and cheeses 

Today, on the day honoring the disciple who lay closest to Christ the High Priest during the first Mass, was the festival for priests.

The wine drunk or blessed on this day is called "St. John's Love" (Johannesminne) or St. John's Wine. When the wine has been blessed by a priest, it becomes a sacramental, and is kept in the house throughout the year as a good thing for a newlywed couple to drink on their return from church, as an aid for travelers before a long trip, and as succor for the dying after they have received the sacraments. In the Catholic Cookbook, William Kaufman includes a recipe for St. John's Wine:

1-quart red wine

3 whole cloves

1/16 teaspoon ground cardamom

2 two-inch cinnamon sticks

1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg

1/2 cup sugar

Pour the wine into a large saucepan. Add the remaining ingredients. Boil for 5 minutes (after which point the alcohol is virtually evaporated). (Serve hot. 8-10 servings).[7]

Three French Hens 

Today is traditionally the third day of Christmas and the Three French Hens from the song the 12 days of Christmas represent the three cardinal virtues of Faith, Hope and Charity.  Let us talk to the Lord today and ask Him how we are doing in these three virtues and how we may improve in them. 


Bible in a Year Day 179 Blinded by Comfort 


Fr. Mike points out how Amos' warning against being overly preoccupied with comfort and thus blinded to the needs of others can be especially relevant to us today. The readings are 2 Kings 11-12, Amos 4-6, and Psalm 122.

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Protection of Life from Conception until natural death.

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary


Friday, December 26, 2025


 Another pagan new age Sedona place; St. Francis help us!

St. Francis, Sedona, and the Catholic Heart of Creation

Sedona’s red rocks and desert light draw countless seekers. Many arrive hoping to find “energy vortexes,” crystal healing, or new age rituals. For Catholics, this landscape offers a different invitation: to see creation as a mirror of the Creator, not as a substitute for Him.

Sedona’s Allure

  • Natural beauty: towering cliffs, radiant sunsets, and quiet canyons.

  • Spiritual marketing: retreats promise awakening, alignment, and cosmic energy.

  • Underlying hunger: people seek meaning, transcendence, and healing.

St. Francis’ Witness

St. Francis of Assisi loved creation, but always as a pathway to Christ. He sang of Brother Sun and Sister Moon, not as deities, but as signs pointing back to the Father. His Canticle of the Creatures teaches us:

  • Creation is good, but not ultimate.

  • Nature reflects God’s glory, not its own.


  • True healing comes through Christ, not crystals.

Catholic Teaching

  • Sacraments vs. substitutes: The Eucharist is the real presence of Christ, surpassing any “energy” ritual.

  • Holy Spirit vs. vague forces: The Spirit is personal, guiding, and sanctifying—not an impersonal vibration.

  • Pilgrimage vs. tourism: A Catholic retreat seeks communion with God, not self-styled enlightenment.

A Franciscan Response

When loved ones are drawn to Sedona’s new age offerings, we can:

  • Affirm the beauty of the land as God’s gift.

  • Contrast vague “energy” with the concrete grace of the sacraments.

  • Share Franciscan prayers that root awe in Christ.

  • Invite them to see pilgrimage as a journey with Jesus, not just with themselves.

Conclusion

Sedona’s landscape is breathtaking, but its marketed spirituality risks turning creation into an idol. St. Francis shows us the better way: to love creation as a sign, and to worship the Creator alone. In the desert light, we can echo his song: “Praised be You, my Lord, through all Your creatures.”



NIC’s Corner

·         Fish Friday: Sea trout, new potato and asparagus traybake with dill mustard sauce

·         How to celebrate Dec 26th

o   Alright, let’s dive in! Wake up on your special day and kick things off with a heartfelt thank you note to show your gratitude. Then, indulge in some sweet treats, like candy canes, to satisfy your sweet tooth.

o   Feeling festive? Embrace the spirit of St. Stephen’s Day by giving back to those in need. Donate your time or resources to a local charity or volunteer at a soup kitchen to spread some joy.

o   If you need to let off some steam, embrace your inner whiner on National Whiner’s Day. Vent about your pet peeves, share a good laugh with friends or simply treat yourself to a relaxing day of self-care.

o   When the day winds down, keep the celebration going with a fun Boxing Day activity. Get together with friends or family for a friendly game or outdoor adventure. Enjoy the camaraderie and make lasting memories.

o   There you have it! A day filled with gratitude, sweetness, generosity, and fun. Embrace the weirdness of these holidays and create your own memorable mashup. Cheers to a day well spent!

๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ช Belgium vs ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ฎ Kiribati — Gothic Altars and Coral Chapels

Two More Stops on the Rich vs Poor Tour: A Catholic Contrast in Continental Heritage and Oceanic Fragility

This pairing invites pilgrims to reflect on how Catholicism endures across vastly different geographies: Belgium,


a wealthy European nation with deep Catholic roots and cultural prestige, and Kiribati, a remote Pacific island nation where Catholicism is a lifeline amid climate threat and economic hardship. Together, they extend NIC’s Corner’s journey into the spiritual contrasts of legacy and survival.

๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ช Belgium — Wealthy, Historic, and Architecturally Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$63,100 USD (2024)

๐Ÿงฎ Why Belgium Ranks High
• EU Headquarters: Brussels anchors diplomacy, trade, and governance.
• Industrial Base: Pharmaceuticals, chemicals, and logistics drive growth.
• Social Safety Net: Universal healthcare, education, and pensions.
• Cultural Capital: Gothic cathedrals, sacred art, and medieval pilgrimage routes.
• Political Stability: Strong institutions and civic infrastructure.

✝️ Catholic Landscape
• Majority Faith: ~57% Catholic, though many are non-practicing.
• Historic Dioceses: Including Mechelen-Brussels, Ghent, and Liรจge.
• Architectural Heritage: Notre-Dame du Sablon, St. Bavo’s Cathedral, and countless abbeys.
• Liturgical Tradition: Gregorian chant, Eucharistic processions, and Marian devotion.
• Civic Influence: Catholic schools and hospitals remain central to public life.

⚠️ Challenges
• Secularization: Church attendance and vocations are declining.
• Cultural Catholicism: Faith often expressed through heritage, not practice.
• Clergy Scandals: Past abuse cases have eroded trust.
• Immigration Tensions: Integration of migrant Catholics is uneven.

๐ŸŒฟ Pilgrimage Cue
Belgium is a journey of sacred architecture—where the Eucharist is offered beneath stained glass and stone, and the Church stands as both monument and memory in Europe’s spiritual landscape.


๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ฎ Kiribati — Poor, Remote, and Missionary Catholic



GDP per capita (PPP): ~$3,300 USD (2024)

๐Ÿงฎ Why Kiribati Ranks Low
• Island Geography: 33 coral atolls scattered across the Pacific limit development.
• Climate Crisis: Rising seas threaten homes, churches, and freshwater.
• Subsistence Living: Fishing and copra dominate rural life.
• Infrastructure Gaps: Roads, schools, and hospitals are under-resourced.
• Aid Dependency: Foreign support is vital for education and healthcare.

✝️ Catholic Landscape
• Majority Faith: ~57% Catholic, deeply woven into village life.
• One Diocese: Tarawa and Nauru, with outreach across remote islands.
• Missionary Legacy: Marist Fathers and Sisters of St. Joseph built schools and clinics.
• Liturgical Life: Masses celebrated in Gilbertese, with strong Marian devotion.
• Community Integration: Catholicism shapes education, health, and daily ritual.

⚠️ Challenges
• Climate Displacement: Coastal churches face erosion and flooding.
• Resource Scarcity: Many parishes lack electricity, books, and transport.
• Vocational Strain: Few local priests; reliance on missionaries.
• Economic Hardship: Poverty affects catechesis and sacramental preparation.

๐ŸŒฟ Pilgrimage Cue
Kiribati is a journey of sacramental survival—where the Eucharist is celebrated in coral chapels and ocean breeze, and the Church sings its faith in resilience, ritual, and rising tides.


๐Ÿ•Š️ Editorial Reflection

Belgium and Kiribati offer a striking contrast: one rich in heritage, the other rich in hope. In Belgium, Catholicism is a cathedral of memory. In Kiribati, it is a chapel of mercy. The Rich vs Poor Tour reminds us that the Gospel is not bound by stone or sand—it flourishes in abbeys and atolls, in stained glass and salt air.

What does it mean to be Catholic in a land of legacy—or a land of loss?
Where does the Church feel more alive—in the echo of Gothic chant or the cry of rising seas?

December 26 Friday in the Octave of Christmas

Feast Of St. Stephen-Kwanzaa 

Genesis, Chapter 18, verse 14-16

Nothing is impossible for Yahweh. I shall come back to you at the same time next year and Sarah will have a son.' Sarah said, 'I did not laugh,' lying because she was AFRAID. But he replied, 'Oh yes, you did laugh.' From there the men set out and arrived within sight of Sodom, with Abraham accompanying them to speed them on their way. 

Nothing is impossible for he who is. According to Doctors Michael Roizen and Mehment Oz, Yahweh is nearly unpronounceable sounds that are made in our first and last breaths made in life. At the first deep inspire of air comes the sound YAH and at the last wheeze WEH. He is the alpha and the omega; the beginning and the end.[1] When I was a youth of 20 I had the great honor of serving in the Navy Seabee’s and went to build the South Pole Station in Antarctica and breathing was difficult in the frozen thin air, here is an excerpt from my book, “The Ice is Nice and Chee-Chee is Peachy.

 

Most of the Steelworkers and I were assigned to shoveling snow that had accumulated from the winter. As you worked, it was so ice-cold that frost formed on your beard, face and hair from the vapor of your very breath. Living there, I could really reflect on the statement: “God is closer to you than the very air you breathe”. Being there gave new meaning to that. Your breath was always with you; you could not escape it; even if you tried. Your breath almost caressed you as you went about your day. I thought, “Are we really loved that much?” and then I reflected on John 3:16 from the bible and it seemed to make more sense to me.

 

It is interesting to note that when we laugh, we are forcing our breath out. Be Not Afraid. 


Copilot’s Take 

On December 26, the Feast of St. Stephen and the beginning of Kwanzaa, Genesis 18:14–16 reminds us that nothing is impossible for God, whose very name is breathed in our first inhale and final exhale. Sarah’s fearful laugh shows how doubt can mask trust, yet God’s promise remains firm. Breath itself becomes testimony—closer than heartbeat, constant as prayer—whether in the frozen air of Antarctica or the warmth of family celebration. St. Stephen’s courage, Kwanzaa’s resilience, and Abraham’s faithful walk all point to the same truth: be not afraid, for the Lord who is nearer than breath will fulfill His word. 

Feast of Saint Stephen[2] 

THE epistle of today contains a short account of the life and sufferings of this saint. It only remains to be added that, on account of his virtues, his wisdom, and his zeal for the faith, the apostles thought him worthy to be chosen the first of the seven deacons, whose office it was, in addition to the preaching of the word of God, to serve the poor, and properly to distribute the alms of the faithful. The Introit says: Princes sat and spoke against me, and the wicked persecuted me; help me, O Lord my God, for Thy servant was employed in Thy justifications. Blessed are the undefiled in the way, who walk in the law of the Lord. 

Prayer. 

Grant us, we beseech Thee, O Lord, to imitate what we honor, that we also may learn to love our neighbors, as we celebrate the feast of Him Who knew how to beseech even for His persecutors. Amen.

EPISTLE. Acts vi. 8-10; vii. 54-59.

In those days: Stephen full of grace and fortitude did great wonders and signs among the people. Now there arose some of that which is called the synagogue of the Libertines, and of the Cyrenians, and of the Alexandrians, and of them that were of Cilicia and Asia, disputing with Stephen. Arid they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit that spoke. Now hearing these things, they were cut to the heart, and they gnashed with their teeth at him. But he being full of the Holy Ghost, looking up steadfastly to heaven, saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing on the right hand of God. And he said: Be hold I see the heavens opened, and the Son of man standing on the right hand of God. And they crying out with a loud voice, stopped their ears, and with one accord ran violently upon him. And casting him forth without the city, they stoned him: and the witnesses laid down their garments at the feet of a young man whose name was Saul. And they stoned Stephen, invoking, and saying: Lord Jesus, receive my spirit. And falling on his knees, he cried with a loud voice, saying: Lord, lay not this sin to their charge. And when he had said this, he fell asleep in the Lord.

Instruction.

Stephen is unjustly persecuted; yet he prays for his persecutors. 

Can we excuse ourselves if we do not love our enemies? 

Was not Stephen, and others who have imitated him, men like ourselves? 

With the grace of God, could not we do what they have done? 

Could we call ourselves Christians were we not to do this? 

No; for the love of our neighbor, and of our enemy also, is the chief token of the Christian; since it is only by this love that we become like Christ, and resemble our heavenly Father, Who makes His sun to shine upon the evil and the good, and sendeth rains upon the just and upon the unjust (Matt. v. 45). Let us, therefore, imitate the love of God, of Christ, and of St. Stephen, and then we may one day be able to give up our souls with calmness into the hands of our Maker.

GOSPEL. Matt, xxiii. 34-39.

At that time Jesus said to the scribes and Pharisees: Behold I send to you prophets, and wise men, and scribes : and some of them you will put to death and crucify, and some you will scourge in your synagogues, and persecute from city to city: that upon you may come all the just blood that hath been shed upon the earth, from the blood of Abel the just, even unto the blood of Zacharias the son of Barachias, whom you killed between the temple and the altar. Amen I say to you, all these things shall come upon this generation. Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them that are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered together thy children, as the hen doth gather her chickens under her wings, and thou wouldst not! Behold your house shall be left to you desolate. For I say to you, you shall not see Me henceforth till you say: Blessed is he that cometh in the name of the Lord. Those in our days who stone and kill the prophets and preachers are those who, by their evil backbiting, defame their pastors, who mock at and despise preachers and sermons; for to the servants of God this is a great torment and source of grief; it destroys their courage and paralyzes their efficiency. On this account it provokes the anger of God, as through the prophets He often told the Jews.

Supplication to St. Stephen.

O St. Stephen, first of the martyrs, who wast filled with fortitude, grace, and love, whose guiltless face shone like the face of a pure angel, I beseech thee, by the grace which rendered thee worthy to see heaven opened and Jesus sitting at the right hand of the Father, that thou wouldst, by thy prayers, procure for me from God a pure conscience, and a holy, meek love, that like thee I may readily forgive those who injure me; may pray for them; may not only desire for them whatever is good, but may do them good indeed, and thereby merit the grace of a happy death. Amen.

Stephan First Martyr[3]

Today is the second day in the octave of Christmas. The Church celebrates the Feast of St. Stephen, the first Christian martyr. Stoned outside Jerusalem, he died praying for his executioners. He was one of the seven deacons who helped the apostles; he was "filled with faith and with the Holy Spirit," and was "full of fortitude." The Church draws a comparison between the disciple and his Master, emphasizing the imitation of Christ even unto the complete gift of self. His name is included in the Roman Canon.

Saint Stephen is the patron of stonemasons, masons, bricklayers, deacons, headaches, and horses. His story comes from the Acts of the Apostles. He is usually pictured in deacon's vestments, holding the symbol of martyrdom, a palm branch. Sometimes he has a stone in his left hand, to indicate his death by stoning. He is depicted in many images wearing a wreath, which refers to the origin of his name, the Greek word Stephanos meaning "wreath."

"If you know what witness means, you understand why God brings St. Stephen, St. John, and the Holy Innocents to the crib in the cave as soon as Christ is born liturgically. To be a witness is to be a martyr. Holy Mother Church wishes us to realize that we were born in baptism to become Christ — He who was the world's outstanding Martyr." — Love Does Such Things, by Rev. M. Raymond, O.C.S.O.

·         Day Two activity (Boxing Day) (Christmas Drama)

·         Day Two recipe (St. Stephen's Horns)

St. Stephen’s Day and the horses[4]

Though there is no historical connection, St. Stephen is considered the patron saint of horses. Scholars speculate that this has something to do with the relief from work that domestic animals enjoyed during Twelfth night; in any case, horse parades or horse races were always held on this day. One custom in rural areas was for the horses to be decorated and taken to the church, where the priest would bless them. Afterwards, they would be ridden around the church three times. Horse's food (hay or oats) is also blessed on this day.

NOTA BENE: In the eleventh century, the Church instituted special feast days during the Christmas Octave for various ecclesiastical ranks. Today, on the day in which one of the first seven deacons was martyred, was the festival for deacons.

The Twelve Days of Christmas[5] 

What exactly are the Twelve Days of Christmas?

They are the days between Christmas and the Feast of the Epiphany that constitute an unbroken period of joy and celebration. Epiphany is considered the twelfth day of Christmas (in fact it is sometimes called "Twelfth Day") while the Eve of Epiphany is called "Twelfth Night." Shakespeare's play, "Twelfth Night," takes its name from the Vigil because during this period festivals (such as the Feast of Fools or the Feast of the Ass) used to be held in which everything was turned upside-down -- a little like the reversed identities of the characters in the play. These "preposterous" observances, incidentally, were a joyful mimicry of the inversion of almighty God becoming a lowly man, of the King appearing as a humble infant. The twelve nights of Christmas were primarily a time of rest from unnecessary labor and joyful prayer. On each of these nights the Christmas tree lights and the Christmas candle would be lit, while the family would gather around the manger to recite prayers and sing carols and hymns. Similar services are held in some churches during these nights as well. Several saints' days which fall within the Octave of Christmas are also a part of the Twelve Days.

Two Turtle Doves

Today is the second day of Christmas: Two Turtle Doves from the song the 12 days of Christmas represent the two parts of the Sacred Scriptures: the old and New Testament.

Bible in a Year Day 178 Called Back

Fr. Mike points out how Jehu followed God half-way, but God wants us to follow Him with our whole hearts. He also explains the prophecy of Amos, who is trying to call people back to the Lord before it is too late. The readings for today are 2 Kings 10, Amos 1-3, and Psalm 110.

Kwanzaa[6] 

Also, today is another agnostic, culturally correct day, designed to minimize the true meaning of Christmas and confuse children about the good news of the season. 

Kwanzaa is an African American and Pan-African celebration of family, community and culture. Kwanzaa, a week-long cultural festival from the 26th of December to the 1st of January that climaxes in feasts and gift giving, was initially established to unite African Americans with their African roots and heritage.  Nguzo Saba, the seven principles that guide the holiday, is central to Kwanzaa as a different principle is emphasized every day during the celebration. Celebrants often dress in traditional Pan-African clothing and decorate their homes in African artwork. Kwanzaa was created in 1965 by Dr. Maulana Karenga, a major figure in the Black Power movement, with the intention of providing African Americans with a link to their ancestral heritage. Karenga aimed to bring together African Americans as a community through the combination of various aspects of other celebrations such as Thanksgiving, Christmas and African Yam Festivals. Since Kwanzaa is a cultural holiday, not a religious one; it can be celebrated by Africans from all religious backgrounds. 

Kwanzaa Facts & Quotes 

·         The name Kwanzaa is derived from Matunda ya kwanza, which in Swahili means first fruits.  Kwanzaa is based on the Ashanti and Zulu traditions of first fruit harvest celebrations.

·         Each day of Kwanzaa celebrates one of 7 principles, known as Nguzo Saba.  These include Unity, Self-determination, Collective work and responsibility, Cooperative Economics, Purpose, Creativity and Faith. The colors of Kwanzaa are black, red and green.  Each color carries an important meaning to unify those of African descent.  Black is for the people, red for the noble blood that unites all people of African descent and green for the land of Africa. A candle holder, called a Kinara, holds the seven candles that represent the seven principles of Kwanzaa.

Kwanzaa Top Events and Things to Do 

·         Read about the seven principles of Kwanzaa with your family.  These principles teach about working together, learning from the past and strengthening bonds.

·         Attend a Kwanzaa celebration event.

·         Prepare a festive Kwanzaa dinner.  Include Kwanzaa foods include:
1) Shisa nyama (meat cooked over a hot wood fire).
2) Kapenta with sadza (kapenta is a freshwater fish and sadza is a maize porridge).
3) Nyama na irio (mashed potatoes, peas, corn and onion served with spicy roast meat).

·         Give festive Kwanzaa gifts to your friends and family.  Some traditional gifts include a food basket, kinara candle holder, books about African culture and handwoven items like gloves and scarves.

·         Watch “The Black Candle” (2008).  This is a vibrant and powerful documentary that illuminates the African American experience from the perspective of Kwanzaa.  Narrated by Dr. Maya Angelou (poet), the documentary won the award for best full-length documentary at the Africa World Documentary Film Festival in 2009.

 

Friday Fitness[7]

If you are a person who remains busy in work and other matters and pays no attention to your health and wellbeing, you must take a break from the robotic routine and pick healthy habits.

According to a psychologist, eating well and exercising gives your body and brain instant benefits of managing stress, depression, and anxiety. True wellbeing comes with balance, constant growth and acceptance.

Here are a few effective and tested ways that can help you improve your wellbeing:

1. Take Proper Sleep:

It may seem to be the most common advice but trust me most of the people don’t follow the basic step towards their overall wellbeing. Our body needs proper sleep and rest to heal and renew the energy to function properly. This healing is essential for physical and mental activity throughout the day.

Sufficient sleep regulates the hormones that are directly related to our mood and emotions. Most often when you feel an irritated or emotional imbalance, chances are high that your body lacks in taking enough sleep. An adult body needs nearly 6 to 7 hours of sleep per day. So, make sure you get enough sleep.

2. Eat a Balanced Diet:

Sleep alone is not going to give you the required benefits. You need to eat a healthy and balanced diet and ensure your body receives enough amount of nutrition. The food you consume determines how healthy your inner system is. Moreover, it also helps in determining your emotional health and mental illnesses such as depression.

When your body lacks essential nutrients, it leads to serious health problems. Moreover, you end up facing emotional distress and anxiety. Health and wellness experts suggest that you should eat fruits and vegetables in sufficient amounts. Moreover, eating nuts and lentil also strengthens your heart. Try to avoid caffeine, sugar and processed food as much as possible.

3. Expose Your Body to Sunlight:

Vitamin D deficiency leads to several problems such as Seasonal Affective Disorder or SAD. When you are exposed to sunlight, it causes the release of endorphins also called ‘happiness hormones’ that is responsible for the productivity of the brain.

So, take some time out of your routine and spend some time in the sunlight. But make sure you wear sunblock to prevent sunburn.

4. Deal with Stress:

Although it is difficult to avoid stress nowadays, it is definitely possible to deal with it. It is very important to learn to deal with stress in a smart and effective way. For that, try to avoid situations that cause stress. If your stress is unmanageable, note down the causes of stress as well as what actions you can take to improve your reaction, mood, and even situation?

5. Exercise Daily:

When you remain physically active and exercise daily, your blood flow improves in your entire body. With the increased blood flow, the amount of oxygen increases, and you feel more energetic, fresh and mentally active.

Exercise and physical activities are more important if you are an office worker. Exercise not only ensures our body remains fit but also keeps your mind healthy as well. You don’t have to join expensive gyms for that. A simple walk with your pet or daily morning walk is more than sufficient. The important thing is to make it a daily habit.

In addition to your mental health, exercise strengthens your bones and muscles that prevent you from different types of personal injuries during a workout or running your daily errands.

6. Stay Away from Smoking and Alcohol:

If you keep drinking and smoking, no matter how much you spend on your health and how hard you try, your efforts are going to be wasted.

Quit smoking and drinking to ensure you lead a healthy life.

7. Be Social, as Much as You Can:

Isolation and lack of communication are the two biggest reasons for depression, mental and physical illnesses. No matter how busy your family and work life are, try to dedicate some time to friends and socialize with them.

A man cannot stay healthy without interacting with other people. Communicating with others lowers the stress level. If you have heard of laughter therapy, it also has the same purpose to reduce the stress in which you laugh with other people. Everyone needs acceptance and friendship that is fulfilled only when you socialize with others.

8. Find and Practice New Hobbies:

Hobbies help us keep busy and engaged. When you have an interest in some activities and enjoy doing them, you take healthy steps to improve your emotional wellbeing. It also keeps the work and daily life’s pressure off your brain. Finding new hobbies is great for strengthening your brain and boosting your mood.

9. Learn to Live in the Present:

The biggest reason for experiencing mood swings, depression and anxiety is when a person remains stuck in past events. Negative self-talking such as ‘why people did this to me’ steal not only the happiness but make the person miss opportunities that the present moment tires to offer.

Learn to live in the present moment and try not to think too much about the future.

It’s Simple: Laugh and Enjoy!

Don’t take life too seriously. Those who remain happy, smile more and try to keep themselves happy experience a better quality of life than those who remain worried all the time. According to a study, children laugh 200 times a day while adults laugh 15 times a day.

Staying happy and laughing more is essential for a quality life.

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Growth of Catholic Families and Households

·         Religion in the home: Preschool for December

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary

 

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