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 NIC’s Corner

 

Find your delight in the LORD who will give you your heart’s desire. (Psalm 37:4)

o   Spirit Hour: El Dorado Rum Punch with Lime, Sorrel, and Nutmeg

o   Friday Fish: Mahi Mahi

o   Iceman’s 40 devotion

o   Get an indulgence

o   Operation Purity

o   How to celebrate Nov 14th

o   Make a spicy guacamole snack to enjoy the flavor on National Spicy Guacamole Day.

o   Embrace comfort and togetherness on National Family PJ Day by lounging in your favorite pajamas with loved ones.

o   Show appreciation for healthcare workers on Operating Room Nurse Day by sending a heartfelt thank you note or treat to a nurse you know.

o   Loosen Up Lighten Up Day encourages you to let go of stress; try yoga, meditation, or simply taking a walk outside.

o   Celebrate the joy and innocence of childhood on Children’s Day by engaging in playful activities or volunteering with kids. Honor World Diabetes Day by being mindful of your health; go for a walk, prepare a balanced meal, or schedule a check-up.

o   Make a crunchy snack to enjoy on National Pickle Day



while embracing the simple pleasures in life.


🇬🇾 Guyana vs 🇲🇱 Mali — Oil Wealth and Desert Faith

Two More Stops on the Rich vs Poor Tour: A Catholic Contrast in Postcolonial Terrain

This pairing invites pilgrims to contemplate how Catholic witness unfolds in vastly different settings: Guyana, a rainforest nation newly rich from oil, and Mali, a desert land where Catholicism survives as a quiet minority amid poverty and conflict. Together, they extend NIC’s Corner’s journey into spiritual resilience and economic disparity.

🇬🇾 Guyana — Oil-Rich, Rain forested, and Quietly Catholic

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$70,300 USD (2024) — Ranked #20 globally

🧮 Why Guyana Ranks High

  • Oil Boom: Offshore reserves have transformed Guyana into one of the fastest-growing economies.
  • Small Population: ~800,000 residents concentrate wealth.
  • Export Surge: Petroleum, gold, and bauxite dominate trade.
  • Foreign Investment: ExxonMobil and others fuel infrastructure growth.
  • Rapid Development: Roads, ports, and energy grids are expanding.

✝️ Catholic Landscape

  • Minority Faith: ~8% Catholic, with Portuguese and Amerindian roots.
  • Single Diocese: Georgetown oversees 24 parishes.
  • Missionary Legacy: Jesuits and Sisters of Mercy shaped education and healthcare.


  • Indigenous Outreach: Santa Rosa Church (1818) serves Amerindian communities.
  • Civic Witness: The Catholic Standard newspaper challenged dictatorship in the 1970s.

⚠️ Challenges

  • Wealth Inequality: Oil wealth hasn’t reached all communities.
  • Urban-Rural Divide: Remote parishes lack resources.
  • Youth Disengagement: Secularization affects catechesis.
  • Environmental Risk: Coastal flooding and deforestation threaten development.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue

Guyana is a journey of quiet witness—where the Eucharist meets rainforest silence, and the Church walks gently through postcolonial memory and emerging hope.


🇲🇱 Mali — Deserted Economies, Desert Fathers

GDP per capita (PPP): ~$2,900 USD (2024)

🧮 Why Mali Ranks Low

  • Landlocked Geography: Desertification and drought limit agriculture.
  • Political Instability: Coups and insurgencies disrupt governance.
  • Islamic Majority: ~90% Muslim; Christianity is a small minority.
  • Foreign Aid Dependency: Development relies on external support.
  • Gold Exports: Mining is growing but benefits are uneven

✝️ Catholic Landscape

  • Tiny Minority: ~2.2% Catholic.
  • Seven Dioceses: Including Bamako, Mopti, and Sikasso.
  • White Fathers Legacy: Missionaries established hospitals and schools in the 19th century.
  • Interfaith Dialogue: The Church promotes peace in a Muslim-majority context.
  • Women’s Empowerment: Catholic missions support education and healthcare for women.

⚠️ Challenges

  • Security Risks: Northern Mali faces jihadist violence.
  • Resource Scarcity: Parishes often lack basic infrastructure.
  • Cultural Marginality: Catholicism is unfamiliar to many Malians.
  • Climate Hardship: Drought and displacement affect Church outreach.

🌿 Pilgrimage Cue

Mali is a journey of endurance and intercession—where the Eucharist is offered in desert silence, and the Church prays in the shadow of the Sahara with hidden holiness and missionary courage.

🕊️ Editorial Reflection

At first glance, both Guyana and Mali seem to ache—one flush with oil wealth but spiritually quiet, the other materially poor but spiritually resilient. But this is the heart of the Rich vs Poor Tour: not to rank or romanticize, but to reveal. Guyana’s challenge is comfort without communion; Mali’s is faith without favor. Neither “sucks.” But both aches. And both invite us to ask:

What does it mean to be rich in Christ?



Where does the Gospel burn brightest—in silence or in struggle?

🍽️ Ritual Meal: Guyana vs Mali

Theme: Comfort vs Communion, Silence vs Struggle

🥂 Aperitif

El Dorado Rum Punch with Lime, Sorrel, and Nutmeg (Guyana)
Symbol: Rainforest abundance and colonial sweetness
Prep: Brew sorrel, mix with citrus juices, ginger syrup, rum, and bitters. Garnish with lime and nutmeg.
Reflection: Begin with a toast to Guyana’s oil boom and ecological intimacy. Sorrel’s tartness evokes the ache beneath prosperity.

🥣 Soup

Baobab and Millet Porridge (Mali)
Symbol: Desert endurance and maternal strength
Prep: Simmer millet flour into porridge, stir in baobab powder for tang and nutrition.
Reflection: A humble offering from Mali’s Catholic missions. Baobab pulp nourishes like hidden holiness in the Sahara’s shadow.

🥗 Salad

Cassava Salad with Gold-Dusted Plantains (Guyana)



Symbol: Resource extraction and civic witness
Prep: Boil cassava, toss with homemade mayo, capers, celery, and carrots. Add pan-fried plantains dusted with edible gold.
Reflection: The gold dust is both blessing and burden. Remember the Catholic Standard’s prophetic voice against dictatorship.

🍝 Fish Course

Grilled Mahi Mahi with Tamarind Glaze (Guyana)
Symbol: Coastal resilience and Eucharistic simplicity
Prep: Grill mahi mahi, glaze with tamarind, lime, soy, and fish sauce.
Reflection: Honor the Catholic minority’s quiet witness. Tamarind’s sour-sweet profile evokes catechesis in a secular tide.

🍖 Main Course

Lamb Tagine with Dates and Cinnamon (Mali)
Symbol: Interfaith peace and sacrificial love
Prep: Slow-cook lamb with saffron, ginger, cinnamon, and finish with date syrup.
Reflection: The sweetness of dates softens the spice of struggle. A dish to honor Mali’s Catholic courage amid cultural marginality.

🧀 Cheese Course

Rice Pilaf with Dried Fish and Desert Herbs (Mali)
Symbol: Scarcity and missionary intercession
Prep: Sauté rice, simmer in broth, fold in dried fish and herbs like parsley or dill.
Reflection: A meal for those who pray in silence. Dried fish evokes the Church’s perseverance in drought and danger.

🍮 Dessert

Coconut Pudding with Nutmeg and Hibiscus Syrup (Guyana–Mali fusion)


I HATE COCONUT signed NIC

Symbol: Communion across continents
Prep: Simmer coconut milk with sugar and cornstarch, chill, top with nutmeg and hibiscus syrup.
Reflection: End with sweetness that doesn’t erase struggle. Let nutmeg and hibiscus remind you that joy and justice must kiss.



NOVEMBER 14 Friday

World Diabetes Day

 

John, Chapter 14, Verse 28-31

You heard me tell you, ‘I am going away and I will come back to you.’ If you LOVED me, you would rejoice that I am going to the Father; for the Father is greater than I and now I have told you this before it happens, so that when it happens you may believe. I will no longer speak much with you, for the ruler of the world is coming. He has no power over me, but the world must know that I love the Father and that I do just as the Father has commanded me. Get up, let us go. 

The Father has commanded total love, and the world will soon know that this is what the Son will give. “Get up, let us go.” Jesus states He will go (His death) but he will return through the Holy Spirit. Just as the disciples see Jesus now so they will soon know of his union with the Father, which union he will share with them. The disciples who love will be loved by both the Father and the Son, who through the Holy Spirit will reveal himself to them. This is the Christ who gave Himself to the Father and now redeems all who ask through the water and blood that flowed from His side to us via the priesthood coming down through the ages. Be baptized, confess and take His flesh and eat. This is the love of the Father that all be saved.

Copilot’s Take

On World Diabetes Day, the words of Jesus in John 14:28–31 offer a profound invitation to love that transcends suffering. As He prepares to go to the Father, Jesus assures His disciples that His departure is not abandonment but the beginning of deeper communion through the Holy Spirit. “Get up, let us go,” He says—not as a farewell, but as a call to action, to love as He loves, to obey as He obeys. In a world marked by chronic illness and spiritual longing, this passage reminds us that healing flows not only through medicine but through sacramental grace: baptism, confession, and the Eucharist. The water and blood from Christ’s side continue to redeem through the priesthood, offering salvation to all who ask. On this day, we honor both the physical resilience of those living with diabetes and the spiritual resilience of those who rise daily in love, obedience, and hope.

Bible in a Year Day 132 David and Absalom

Fr. Mike reflects on the story of David and Absalom, and points out the lack of forgiveness and repentance on both men's part. God forgives us no matter what, but without us mirroring that forgiveness, rebellion can easily rise up. Today's readings are 2 Samuel 14, 1 Chronicles 18, and Psalm 14.

World Diabetes Day[1]

World Diabetes Day aims to raise awareness of diabetes, a disease that raises blood sugar. Diabetes can result in problems with other organs and significantly increase the risk of heart disease, stroke and death.  As of 2015, approximately 1 in 10 adults worldwide is diabetic, a problem which poses a massive burden on nations as it threatens their health and economic prosperity. In 1991, World Diabetes Day was established by the International Diabetes Federation and the World Health Organization in an effort to address the increasing number of diabetes cases and its burden on countries.  Currently, diabetes prevalence is highest in the Middle East and Southern Asia while it is lowest in Sub Saharan Africa. Diabetes, especially type 2, has been linked to obesity and a sedentary, inactive lifestyle and thus World Diabetes Day also serves to promote a healthy and active lifestyle that can drastically reduce the risk of developing type 2 diabetes.

World Diabetes Day Facts & Quotes

·         According to the World Health Organization, about 350 million people in the world have diabetes. The organization expects this number to double in the next two decades.

·         More than 80% of deaths related to diabetes occur in low and middle-income countries.

·         Type 2 diabetes is much more common than type 1. Type 2 diabetes accounts for about 90% of the world's diabetes cases.

·         50% of people with diabetes die due to heart disease and stroke (cardiovascular diseases).

·         I was determined to share my positive approach and not let diabetes stand in the way of enjoying my life - Paula Deen, celebrity chef.

World Diabetes Day Top Events and Things to Do

·         Visit your doctor if you are overweight, obese, do not regularly exercise and do not eat a balanced diet. These are all factors that can cause diabetes.

·         Participate in one of the American Diabetes Association's fundraising activities which include, The Tour de Cure, Step Out: Walk to Stop Diabetes, Rip's B.A.D. Ride or you can create your own fundraising event by using the organizations' online tools.

·         Watch a documentary about diabetes and diabetes-related topics such as obesity, sugar consumption and fast food. Our favorites are Sugar Babies, The Human Trial, Simply Raw Reversing Diabetes in 30 Days and Diabetes Cure Documentary

·         Learn about ways to control and lower the risk of developing diabetes. The American Diabetes Association provides some great ways to reduce your risk which include:
1) Eat a healthy balanced diet
2) Exercise regularly
3) Ensure that you are not overweight or obese
4) Remove unnecessary processed foods with high sugar content from your diet
5) Get checked for high blood pressure or abnormal cholesterol levels

·         Try the Iceman’s Universal Man Plan

·         Learn about the symptoms and signs of diabetes. Many cases of diabetes go undiagnosed for long periods of time while causing irreversible damage to the body. Some common signs and symptoms include:
-Hunger
-Fatigue
-Frequent urination
-Constant Thirst
-Blurred vision

Fitness Friday-The Brain Warrior’s Way 

Ignite Your Energy and Focus; Attack Illness and Aging; Transform Pain into Purpose 

Dr. Daniel AmenTana Amen

November 22, 2016

The war for your health is won or lost between your ears, in the moment-by-moment decisions your brain makes every day. When your brain works right, your decisions are much more likely to be effective and add laserlike focus, energy and health to your life. When your brain is troubled, for whatever reason, you are much more likely to make bad decisions that steal your energy, focus, moods, memory, and health and lead to your early destruction and trouble in future generations.

Related: It Only Takes 5 Minutes a Day to Keep Your Brain Healthy

Bushido (Japanese: “way of the warrior”) is the code of ethics for the samurai. It is a way of living that is required to be a warrior. Samurais ascribe to a culture focused on constant, never-ending self-improvement in an effort to protect themselves and those they love. “A warrior is someone who is committed to master oneself at all levels, who develops the courage to do the right thing for yourself, others, and community,” Mark Divine writes in The Way of the SEAL.

The Brain Warrior’s Way is also a way of living, a clear path we have developed over three decades of helping patients at Amen Clinics have better brains and better lives. This path grounded in scientific research has helped people in the military, businesses, churches, schools and drug rehabilitation centers. Living the Brain Warrior’s Way will improve your decision-making ability and sense of personal power and help your…

The Brain Warrior’s Way was designed to help you live with vitality, a clear mind and excellent health—even if you are struggling or are in pain right now—even if you’ve made unhealthy choices for many years. Genes play a more minor role than you think, and many diseases are born out of unhealthful choices and behaviors, regardless of whether there is a genetic predisposition. The new science of epigenetics has taught us that your habits turn on or off certain genes that make illnesses and early death more or less likely in you, and also in your children and grandchildren. The war for the health of your brain and body is not just about you. It is about generations of you.

Step by step, The Brain Warrior’s Way will show you how to develop a Brain Warrior’s MASTERY over your physical and mental health. It will teach you:

Mindset of a Brain Warrior—knowing your motivation to be healthy and focusing on abundance, never deprivation

Assessment of a Brain Warrior—having a clear strategy, brain health assessment, knowing and optimizing your important numbers, fighting the war on multiple fronts, and always being on the lookout to prevent future trouble

Sustenance of a Brain Warrior—knowing the food and supplements that fuel success and give you a competitive edge

Training of a Brain Warrior—engaging in the daily habits and routines that protect your health

Essence of a Brain Warrior—transforming your pain into passion and knowing why the world is a better place because you are here

Responsibilities of a Brain Warrior—taking the critical step of sharing information and creating your own tribe of Brain Warriors

Yearlong Basic Training of a Brain Warrior—making lasting changes with tools that will last a lifetime

Brain Warriors Advance in Stages: Primitive, Mechanical, Spontaneous

Every martial artist, athlete, or musician remembers how awkward she felt when she first started learning complex moves. Most felt like their bodies would never cooperate. However, over time the moves became smoother, until they eventually felt like second nature. The brain and body needed time to grow, make new connections, and adapt to new ways of working and thinking.

When someone is first starting the Brain Warrior’s Way program, she often feels a bit overwhelmed and confused.

  • Hey, where’s the sugar?!
  • Everything in moderation!
  • What happened to the bread and pasta? When are they coming back?
  • But I love French fries and sodas!
  • I don’t know where to shop or what to buy!
  • I don’t want to get 8 hours of sleep!
  • I don’t want to exercise!
  •  I’m too busy, too stressed, too used to my old ways.

We tell our Brain Warriors in training not to worry, because they are in the primitive phase, when things feel impossible and hard, and they think they’ll never be able to do it. It just takes trust, a bit of knowledge, success in feeling better quickly, and persistence to get to the next stage. Pretty soon, often within thirty days if you are on the fast track or thirty to ninety days if you are taking a more incremental approach, your taste buds regenerate themselves, the brain makes new connections and begins to grow, and soon enough, everything becomes easier.

Then you will transition to the mechanical phase, when you develop a healthy rhythm. You find the foods you love, exercises you can do, and brain healthy habits come easier to you. Clarity and energy replace brain fog. You start associating certain foods with feeling happier and more energized or with feeling sadder and more lethargic. It starts to become much easier to make healthy choices. You become better at noticing your negative thought patterns and begin questioning the negative thoughts running through your head. In this phase you still have to closely follow the Brain Warrior’s Way program, because it is not yet second nature to you. This phase may last for one to three months for the fast-track folks and three to six months for the incrementalists.

Related: Healthy Living Equals Successful Living

Our goal is for you to reach the spontaneous phase, when your habits and responses become automatic and second nature. This usually occurs between four and six months for the fast-track folks and six and twelve months for the people who are taking things step by step. And if you persist through your challenges and setbacks, such as job or work challenges, divorce and deaths (which we all experience), the Brain Warrior’s Way will last a lifetime.

In the spontaneous phase, the responses and habits become automatic.

  • Do you want dessert? Yes, but I want something that serves my health, rather than steals from it.
  • Do you want bread before dinner? No.
  • Would you like a second glass of wine? No.
  • You schedule your workouts and rarely miss them, as you would rarely miss your child’s sporting event or a doctor’s appointment. They are important to you.
  • You don’t have to think about your responses because they are spontaneous and habitual in a good way.

Get your black belt in brain health. Being a black belt doesn’t mean you are tougher or stronger or that you don’t get scared. Being a black belt means you never give up, you face your fears, you persevere, and you always get up one more time!

A black belt is just a white belt who never quit.

This gives you permission to fall without failing, as long as you get up and try again. It is a process. Most important, you pass on the information by becoming a mentor to someone who is struggling. To get your black belt you are expected to be a mentor, to teach others your art. By teaching others, you powerfully reinforce in yourself what you’ve learned. It truly is in the giving that we receive.

Excerpted from The Brain Warrior’s Way by Daniel G. Amen, M.D., and Tana Amen, BSN, RN, in agreement with Berkeley, an imprint of Penguin Random House. Copyright © 2016 by Daniel G. Amen, M.D., and Tana Amen, BSN, RN.

 Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Catholic Politicians & Leaders

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary

Thursday, November 13, 2025

 

Writer Robert Lewis Stevenson born, 1850

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde explores the duality of human nature—how good and evil coexist within us—and offers rich terrain for Catholic reflection on sin, conscience, and redemption.


🧪 Summary of The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde

Robert Louis Stevenson’s novella follows Dr. Henry Jekyll, a respected scientist who creates a potion that transforms him into Edward Hyde, a violent and immoral alter ego. Jekyll initially enjoys the freedom Hyde offers, indulging in hidden pleasures without tarnishing his public reputation. But Hyde’s evil escalates—he tramples a child, murders Sir Danvers Carew, and becomes uncontrollable. Eventually, Jekyll loses the ability to return to his original self and dies, consumed by the darkness he unleashed.


✝️ Catholic Moral and Spiritual Lessons

The novella resonates deeply with Catholic theology and spiritual formation:

1. The Nature of Sin and the Fall

  • Jekyll’s desire to separate his good and evil selves mirrors original sin—the human inclination to rebel against God’s order.
  • His descent into Hyde reflects how sin, once indulged, grows and enslaves the soul.

2. Conscience and Moral Responsibility

  • Jekyll’s initial guilt and attempts to suppress Hyde show the workings of conscience, a key Catholic concept.
  • His failure to confess and seek grace leads to spiritual ruin, echoing the need for sacramental reconciliation.

3. Duality and the Unity of the Soul

  • Catholic anthropology teaches that body and soul are united; Jekyll’s attempt to split his moral identity violates this unity.
  • The story warns against moral compartmentalization—living one life in public and another in secret.

4. The Danger of Playing God

  • Jekyll’s scientific ambition to control human nature critiques hubris and the temptation to usurp divine authority.
  • It echoes the Catholic caution against moral relativism and unchecked technological power.

5. Redemption and the Limits of Human Will

  • Jekyll’s tragic end underscores that human will alone cannot overcome sin—we need divine grace.
  • The absence of sacramental or communal intervention in the story highlights the importance of Church, confession, and spiritual accountability.


Rachel’s Corner

·         do a personal eucharistic stations of the cross.

Whoopi’s Birthday

·         Roast Dinner Day

·         How to celebrate Nov 13th

o   Start your day by embracing the spirit of kindness. Surprise someone with a heartfelt hug or a small act of generosity.

§  Show appreciation for the musicians in your life, whether it’s by listening to their music, sharing their work, or simply giving them a virtual hug.

·         Bake a comforting Indian pudding to share with loved ones, celebrating traditions and flavors from around the world.

o   As the day unfolds, consider arranging a musical gathering with friends.

§  Host a small roast dinner party where everyone can contribute dishes and enjoy good food and great company.

·         Play symphonic metal music in the background to add a unique twist to the atmosphere.

o   Encourage guests to participate in a friendly dance-off or karaoke session to up the entertainment factor.

o   In the evening, channel the playful and unconventional spirit of Sadie Hawkins Day. Organize a fun event where women take the lead – whether it’s choosing activities, making decisions, or asking someone out.

Best Place to visit in November:

USA: Shenandoah National Park

#15 in Best Places to Visit in November

Shenandoah National Park's stunning fall foliage and comfortable weather (think: temperatures in the low 50s to low 60s) last through mid-November, making this a great time to take in the landscape while exploring the park. Hit up the Virginia park's miles of hiking trails, including popular (albeit challenging) Old Rag Mountain and Fort Windham Rocks, which is part of the Appalachian Trail. Or, bring a bike and enjoy a scenic ride down tree-lined Skyline Drive. Read More

World: Lisbon

#1 in Best Places to Visit in November

Attend the Web Summit Lisbon

Travelers seeking a cheap European vacation should consider a November getaway to Portugal's capital city. Temperatures remain comfortably in the 50s and 60s throughout the month, and although you can expect an increase in precipitation, the lack of crowds and inexpensive hotel prices more than make up for the rain. You'll appreciate the extra elbow room while riding Tram 28, a must-see Lisbon symbol that takes tourists past top sights like St. George's Castle and many beautiful miradouros (scenic viewpoints). What's more, the popular yellow tram provides easy access to Alfama, Lisbon's picturesque historic district. Read More

Thursday Feast

Thursday is the day of the week that our Lord gave himself up for consumption. Thursday commemorates the last supper. Some theologians believe after Sunday Thursday is the holiest day of the week. We should then try to make this day special by making a visit to the blessed sacrament chapel, Mass or even stopping by the grave of a loved one. Why not plan to count the blessing of the week and thank our Lord. Plan a special meal. Be at Peace.

Dinner Menu

Here’s your Naples pilgrimage guide with numbered sections, formatted for clarity and blog-ready structure:


🇮🇹 Naples, Italy – Bread of the Deep

A week of volcanic mercy, underground witness, and Neapolitan hospitality

1. Lodging with Legacy

Stay where civic rhythm meets sacred ground

·         Navy Gateway Inns – NSA Naples (Capodichino)

·         NSA Naples Passenger Terminal Info


2. Bread of the Deep – Seven-Course Ritual Meal

A symbolic Neapolitan supper rooted in fire, mercy, and resurrection

1.       Fried zucchini blossoms – fragile joy and hidden strength

2.       Mozzarella di bufala with basil oil – Marian protection

3.       Pizza fritta (fried pizza) – resurrection through fire

4.       Pasta alla Genovese – slow mercy and ancestral depth

5.       Eggplant parmigiana – layered witness

6.       Sfogliatella – folded mystery and sweetness

7.       Limoncello granita – citrus clarity and Eucharistic light

Foodie Tours & Culinary Guides

·         Naples Street Food Tour – Cultured Voyages

·         Ultimate Naples Food Tour – The Foodellers

·         12 Best Things To Do in Naples for Foodies – Chef Denise


3. Symbolic Adventures

1.       Kayak at Posillipo – mercy on the water

2.       Underground Naples tour – catacombs, aqueducts, and bomb shelters

3.       Mount Vesuvius hike – ashes to ascent

4.       Day trip to Pompeii – frozen witness and civic memory


4. Cultural Pilgrimage

·         Naples National Archaeological Museum – Pompeii’s treasures and Roman echoes

·         Teatro di San Carlo – oldest opera house in Europe

·         Bourbon Tunnel – underground escape and resilience
(Local’s Guide to Naples – The Blonde Abroad)


5. Nature & Reflection

·         Lungomare seafront promenade – sunset Eucharist by the bay

·         Castel dell’Ovo – egg of origin and civic myth

·         Villa Floridiana gardens – quiet renewal above the city


6. Sacred Anchors

·         San Gennaro Catacombs – underground communion and civic intercession

·         Santa Chiara Monastery – cloistered clarity and WWII mercy

·         Gesù Nuovo – baroque mystery and healing witness

·         San Domenico Maggiore – Dominican fire and civic courage
(Top 10 Churches in Naples – VisitNaples.eu)


7. Firelight Finale

·         Bonfires not permitted in city limits, but symbolic candles or rooftop vigils are welcome

·         Ritual Act: Light a candle at Gesù Nuovo, then share sfogliatella and limoncello under the stars

·         Film Pairing: The Two Popes – dialogue, mercy, and transformation



NOVEMBER 13 day-Thursday-St. Frances Xavier Cabrini

Sadie Hawkins Day

 

John, Chapter 14, Verse 21-24

Whoever has my commandments and observes them is the one who LOVES me. And whoever loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and reveal myself to him.” Judas, not the Iscariot, said to him, “Master, [then] what happened that you will reveal yourself to us and not to the world?” Jesus answered and said to him, “Whoever loves me will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him. Whoever does not love me does not keep my words; yet the word you hear is not mine but that of the Father who sent me.

This is the indwelling of the Father and the Son, when we have this, we reflect our own perfected beauty. Think of a beauty queen and compare it to the face of Mother Teresa.

which portrays beauty more?

When we have the indwelling, the truth is never far from us; think of Thomas More and when we have the indwelling, we have joy and our earthly work is not a burden but light.

If you are not happy perhaps you should reflect, are you observing Christ' commandments?

First seek the kingdom and all grace will be added to you. When we have the indwelling, the spirit compels us to acts of mercy. The traditional enumeration of the corporal works of mercy is as follows:

·         To feed the hungry.

·         To give drink to the thirsty.

·         To clothe the naked.

·         To harbor the harbor less.

·         To visit the sick.

·         To ransom the captive.

·         To bury the dead.

The spiritual works of mercy are:

·         To instruct the ignorant;

·         To counsel the doubtful;

·         To admonish sinners;

·         To bear wrongs patiently.

·         To forgive offences willingly.

·         To comfort the afflicted.

·         To pray for the living and the dead.

In a sense when we have the indwelling, we are like Mary the great mother of God and are compelled to acts of mercy; they are not just a list but a way of being.

Copilot’s Take

On November 13, the whimsical tradition of Sadie Hawkins Day—where women take the lead in courtship—intersects with the solemn feast of St. Frances Xavier Cabrini and the profound promise of John 14:21–24. In this Gospel, Jesus speaks of divine indwelling: a love so mutual and obedient that the Father and Son make their home within us. This indwelling transforms our understanding of beauty—not as outward charm, but as mercy embodied, like the radiant humility of Mother Teresa. When we live in this love, our burdens lighten, our joy deepens, and we are compelled to mercy—not by obligation, but by the Spirit’s gentle insistence. Sadie’s pursuit becomes a parable: not of romantic desperation, but of divine reversal, where God first loved us, and now we chase mercy in return. On this day, let us reflect: are we observing Christ’s commandments, not as rules, but as invitations to joy, beauty, and the indwelling presence that makes all things light?

Mother Cabrini, the Saint of Italians in America[1]

Frances Xavier Cabrini, born in the province of Lodi in Lombardy, eventually came to the United States toward the end of the nineteenth century. It was due to total serendipity that she became the saint for Italian immigrants in this country. It is also a sweet paradox that she, from the north, arrived during the great wave of southern Italian emigration to the United States. Having taken her vows in 1877, three years later she and six other nuns founded the religious institute Missionary Sisters of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. As we read earlier, wanting to provide help to immigrants beginning in the U.S., Pope Leo XIII suggested instead that she go west, where, according to him, the already thousands of Italian immigrants in the U.S. were in great need of assistance. Mother Cabrini and six others arrived in the United States in 1889 and hit the ground running, so to speak. As they did in Italy, here, too, Mother Cabrini and her team founded the requisite housing, a series of schools and orphanages, and the necessary hospitals that chiefly served the Italian immigrant communities. Actions supported by the Church, for sure, but actions also emblematic of what Italians can do in order to help other Italians in need.

In all, they founded close to 70 institutions of all types in numerous cities throughout the United States — Chicago and New York the two principal cities associated with Mother Cabrini today, as well as Cabrini College in Pennsylvania. Undoubtedly, Mother Cabrini was an exemplar of all things possible and thus a symbol of hope for all. She herself had crossed the ocean in 1889 and, in so doing, had followed the same route that thousands of other immigrants had and were taking. Privileged as she was in her role as nun — and let us underscore at this juncture her gender — she was a woman of great acumen, having succeeded in overcoming great obstacles of the time and demonstrating how all things were possible. In this sense, then, she was also an example of how one can get things done and, more important, how we can still today — and let us say should — open doors for all people who are in need of such assistance.

Her legacy clearly lives on both within and beyond the Italian/ American community. Italian Americans continue to serve and donate to many Catholic and social institutions today, at times even beyond. If there is one thing to bemoan, it is that her medical institutions of New York — Columbus Hospital and the Italian Hospital, which eventually became the Cabrini Medical Center — could not be sustained and consequently closed in 2008. Nonetheless, Mother Cabrini remains that shining light not only for all those whom she helped, but to be sure, that exemplar par excellence that we, today, should emulate for the dedication so necessary to get things done for the better good.

Things to Do:[2]

 

·         If you live in or pass through Colorado, visit the western Mother Cabrini Shrine.

·         Read more about St. Francis Cabrini.

·         Prepare an Italian dinner in honor of St. Francis Cabrini. For dessert make a ship cake (symbolizing her missionary work), a heart cake (she founded the Missionary Sisters of the Sacred Heart) or a Book Cake (symbolizing her founding a religious order).

·         Say the Little Rosary of St. Francis Xavier Cabrini.

·         Read the Encyclical, On Consecrated Virginity, by Pius XII and if you are single consider the possibility of a vocation to this life.

·         Read the Pope Benedict XVI's Address for World Day of Migrants and Refugees, 2007.

·         If you know someone who has immigrated to this country, try to help them feel welcome, perhaps by inviting them over for the Italian dinner.

Bible in a Year Day 131 Hope for the Future

Fr. Mike preaches hope for the future of those with wounded hearts as we read the stories of Tamar, Amnon, and David. No matter what's in your past - things you've done or things that have been done to you - there is abundant hope for your future because God desires to make you whole. Today's readings are 2 Samuel 13, 1 Chronicles 17, and Psalm 35.

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Victims of clergy sexual abuse

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary

Bourbon & Cigars

Bourbon & Cigars
Smoke in this Life not the Next

Domus Vinea Mariae

Domus Vinea Mariae
Home of Mary's Vineyard