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Saturday, December 13, 2025

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Saturday, December 20, 2025


Rachel’s Corner

See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. Yet so we are. The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. (1 John 3:1)

·         Jesus is Key of David: Isaiah 22:22 Symbols: key, broken chains

·         Tomorrow is the Winter Solstice-shortest day of the year

·         Christmas Novena

·         How to celebrate Dec 20th

o   Imagine a day filled with unconventional festivities! Start by wearing your most outlandish sweater, celebrating National Ugly Christmas Sweater Day. Spread cheer by going caroling, embracing the spirit of Go Caroling Day. Challenge your friends to a board game marathon in honor of Games Day. Keep the fun going with a refreshing glass of sangria on National Sangria Day.

o   After some leisurely gaming, honor the classic cathode-ray tube by watching a favorite show or movie. Feel inspired by National Underdog Day to root for the underdog in a sports match or movie. Reflect on the historical significance of Sacagawea Day by exploring Native American culture or history.

o   As the day winds down, unleash your inner child by playing in the mud as a nod to Mudd Day. Embrace the playful and carefree spirit of childhood with a carefree mud fight or by simply enjoying the sensation of squishing mud between your toes.

o   Overall, make the most of this whimsical medley of holidays by indulging in festive activities that bring joy and laughter to your day. Let loose, have fun, and create lasting memories with those around you. Cheers to a day filled with unique and unconventional celebrations!

🌸 Our Lady of the Pillar – Zaragoza, Spain



Dates: December 21–27, 2025
Theme: Apostolic Despair, Marian Consolation, and the Pillar of Faith

According to tradition, in 40 AD the Virgin Mary appeared to the Apostle James the Greater while he was preaching in Caesaraugusta (modern Zaragoza). She stood atop a pillar of jasper and instructed him to build a church on that spot. This apparition—occurring while Mary was still alive—is considered the earliest Marian appearance in Christian history.

🗓️ Daily Itinerary & Symbolic Acts

Dec 21: Arrival & Marian Foundation

·         🕍 Symbolic Act: “Pillar of Consolation”
Begin at the 
Basílica de Nuestra Señora del Pilar and kneel at the back of the shrine to kiss the exposed pillar. Offer prayers for courage in apostolic mission and consolation in spiritual dryness.

·         🛏️ Stay: Hotel Pilar Plaza or Hotel Sauce

Dec 22: Cathedral & Civic Devotion

·         🕊️ Symbolic Act: “Twin Witnesses”
Visit the nearby 
La Seo Cathedral and reflect on the civic and ecclesial unity of Zaragoza’s two great churches.

Dec 23: Marian Art & Goya’s Frescoes

·         🖼️ Symbolic Act: “Brush of the Vision”
Contemplate the frescoes by Francisco de Goya in the basilica’s domes. Pray for artists and visionaries who reveal divine beauty through their craft.

Dec 24: Christmas Vigil

·         🕯️ Symbolic Act: “Incarnation at the Pillar”
Attend Christmas Eve Mass at the basilica. Reflect on Mary’s role in the Incarnation and her presence at the foundation of Spain’s Christian witness.



Dec 25: Christmas Day – Marian Joy

·         🌸 Symbolic Act: “Flower of the Nativity”
Offer flowers at the 
Plaza del Pilar, echoing the tradition of the Ofrenda de Flores celebrated each October 12. Pray for families and nations to be rooted in Marian joy.

Dec 26: Rosario de Cristal & Lantern Procession

·         🕯️ Symbolic Act: “Lantern of the Word”
Visit the 
Museo del Rosario de Cristal and reflect on the luminous mysteries of the Rosary. Pray for clarity in spiritual discernment.

Dec 27: Final Benediction

·         🕊️ Symbolic Act: “Pillar of Sending”
Return to the basilica for a final moment of silence. Touch the pillar once more and offer a prayer of commissioning for the year ahead.

💶 Cost Breakdown (Per Person)

Category

Budget (USD)

Mid-Range (USD)

Lodging (6 nights)

$180–$300

$360–$600

Meals

$90–$150

$180–$300

Transport

$30–$60

$60–$120

Sightseeing & Tips

$30–$60

$60–$120

Total Estimate

$330–$570

$660–$1,140

Would you like a ritual meal titled “The Supper of the Pillar and the Rose” to accompany this week, with symbolic dishes echoing Marian consolation and apostolic courage?

Sources:
The Catholic Travel Guide – Zaragoza
Explorial – Basílica del Pilar

Fascinating Spain – Our Lady of the Pillar Festival



DECEMBER 20 Ember Saturday

Festival Of Winter Walks-Go Caroling Day

 

Acts, Chapter 26, Verse 17-18

I shall deliver you from this people and from the Gentiles to whom I send you, to open their eyes that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may obtain forgiveness of sins and an inheritance among those who have been consecrated by FAITH in me.’

 

May this nation which has embraced the power of Satan now open its eyes and turn from the darkness of socialism and communism and consecrate itself to being servants of the Kingdom and bring to this nation a new revolution in spirit and faith that supports and enriches life, liberty and happiness of its people. We like Paul must have a mission to renew the world. We must be on fire for the Lord. 

Copilot’s Take 

On this Ember Saturday, December 20, as winter walks and carols fill the air, we hear Paul’s commission in Acts 26:17–18 as a summons for our own time: to open eyes, to turn hearts from darkness to light, and to consecrate ourselves in faith. Just as Paul was sent to renew the world, so too must we embrace a mission of spiritual revolution—rejecting powers that enslave and embracing the Kingdom that liberates. In a nation tempted by ideologies that diminish life and freedom, we are called to be servants of Christ, aflame with zeal, proclaiming forgiveness and inheritance through faith. Today’s walk and song become symbols of this renewal: steps taken in hope, voices lifted in joy, and a consecration of our lives to the Lord who brings true liberty and happiness. 

One practical way to live this consecration is through a device fast, a discipline popularized by Charlie Kirk. It simply means setting aside your phone or screens for a chosen period—whether a few hours, a day, or longer—in order to break free from distraction and reclaim time for prayer, Scripture, and fellowship. To do it, choose a window of time, let others know you’ll be unavailable, and commit to filling that space with silence, reflection, or community. This fast is not about rejecting technology entirely but about consecrating attention, opening eyes more fully to Christ, and rediscovering the joy of undistracted presence. 

Ember Saturday[1]"Holy impatience" over the coming of the Lord, both in the manger and in glory at the end of time.

Psalm 147:12, 16-17 "Praise the Lord, O Jerusalem: praise thy God, O Sion. Who giveth snow like wool: scattereth mists like ashes. He sendeth his crystal-like morsels: who shall stand before the face of his cold?"

For centuries this Ember Saturday was the only day in the Church's year for conferring the sacrament of Holy Orders. The ordination on the Ember Saturday in Advent was formerly the only one held in Rome. It was therefore a day of some importance. Indeed, all the parts of today's traditional Mass bear the marks of their ancient origin: the numerous readings interspersed with chants and collects recall the primitive form of the vigil as it was practiced in Rome. The Church no longer regularly ordains priests during the times of the Quarterly Ember Days, but this is a special time, particularly Ember Saturday, to pray for priests, particularly the ones who are about to be ordained within the year. It is very difficult for us to sense how important the Ember Vigil services were in the early Roman liturgy. Embertide meant covenant renewal with God, thanksgiving for the gifts of nature and grace, and conferral of Holy Orders (Ember Saturday in December was the Church's official ordination day). Finally, the December series served as the ancient Advent observance, before the four-week season was introduced. In order to understand today's Mass we must go back to early times when the liturgy was celebrated at night in the Church of St. Peter in Rome. In the previous missal, the two previous Ember Day Masses had an intimate and tender character; todays reflects a universal spirit (Church of St. Peter). The Mass presents Advent in an abbreviated form; these and topics developed during its four weeks are synthesized in today's formulary. Before us stands Christ who came as Man, who comes through grace, and who will come with power in the end of time. These three "comings" are united into one grace-laden "visitation" in the present. Several times there appears the light-and-darkness motif; for the Mass was celebrated at a very early morning hour, a circumstance that spontaneously occasioned the symbolism: from Advent's night to Christmas Light. Such is the theme of the traditional Mass.[2]

Festival Of Winter Walks

It’s the Festival of Winter Walks — it’s a touch chilly out there, so bundle up before you join the fun! As the chill of winter sets in and the landscape transforms into a picturesque scene of frosty beauty, the festive season beckons us to enjoy the chill of the outdoors. The annual holiday season festival has been a cherished tradition for families to enjoy for over 30 years. It’s a time to invite all your friends and family to grab their warmest outdoor gear and enjoy the icy splendor of nature.

History of the Festival of Winter Walks

The Festival of Winter Walks was founded by a United Kingdom walking charity called the Ramblers Association. The charitable organization is dedicated to well… rambling. The group was established in 1935, and since organizing, they have championed public access for all people to head outdoors and enjoy the beauty and joy that can only be found in the countryside. They also stand by the belief that walking is part of leading a healthy lifestyle and a right. They often lead advocacy efforts to keep historic trails open equally to all.

They started celebrating the Festival of Winter Walks over thirty years ago, and the event promotes walking as an enjoyable way to stay fit. But more than that, it reminds everyone to take the time to appreciate the beauty of the natural world, even when the outdoor temperatures turn colder.

With a long commitment to protecting public access to walkways and advocating within local communities around the UK, the Ramblers’ Festival of Winter Walks is a wonderful symbol of both outdoor adventure and unity.

How to Celebrate the Festival Of Winter Walks

Celebrating the Festival Of Winter Walks is all about stepping out of your comfy home and into a wonderfully wintery wonderland and making the most of the season’s unique beauty. So go ahead and grab your warm, non-slippery boots. Here are some fun ways to partake in this frosty fiesta:

Embark on a Themed Winter Walk

Why settle for a regular stroll when you can have a wintery adventure during the Festival Of Winter Walks? Organize a ‘Frosty Fauna’ walk to spot winter wildlife, or a ‘Frozen in Time’ historical tour of your local area. Pull on your warmest winter gear and set out to explore the hidden winter gems you might otherwise overlook in your neighborhood.

Host a Winter Walk Challenge

Gather your friends and family — it is time to host a Winter Walk Challenge. Who can spot the most winter birds? Make it a fun competition for all who take you up on the invite. After walking, end the get-together with hot cocoa and warm pastries as rewards.

Winter Picnic

No, picnics aren’t just for summer! Pack a thermos of delicious hot soup, some crusty freshly baked bread, and a waterproof blanket. Find a scenic spot during your walk and enjoy a hearty winter feast. Just watch out for curious squirrels!

Nature’s Treasure Hunt

Turn your walk into a treasure hunt. To hold a Festival Of Winter Walks scavenger hunt, you will need to invite any friends who might be down for some winter fun. Then, create a list of winter-specific items to find. Some good things could be a holly bush, a frozen pond, or animal tracks in the snow. A treasure hunt will give you a fun way to engage kids (and adults!) with the natural world.

Reflective Solo Walk

For a more reflective experience, take a solo walk. Use this time to reflect on the year gone by and get yourself mentally prepared for the next year. The peaceful winter setting is perfect for setting your intentions and a bit of mindful meditation.

Hot Chocolate Hop

You’ve heard of — or perhaps even participated in — a pub crawl. Give that idea a fun twist during the Festival of Winter Walks and organize a Hot Chocolate Hop. Plan a route that includes a stop at a local café or a friend’s house for a hot chocolate break. You could even set up a small outdoor station with a portable stove for making hot chocolate. Enjoying a warm, sweet drink halfway through the walk is a perfect way to keep spirits high and bodies warm.

Have a Winter Walking Nature Photography Contest

Get your artistic friends together for a friendly competition. Invite them to bring their cameras or smartphones and capture the outrageous beauty of the wintry landscape. After the walk, have a photography contest where everyone votes on categories like ‘Best Winter Landscape,’ ‘Funniest Snow Photo,’ or ‘Most Artistic Ice Formation.’ Have some fun prizes on hand — maybe some ice themed novelty items. 

Spiritual Crib[3] 

A special devotion that can be performed during Advent to prepare for the coming of the Infant Savior. It can be adapted for adults and/or children and applied as is appropriate to your state in life. 

·         10th day, December 20th: THE SHEPHERDS—Works of Mercy These are so pleasing to our Lord, and we must therefore practice them corporally as well as spiritually. Pray much for poor sinners and for God's dear missionaries who are trying to convert them. 

Evening Antiphon 

Come, and bring forth the captive from his prison. 

O Key of David, and Scepter of the House of Israel, who opens and no man shuts, who shuts, and no man opens; Come and bring forth the captive from his prison, he who sits in darkness and in the shadow of death. 

God’s Handiwork[4] 

Every Christmas although the same in many ways is always new for each Christmas expresses a hope learned from a lifetime of praising God. For every Christmas if we open our eyes to truth, we will see the handiwork of God, the rock of our salvation. Perhaps in these final days of anticipation it would do us well to reflect on the virtues of Mary Christ’s very own mother and in these final days in some way reflect them in our own lives. 

Mary carried Jesus in her womb with great patience. As a child I remember Christmas was always a great strain on my patience. Can you imagine the strain on this poor young girl from Nazareth? She of course could not have done this without first having the virtues of humility, generosity, and a chase heart which led her to have great patience. 

Patience the courage of a serene soul 

This world being a place of merit is rightly called a valley of tears; for we are all placed in it to suffer, that we may, by patience, gain our own souls unto life eternal, as our Lord Himself says, in your patience you shall possess your souls. [Luke 21 19] God gave us the Blessed Virgin Mary as a model of all virtues, but more especially as an example of patience. St. Francis de Sales, amongst other things, remarks, that it was precisely for this reason that at the marriage-feast of Cana Jesus Christ gave the Blessed Virgin an answer, by which He seemed to value her prayers but little: Woman, what is that to thee and to Me? [John 2:4] 

And He did this that He might give us the example of the patience of His most holy Mother. But what need have we to seek for instances of this virtue? Mary's whole life was a continual exercise of her patience; for, as the Angel revealed to St. Bridget, "as a rose grows up amongst thorns, so did the Blessed Virgin grow up amongst tribulations." Compassion alone for the Redeemer's sufferings sufficed to make her a martyr of patience. Hence St. Bonaventure says, "that a crucified Mother conceived a crucified Son." In speaking of her dolor’s, we have already considered how much she suffered, both in her journey to Egypt, and during her residence there, as also during the time she lived with her Son in the house at Nazareth. What Mary endured when present at the death of Jesus on Calvary is alone sufficient to show us how constant and sublime was her patience: There stood by the Cross of Jesus His Mother. 

Then it was that precisely by the merit of her patience, as Blessed Albert the Great says, she brought us forth to the life of grace." If we, then, wish to be the children of Mary, we must endeavor to imitate her in her patience: "For what," says St. Cyprian, "can enrich us with greater merit in this life, and greater glory in the next, than the patient enduring of sufferings?" God said, by the prophet Osee, I will hedge up thy way with thorns. [2:6] To this St. Gregory adds, that "the way of the elect is hedged with thorns." As a hedge of thorns protects a vineyard, so does God protect His servants from the danger of attaching themselves to the earth, by encompassing them with tribulations. 

Therefore St. Cyprian concludes that it is patience that delivers us from sin and from Hell. It is also patience that makes Saints: Patience hath a perfect work, [James 1:4] bearing in peace, not only the crosses which come immediately from God, such as sickness, poverty, but also those which come from men---persecutions, injuries, and the rest. St. John saw all the Saints bearing palm branches---the emblem of martyrdom---in their hands; After this I saw a great multitude, and palms were in their hands; [Apoc. 7:9] thereby denoting that all adults who are saved must be martyrs, either by shedding their blood for Christ or by patience. 

Happiness is being patient with yourself. 

Happiness is a choice; just as love is a choice. We either decide to be happy or we do not. No amount of money or material things will bring us joy, no amount of pleasure or power either. Mary knew that true happiness comes from God’s mercy. 

That is a choice too. God’s mercy is given to those who fear Him and then in turn honor the gift of love. We in order to accept the gift of mercy must be open to receive. We make a choice. It is funny Mary’s whose name means bitterness was just the opposite. She emptied herself to be filled to the brim with God’s love and within three days we commemorate that she gave birth to Christ our redeemer. I imagine she pondered on this day ages ago as she felt His movement within her that his mercy is overpowering. Let us empty ourselves of all our bitterness and resentments asking Mary to pray for us as we do. Let us in these remaining days before Christmas do all we can to prepare for our Lord Jesus. Let us receive God’s mercy through the sacraments which He has established through His Apostle’s down through the ages to us today. 

If you have not gone to confession-do. Receive His mercy. Receive the Eucharist be made whole and prepare for his birth. Give mercy in return to any you have offended, pray and do-good works toward those who have offended you. In this way we emulate our God whose power is perfected in mercy.  

Be at peace. 

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[5]

Want to start a small group? Download our 33 Days to Eucharistic Glory Study Guide

Day 29

On this 29th day the reception of the Eucharist deepens faith and understanding to the mysteries of Christ’s church

Copilot

 

The reception of the Eucharist plays a vital role in deepening faith and understanding of the mysteries of Christ's Church in several profound ways:

1.      Union with Christ: The Eucharist provides a direct encounter with Jesus, fostering a deeper, personal relationship with Him. This union helps believers grow in faith and understanding of His teachings.

2.      Reflection on the Paschal Mystery: By participating in the Eucharist, Catholics reflect on the Paschal Mystery – Jesus' passion, death, and resurrection – gaining deeper insight into the core mysteries of their faith.

3.      Spiritual Nourishment: The grace and spiritual nourishment received from the Eucharist strengthen faith, helping believers to more fully understand and live out the Church's teachings.

4.      Engagement with Scripture: The Eucharistic celebration includes readings from the Scriptures, which illuminate the mysteries of the faith and provide context for understanding Christ's life and message.

5.      Catechesis and Homily: The homily, often delivered during the Eucharistic celebration, helps explain and expound on the mysteries of the faith, providing deeper theological and practical insights.

6.      Participation in the Sacrifice: The Eucharist is a participation in Christ’s sacrifice. This act of worship deepens understanding of the sacrificial nature of Christ’s love and the call to imitate that love.

7.      Communal Experience: Sharing the Eucharist with the faith community reinforces the collective understanding and shared beliefs, encouraging deeper exploration of faith.

8.      Mystical Union: The Eucharist is a mystical union with the body and blood of Christ, which enhances the believer's comprehension of the Church as the Mystical Body of Christ.

9.      Increased Grace: The grace received in the Eucharist empowers believers to grow in virtue and holiness, which in turn leads to a greater understanding of the faith’s mysteries.

10.  Meditative Reflection: The Eucharistic celebration encourages meditative reflection on the mysteries of faith, allowing believers to contemplate and internalize these truths.

11.  Witness of Tradition: The Eucharist is deeply rooted in the Church's tradition, connecting believers with the historical and theological development of their faith.

12.  Encouragement to Study: The transformative experience of the Eucharist often inspires believers to further study and explore the Church’s teachings and the mysteries of the faith.

13.  Living the Gospel: The Eucharist compels believers to live out the Gospel in their daily lives, deepening their practical understanding of Christ’s teachings through lived experience.

Through these avenues, the reception of the Eucharist continually enriches and deepens a Catholic's faith and understanding of the profound mysteries of Christ’s Church, guiding them on their spiritual journey.

Bible in a Year Day 172

Fr. Mike zeroes in on how Uzziah's prideful desire to worship God in his own way led to his tragic death. We are reminded once again how easily the kings over Judea strayed away from God after achieving greatness. Today's readings are 2 Kings 3, 2 Chronicles 26-27, and Psalm 72.

Go Caroling Day[6]

Any fan of old classic movies knows that carolers were one of the hallmarks of any Christmas themed movie. Whether it was “It’s a Wonderful Life” or Charles Dickens “Christmas Carol”, you could be certain at some point some warmly bedecked singers would arrive at someone’s door belting out the traditional songs for Christmas. While caroling is slowly falling out of style, there’s still time to preserve this time-honored tradition, and Go Caroling Day is your call to arms. Caroling has a long history in the world, potentially existing longer than Christmas itself and having moved into that religious practice from much older roots. This is no surprise, given that the act of singing has long been a form of religious observance, and religious hymns are certainly not a new way of honoring one’s faith. Caroling itself, however, is specifically used to reference those songs and traditions of Christmas, and for many years was a heavily practiced tradition that many people eagerly took part in, whether by joining the carolers or by avidly awaiting their arrival at their doorstep as avatars of Christmas cheer. Wassailing was another tradition that was quite similar in many ways but was actually used to travel to the orchards and other places where cider was produced. It was believed that singing to the trees would promote a good harvest for the year and was almost exclusively practiced in England.

How to Celebrate Go Caroling Day

Well, one might suppose that the answer is right there in the name, might they?

The best way to celebrate Go Caroling Day is to organize a group of friends and relations and get out there and get your songbird on for this holiday! All of the songs you might want to sing have to be familiar after all these years, you’ve sung them growing up, as part of your school choir, and they’re on the radio in multitudinous variations starting from before Thanksgiving. (That’s another issue, don’t get me started). However, if you are more of the non-traditional sort, you can still get your songster on each year by learning the many variations of these holiday songs. The H.P. Lovecraft Historical Society has released three albums all dedicated to Lovecraftian rewrites of the holidays, and they are nothing short of fantastic. The point of Go Caroling Day is to get out and share the spirit of the season; however, you celebrate it with everyone.

Now get singing!

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Reparations for offenses and blasphemies against God and the Blessed Virgin Mary

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary


Friday, December 19, 2025


NIC’s Corner

·         Jesus is Flower of Jesse: Isaiah 11:1-3 Symbols: flower, plant with flower

·         How to celebrate Dec 19th

o   Ever felt the urge to delve into the emo side of life? Toss on some dark eyeliner, blast sad music, and pen some poetry. Let each tear become a badge of honor on National Emo Day. Next up, indulge in the underrated delight of oatmeal muffins. Bake a batch to savor with a steaming cup of tea, celebrating National Oatmeal Muffin Day. Then, let the sweetness linger with some nostalgic hard candies. Pop a few in your mouth, reveling in the sugary taste on National Hard Candy Day. Afterward, embark on a scavenger hunt for the perfect evergreen. Embrace the search, enjoying the crisp air and earthy scents on Look for an Evergreen Day. Get ready to declutter and destress by embracing the art of re-gifting. Find a hidden gem in your possessions and pass it along on National Re-Gifting Day. Lastly, pay homage to the unsung heroes and heroines in your life. Write a letter, make a call, or simply reflect on their impact on National Heroes and Heroines Day. So, go ahead and immerse yourself in this delightful medley of offbeat celebrations!

·         Fish Friday: Mexican Fish Bake Banuelos

🇦🇹 Austria vs 🇷🇼 Rwanda — Baroque Altars and Genocide Graves

Two More Stops on the Rich vs Poor Tour: A Catholic Contrast in Memory and Mercy

🇦🇹 Austria — Wealthy, Historic, and Culturally Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$63,300 USD (2024)

🧮 Why Austria Ranks High



• EU Integration: Strong trade, tourism, and finance sectors.
• Industrial Base: Machinery, chemicals, and services drive growth.
• Social Safety Net: Universal healthcare, education, and pensions.
• Cultural Capital: Vienna is a global hub for music, art, and diplomacy.

• Political Stability: Democratic institutions and low corruption.

✝️ Catholic Landscape
• Majority Faith: ~55% Catholic, though declining.
• Nine Dioceses: Including Vienna, Salzburg, and Graz-Seckau.
• Baroque Heritage: Lavish churches, monasteries, and sacred music.
• Clergy Influence: Historically strong, now more symbolic.
• Pilgrimage Sites: Mariazell Basilica and Melk Abbey draw thousands.

⚠️ Challenges
• Secularization: Church attendance and vocations are declining.
• Cultural Catholicism: Faith often expressed through tradition, not practice.
• Clergy Scandals: Past abuse cases have eroded trust.
• Immigration Tensions: Integration of migrant Catholics is uneven.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue
Austria is a journey of sacred memory—where the Eucharist is offered beneath gilded domes, and the Church stands as both monument and mirror to Europe’s spiritual heritage.


🇷🇼 Rwanda — Poor, Rebuilding, and Forgiving Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$3,300 USD (2024)

🧮 Why Rwanda Ranks Low




• Post-Genocide Recovery: 1994 genocide devastated institutions and economy.
• Landlocked Geography: Trade and transport are limited.
• Agricultural Economy: Coffee and tea dominate exports.
• Youthful Population: Over 60% under age 25.
• Climate Vulnerability: Rainfall variability affects food security.

✝️ Catholic Landscape
• Majority Faith: ~43% Catholic, deeply embedded in national identity.
• Nine Dioceses: Including Kigali, Butare, and Ruhengeri.
• Genocide Wounds: Some clergy were complicit; others were martyred.
• Reconciliation Ministry: The Church plays a key role in healing and justice.
• Marian Devotion: Kibeho is an approved apparition site, drawing pilgrims from across Africa.

⚠️ Challenges
• Trauma Legacy: The Church must navigate its role in both harm and healing.
• Poverty: Parishes often lack resources for catechesis and outreach.
• Vocational Strain: Many priests serve multiple communities.
• Youth Formation: Rebuilding trust and faith among post-genocide generations.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue
Rwanda is a journey of mercy and memory—where the Eucharist is offered in chapels of tears and hope, and the Church walks with a people learning to forgive, rebuild, and believe again.


🕊️ Editorial Reflection

Austria and Rwanda offer a profound contrast: one rich in cultural Catholicism, the other rich in redemptive suffering. In Austria, the Church is a museum of memory. In Rwanda, it is a field hospital of forgiveness. The Rich vs Poor Tour reminds us that the Gospel is not bound by marble or mud—it flourishes in cathedrals and confessionals, in requiems and resurrection.

What does it mean to be Catholic in a land of gilded heritage—or genocide graves?


Where does the Church feel more alive—in the echo of Mozart or the silence of Kibeho?



 

DECEMBER 19 Ember Friday

Evergreen Day

 

Acts, Chapter 26, Verse 5-7

They have known about me from the start, if they are willing to testify, that I have lived my life as a Pharisee, the strictest party of our religion.  But now I am standing trial because of my HOPE in the promise made by God to our ancestors. Our twelve tribes hope to attain to that promise as they fervently worship God day and night; and on account of this hope I am accused by Jews, O king.

 

Paul clearly explains that his entire life was in preparation for the hope of Israel, Christ Jesus, who Israel did not recognize as the son of God. Paul states that the prophets and Moses had foretold that the Christ would suffer, and as first to be raised from the dead, he would proclaim light to both God’s people and the Gentiles. The resurrection is God’s promise to Israel. Paul like Christ ultimately was a victim of intolerance.[1]

 

Copilot’s Take

 

On December 19, marked as Ember Friday and Evergreen Day, Paul’s defense before King Agrippa in Acts 26 reminds us that the strict discipline of his Pharisaic life was not wasted but prepared him to bear witness to the hope of Israel fulfilled in Christ. He proclaims that the resurrection is God’s promise, a light for both Jews and Gentiles, even though this very hope makes him a target of intolerance. The evergreen, celebrated today, becomes a fitting symbol of that promise—life that endures through winter, faith that remains steadfast in trial, and hope that cannot be extinguished. Ember Friday’s call to fasting and prayer deepens this witness, inviting us to strip away distractions so that the evergreen truth of resurrection may root itself more firmly in our lives.

 

Ember Friday[2]

The purpose of these “mini-Lents” is to pray, fast and to thank God for the gifts He gives us through nature.  They follow the four seasons of the year with the beauty and uniqueness of each particular season.   They are here for us to teach us to use, with moderation, what God gives us through nature, and to also share these gifts with the poor.

So what does this mean for you?

Well, because of the changes in Church law, not a whole lot; at least not officially. The mandatory observation of Ember days was excised from Church practice during the pontificate of Pope Paul VI. But as voluntary practice, there is much that is salutary in observing the Ember days of the Church.

How do we observe Ember days?

On Wednesday and Saturday, we observe partial fast and abstinence – two small meatless meals, and one full meal that can include meat.

On Friday, we may have two small meals and one full meal, but observe total abstinence from meat even at the main meal. This is identical to the currently observed fasts of Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.

Spiritual Crib[3] 

A special devotion that can be performed during Advent to prepare for the coming of the Infant Savior. It can be adapted for adults and/or children and applied as is appropriate to your state in life. 

·         9th day, December 19th: THE OX—Silence Today we may speak nothing unnecessary, much less give way to distracting thoughts. On the contrary, hold interior converse with God by loving aspirations to Him. 

Evening Antiphon[4]

Come to deliver us, and tarry not.

O Root of Jesse, who stands for an ensign of the people, before whom kings shall keep silence and unto whom the Gentiles shall make supplication: Come to deliver us, and tarry not.

O Root of Jesse 

"Come to deliver us and tarry not." The world cries out for Christ its King, who shall cast out the prince of this world (John 12:31). The prince of this world established his power over men as a result of original sin. Even after we had been delivered from the servitude of Satan through the death of Christ on the cross, the prince of this world attempts to exercise his power over us. "The devil, as a roaring lion, goeth about seeking whom he may devour" (I Pet. 5:8). In these trying times, when faith in Christ and in God has largely disappeared, when the propaganda of a pagan culture is broadcast everywhere, and the forces of evil and falsehood rise up to cast God from His throne, who does not feel the power of the devil? 

Does it not appear that we are approaching that time when Satan will be released from the depths of hell to work his wonders and mislead, if possible, even the elect? (Apoc. 20:2; Matt. 24:24.) 

"Come, tarry not." Observe how thoroughly the world of today has submitted to the reign of Satan. Mankind has abandoned the search for what is good and holy. Loyalty, justice, freedom, love, and mutual trust are no longer highly regarded. Establish, O God, Thy kingdom among us, a kingdom established upon truth, justice, and peace. "Come, tarry not." "Thy kingdom come." 

God’s Handiwork 

Every Christmas although the same in many ways is always new for each Christmas expresses a hope learned from a lifetime of praising God. For every Christmas if we open our eyes to truth, we will see the handiwork of God; the rock of our salvation. Perhaps in these final days of anticipation it would do us well to reflect on the virtues (Humility, Generosity, and Chastity) of Mary Christ’s very own mother and in these final days in some way reflect them in our own lives. 

Chastity[5] a pouring out of the soul to God 

After the fall of Adam, man's senses became rebellious to reason. As a consequence, chastity is the most difficult of all the virtues to practice. Saint Augustine says: "Of all inner conflicts the most arduous are concerned with chastity. These battles are of daily occurrence, but victory is rare." However, Mary is a shining example of this virtue. Saint Sophronius replies: "God chose a pure virgin for his mother, that she might be an example of chastity to everybody." That is why Saint Ambrose calls Mary "the standard-bearer of virginity." Because of Mary's purity the Holy Spirit declared that she is as beautiful as the turtledove: Your cheeks are beautiful as the turtledove's (Cant 1:9). "A most pure turtledove" is what Aponius calls her. She inspired everybody who saw her with chaste thoughts. Saint Thomas confirms this when he says that the beauty of the Blessed Virgin incited to chastity all who looked at her. Saint Jerome maintains that Saint Joseph remained a virgin as a result of living with Mary. Saint Gregory of Nyssa says that the Blessed Virgin loved chastity so much, that to preserve it she would have been willing to renounce even the dignity of Mother of God. This seems evident from her reply to the archangel: How shall this happen, since I do not know man? (Lk 1:34). And from the words she added then: Be it done to me according to your word (Lk 1:38), signifying that she gave her consent on the condition that, as the angel had assured her, she should become a mother only by the overshadowing of the Holy Spirit. Saint Ambrose says that "anyone who preserves chastity is an angel; anyone who loses it is a devil." Our Lord assures us that those who are chaste become angels: They...shall be as the angels of God in heaven (Mt 22:30). But the unchaste become hateful to God, like devils. Saint Remigius used to say that the majority of adults are lost by this vice. We have quoted Saint Augustine as saying that a victory is very seldom gained in this combat. Why is this? Because the means by which the victory may be gained are very seldom used. These means are threefold, according to Bellarmine and the masters of the spiritual life: fasting, the avoidance of dangerous occasions of sin, and prayer. 

1. By fasting we mean especially mortification of the eyes and the appetite. Although our Blessed Lady was filled with divine grace, she nevertheless practiced mortification of the eyes, according to Saint Epiphanius and Saint John Damascene. Her glances were always modest, and she never gazed fixedly at anyone. She was so unassuming, even from childhood, that everyone who saw her was charmed by her reserve. Saint Luke remarks that when she went to visit Elizabeth, she went with haste (Lk 1:39), in order to avoid the public gaze. Saint Gregory of Tours maintains that she fasted throughout her life. Saint Bonaventure explains this: "Mary would never have found so much grace if she had not been moderate in her meals, for grace and gluttony do not go together." In short, Mary was mortified in everything, so that it was true to say of her: My hands dripped with myrrh (Cant 5:5). 

2. The second means is avoidance of the occasions of sin: He that is aware of the snares shall be secure (Prov 11:15). Saint Philip Neri coined the expression: "In the war of the senses, cowards conquer." By cowards he means those who flee from dangerous occasions. Mary fled as much as possible from the gaze of men. Remember Saint Luke's remark that, in going to visit Elizabeth, Mary went with haste into the hill country. One author calls attention to the fact that Our Lady left Elizabeth before Saint John was born: And Mary remained with her about three months and returned to her own house. Now Elizabeth's time was fulfilled that she should be delivered, and she brought forth a son (Lk 1:56-57). Why did Mary not wait for Saint John's birth? Because she wanted to avoid the hubbub and excitement that usually accompany such an event. 

3. The third means is prayer. The Wise Man said: And as I knew that I could not otherwise be continent except God gave it...I went to the Lord and besought him (Wis 8:21). Mary revealed to Saint Elizabeth of Hungary that she did not acquire any virtue without effort and without continual prayer. Saint John Damascene calls our Immaculate Mother "a lover of purity." She cannot endure those who are content to be unchaste. And if anybody appeals to her to be delivered from unchastity she will certainly help him. All he has to do is call upon her confidently. The Venerable John of Ávila used to say that many have conquered impure temptations merely through devotion to Mary Immaculate. 

The Battle of the Soul and Flesh[6] 

Beginning with Cain and Abel, there have been children of God who obeyed God's commandments, and, on the other hand, children of Satan, as Holy Scripture, call them, who seek their salvation in the pleasures of this life. Since the time of Cain and Abel, mankind has been split into two divisions, one seeking the kingdom of God, the other the kingdom of the world, the kingdom of Satan. When our Savior conquered Satan, He left him power over those who make themselves slaves to the sensual pleasures, and thus there exists an evil force against the Church, and it will exist to the end of time.

This is a fact that we must keep in view in order to fully understand and judge the conditions. The realm of darkness, Satan's realm, stands opposed to the realm of Christ. Satan and his adherents carry on the warfare against the Church of Christ, as they assaulted Christ Himself. "As they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you," so did Christ prophecy. The Church of Christ demands the subjection of the flesh; she preaches against luxury, pride and selfishness. She preaches chastity and submission to the commandments of God; she preaches penance alike to those of high and low station in life. This angers all those who would indulge in the evil things of this world. They cry: "Let us break her bonds asunder; and let us cast away her yoke from us." But as Christ foretold the persecution of His Church, so He also foretold that the gates of hell would not prevail against her.

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[7]

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Day 28

On this 28th day the reception of the Eucharist compels us to greater unity with the church

Copilot:

The reception of the Eucharist compels Catholics to greater unity with the Church in several profound ways:

1.      Shared Belief and Practice: The Eucharist is a central belief and practice in the Catholic faith. Participating in this sacrament unifies believers around a common ritual that transcends individual differences.

2.      Communion with Christ: Receiving the Eucharist is a direct encounter with Christ, which strengthens the bond between the individual and the entire Body of Christ, the Church.

3.      Sense of Belonging: The communal aspect of the Eucharist fosters a sense of belonging to the Church family, reinforcing the idea that believers are part of a larger spiritual community.

4.      Unity in Diversity: The Eucharist brings together people from diverse backgrounds and cultures, united in their shared faith and devotion to Christ.

5.      Strengthening Community Bonds: Regular participation in the Eucharist helps build and strengthen relationships within the Church community, fostering mutual support and encouragement.

6.      Commitment to the Church’s Mission: The Eucharist inspires believers to commit to the Church’s mission of spreading the Gospel and serving others, working together to build the Kingdom of God.

7.      Living Out Christ’s Commandments: By receiving the Eucharist, Catholics are reminded of Christ’s commandments to love God and love one another. This common goal unites believers in their efforts to live out these teachings.

8.      Mutual Forgiveness: The Eucharist encourages believers to seek and offer forgiveness, promoting reconciliation and unity within the Church.

9.      Sharing in Christ’s Sacrifice: The Eucharist is a participation in Christ’s sacrificial love, which calls believers to live sacrificially and selflessly, fostering greater unity and compassion within the Church.

10.  Strengthening the Church’s Witness: A united Church is a stronger witness to the world. The Eucharist empowers Catholics to be effective ambassadors of Christ’s love and message.

11.  Support in Faith Journey: Receiving the Eucharist provides spiritual support and strength for individual faith journeys, which is further enhanced by the collective journey of the Church community.

12.  Encouragement of Service: The Eucharist inspires acts of charity and service, encouraging believers to work together in ministry and outreach, strengthening the Church’s communal bonds.

13.  Celebration of Unity: The Eucharist is a celebration of the unity of the Church, bringing believers together in worship and praise of God.

Through these ways, the reception of the Eucharist not only strengthens individual faith but also reinforces the unity and cohesion of the Church as a whole, fostering a community that is united in purpose, love, and service.

Bible in a Year Day 171 Elijah and Elisha

Fr. Mike breaks down the moment Elijah is taken up to heaven, and the miracle Elisha performs at the spring. In 2 Chronicles, we also read about how king Amaziah suddenly turned his heart away from God by worshipping idols. Today's readings are 2 Kings 2, 2 Chronicles 25, and Psalm 70.

Evergreen Day[8]

Every year one thing remains the same around the holidays, people everywhere have to decide at what point before the big day they’re going to go out and hunt down a Christmas tree. Look for an Evergreen Day is about the last opportunity you have if you haven’t already gotten yours to ensure you have a tree for the Holidays. Even if you’ve already got your tree for this year, this is a great opportunity to go out and familiarize yourself with the other types of Evergreens in your neighborhood, and discover that these regal giants are around you all year round. Look for an Evergreen Day was originally established by the National Arborist Association to create a day to appreciate the beauty of these trees outside of the confines of merely being bedecked with glittering lights and ornaments even in the depths of winter these noble trees keep their foliage, providing that wonderful green and white contrast that is so representative of deep winter. Evergreens have played an important role in many societies throughout the ages, selected for religious observances due to their seemingly eternal nature even in a season of death, ·but that’s not the only place they’re represented, the Native Americans of the Pacific Northwest were entirely reliant on the red cedar for multiple aspects of their culture. Whether they were making clothing, fishing line, ropes, or building their homes or canoes, the red cedar was vital a vital part of their lives. Going back even further, most people have heard about how Socrates was made to drink a glass of hemlock tea, which he did with his normal unflinching nature. Hemlocks are a shade tolerant evergreen with short striped needles. As you can tell, knowing the difference between your evergreens could one day save your life!

How to celebrate Look for an Evergreen Day

·         The best way to celebrate is to grab a book of local flora/fauna, and head out to identify all the different types of evergreen plants that grow in your part of the world· There are literally thousands of different varieties from every place in the vegetable kingdom, so there are certain to be multiple examples in your local area.

·         Obviously, if you haven’t gotten your tree yet, then Look for an Evergreen Day is when it should happen· By understanding the difference between Blue Spruce, Douglas Fir, and the dozens of other varieties of Christmas Tree available, you’ll know which ones will have the most even spread, which ones will be the most dense, and will best compliment your home and decorating scheme.

Christmas Tree[9]

The Christmas tree has become one of the most accepted traditions of the modern world at Christmas. Here we have a short explanation of the Christian symbolism.

It's not always possible to set up a tree at Christmas Eve but waiting until the 3rd or 4th Sunday of Advent is a good compromise.

DIRECTIONS

There is a beautiful symbolism in the traditional Christmas tree which is so popular in our country. The tree represents the long period of waiting for the coming of the Christ, Who is represented by a star or some other shining ornament at the top of the tree. The ornaments, candles and lights represent His gifts and graces to us. This meaning of the Christmas tree should be made clear to all the children of the family — they will love the element of mystery they find here.

In Germany and in many other countries, candy, cookies and nuts are hung on the branches. The children love this. These articles represent good things which can be eaten as well as looked at.

Therese Mueller suggests that the best time to put up the tree is on Christmas Eve, and not before. All of the symbolism points to the Nativity of Our Lord and premature erection of the tree and crib takes something from the meaning of these things (Cf. Family Life in Christ, Liturgical Press: Collegeville, MN, p. 15).

Activity Source: How to Make Your House a Home by Rev. Bernard Stokes, O.F.M., Family Life Bureau, Washington D.C., 1955

Fitness Friday[10] 

3 Healthy Things to Do Every Winter Solstice 

1. Sleep deep. Shortest day = longest night. Take advantage of this and plan for it to be a perfect night of sleep. 

Check in with yourself to evaluate your sleep hygiene. Sleep experts recommend that you establish a simple ritual before you go to bed to tell your body it is time to rest. 

Brush your teeth, wash your face, read a book or meditate for several minutes before you close the light. Make your slumber environment clear of stressors by making your room as dark as possible, turning off the television and silencing your phone. 

Set yourself up to be successful by making your bedroom a sanctuary for sleep.  

2. Sweat often. It’s dark when we leave for work and dark when we return home. It’s only normal that motivation to move wanes without the friendship of the sun. 

While it’s tempting to skip the gym in favor of extra time hunkered down, do your best to move each day, especially today. 

Walk an extra few minutes to a bus or subway stop further away, take the stairs and walk the mall to incorporate a little more movement into your daily routine. 

Also, you don’t have to be a weekend warrior to enjoy an hour or two of cross-country skiing, a few minutes on the ice rink, or an afternoon sledding with the kids. Make time during the week for simple, active pleasure. 

The benefits will show in your mood first. Remember these little bits of movement can not only add up but can also motivate us to move more and get in a “real” workout.  

3. Live consciously. We spend a lot more time inside when it’s dark and cold outside. Spending time making your home or office a space that you like to be in will deflect some of the stress and help you lead a well and healthy life. 

Winter cleaning isn’t so bad when you play your favorite music, and the result often makes you feel great. Carve out an hour to freshen up your space today. 

Light scented candles and shift some furniture around so that you can enjoy it in a new way. Take a minute to look at what is and isn’t working in the space you live in so that you can feel empowered in your world. Take time to appreciate your surroundings today – those in nature and those you created for yourself. 

Acknowledge the winter solstice this year, and every year going forward. Honor yourself and your work as you pursue your personal Nutritious Life ambitions for another season. Make it a day every year that you press the reset button amid the chaos of the holiday season and focus on you. 

As you look forward to sunnier days, remember to enjoy the darker days, too!

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Conversion of Sinners

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary



[1]The Collegeville Bible Commentary

[6]Frings, Math Josef. The Excellence of the Rosary Conferences for Devotions in Honor of the Blessed Virgin

[10] https://nutritiouslife.com/nurture-yourself/winter-solstice/

Quick Answer: Oh, Mr. Porter! (1937) is a British comedy about an inept railway worker turned stationmaster who, with two bumbling colleagues, accidentally thwarts gunrunners. Its Catholic lessons can be drawn from themes of perseverance, humility, vigilance against evil, and the dignity of even flawed service.


🎬 Film Summary

  • Premise: William Porter (Will Hay), a clumsy railway worker, is promoted to stationmaster at a dilapidated rural station in Northern Ireland. His assistants are the elderly Harbottle (Moore Marriott) and cheeky Albert (Graham Moffatt).
  • Comic Chaos: The trio mishandle stolen livestock, botch renovations, and fall prey to local legends about the ghost of One-Eyed Joe.
  • Conflict: Porter unwittingly agrees to transport smugglers (gunrunners) disguised as football fans. The criminals hijack the train, diverting it to a haunted windmill.
  • Resolution: Despite their incompetence, Porter and his companions escape, recapture the train, and alert authorities. The railway mobilizes to stop the smugglers, who are arrested. The film ends with comic respect for the old engine, which promptly explodes.

✝️ Catholic Lessons & Reflections

Though a secular comedy, the film’s themes resonate with Catholic moral imagination:

  • Humility in Service: Porter is inept, mocked, and underestimated, yet his persistence leads to justice. Catholic teaching emphasizes that God works through the humble and imperfect (cf. 1 Corinthians 1:27).
  • Perseverance in Trial: Despite ridicule and repeated failure, Porter continues striving. This echoes the virtue of fortitude, enduring difficulties for the sake of the good.
  • Vigilance Against Evil: The smugglers represent hidden corruption. Porter’s eventual recognition and resistance reflect the call to discern and oppose evil, even when disguised as ordinary life.
  • Communal Action: The railway’s mobilization to stop the criminals mirrors the Church’s teaching on solidarity—evil is overcome when communities act together for justice.
  • Respect for Tradition: The trio’s salute to the old engine, even after its comic explosion, suggests reverence for what has carried them forward. This parallels Catholic respect for tradition and the instruments of grace, even when fragile.
  • Comic Redemption: The humor itself is instructive—Catholic spirituality often values joy and laughter as signs of hope, reminding us that God’s providence can shine through even absurd circumstances.

🌲 Why It Matters for Devotional Hospitality

For your hospitality and devotional framework, Oh, Mr. Porter! can be paired with:

  • Evergreen Hope: Like the old engine “Gladstone,” faith may seem worn but remains capable of carrying us forward.
  • Symbolic Meal Cue: A simple railway-themed meal (bread rolls as “tickets,” tea in tin mugs) could embody humility and perseverance.
  • Scriptural Tie-In: Luke 12:37–40 (“Blessed are those servants whom the master finds vigilant”) aligns with Porter’s accidental but faithful vigilance.



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