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 Monday Night at the Movies

 The Bells of St. Mary's

The Bells of St. Mary’s (1945) tells the story of Father O’Malley and Sister Benedict working together—sometimes clashing, sometimes harmonizing—to save a struggling Catholic school. The film offers Catholic lessons on faith, perseverance, charity, and the power of community love.

🎬 Movie Summary

Setting: An inner-city Catholic parish school, St. Mary’s, run by nuns under Sister Mary Benedict.

Main Characters:

Father Charles “Chuck” O’Malley (Bing Crosby), a progressive priest.

Sister Mary Benedict (Ingrid Bergman), a devoted and traditional nun.

Conflict: The school building is deteriorating and faces condemnation. Sister Benedict hopes a wealthy businessman, Horace Bogardus, will donate his new building next door to the parish. Father O’Malley is more pragmatic, considering closure.

Subplots:

Mary Gallagher, a struggling mother, enrolls her daughter Patsy, who battles academic failure and shame.

Sister Benedict falls ill with tuberculosis and must be transferred, though she is not told the full truth to preserve her spirit.

Bogardus, initially selfish, is moved to acts of charity and ultimately donates his building to the school.

Resolution: Despite hardships, the school is saved, Patsy finds hope, and Sister Benedict departs with faith intact.

✝️ Catholic Lessons

Drawing from Catholic spirituality and biblical principles, the film conveys several enduring lessons:

Faith and Providence:
    Sister Benedict’s unwavering trust in God reflects Matthew 17:20—faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains. Her belief that God will provide teaches reliance on divine providence.

Perseverance in Mission:
    The sisters’ determination to keep the school alive embodies Catholic teaching on vocation—remaining steadfast in service despite obstacles.

Charity and Conversion:
    Bogardus’ transformation from selfishness to generosity illustrates the Catholic call to conversion and the healing power of good works (cf. James 2:17).

Community and Love:
    The collaboration between Father O’Malley and Sister Benedict, despite differences, shows how love and respect build unity. This echoes 1 Peter 4:8: “Above all, love each other deeply”.

Education as Formation:
    The insistence on academic integrity (Patsy failing honestly rather than being passed) highlights Catholic values of truth, discipline, and moral character in education.

Suffering and Redemptive Hope:
    Sister Benedict’s illness and quiet acceptance reflect Catholic teaching on redemptive suffering—bearing trials with faith and offering them to God.

🌟 Why It Endures

The Bells of St. Mary’s remains beloved because it blends warm humor, human struggle, and spiritual depth. It portrays Catholic life not as rigid rules but as a living faith—where perseverance, charity, and love transform both individuals and communities.

Copilot-In The Bells of St. Mary’s, Father O’Malley and Sister Benedict embody the Catholic conviction that faith, charity, and perseverance can redeem even the hardest situations. The school is saved not by force, but by conversion—Bogardus, the businessman, is moved to generosity, and a struggling child finds hope through honest discipline. The film’s lesson is clear: God’s providence works through human cooperation, and redemption is possible when hearts are softened.

Yet, as Bill O’Reilly points out in his Sunday reflection, Catholic preaching today often emphasizes encouragement over warning. The Gospel itself reminds us that many may choose paths that lead to damnation, though modern homilies rarely dwell on Gehenna. O’Reilly contrasts this gentleness with the Puritan fire-and-brimstone tradition, noting that while threats of hell once dominated sermons, today’s Church leans toward mercy and invitation.

Still, the tension remains: if evil goes unpunished, if miscreants never repent—as O’Reilly highlights in his book Confronting Evil—then justice itself seems hollow. Catholic teaching insists that mercy and judgment are inseparable. The warmth of The Bells of St. Mary’s shows the Church at its most pastoral, but O’Reilly’s meditation reminds us that without the reality of final judgment, the story of salvation loses its moral weight. 

Bill O'Reilly-At Mass on Sunday, the Gospel posited that a significant amount of people will go to hell, so they might want to wise up before it’s too late.  Interestingly, a Gallup survey says about 60 percent of Americans believe in damnation, Evangelicals leading the league. 

The priest sermonized about the prospect of Gehenna, but gently.  These days, the Catholic Church rarely pounds home theological negativity, preferring to encourage good behavior from the pulpit. 

It’s tough enough to get folks in the pews. Telling them a fire pit may await doesn’t make it easier. 

The hell thing, of course, has been around since human beings harnessed fire to cook food and keep warm.  Back at the first Thanksgiving time, the Puritan sermonizers spent hours threatening their flock with eternal suffering if their knee socks were too low.  Plymouth was a tough place. 

In the modern world, miscreants are running wild seemingly without restraint. None of the 15 horrendous human beings profiled in my book “Confronting Evil” repented.  Not one. 

To me, it just doesn’t stack up that a person can consistently harm others with no final judgment or consequence.  I hope that is not the case. 

Because if it is, we are all living in a meaningless world without true justice. And that would be a hell of a thing. 

See you this evening for the No Spin News.

 

DECEMBER 8

Worldwide Candle Lighting Day

 

Judith, Chapter 4, Verse 1-2

1 When the Israelites who lived in Judea heard of all that Holofernes, the ranking general of Nebuchadnezzar king of the Assyrians, had done to the nations, and how he had looted all their shrines and utterly destroyed them, 2 they were in very great FEAR of him, and greatly alarmed for Jerusalem and the temple of the Lord, their God.

 

Join the resistance! No not the fake news one but the resistance to all that is evil. Godly resistance is much different than the guttural takes no prisoners of modern time’s resistance with our pink devil horned hats.

 

Holy Resistance[1]

 

·         The Israelites’ reaction to invasion differs from their neighbors in two respects: The nature of their fear and their response.

·         Their fear is not only for themselves but primarily for Jerusalem and the temple of the Lord.

·         Most secularists surrender to evil with joy; but the holy prepare to defend its most precious possession: faith and trust in He who is.

·         We must prepare to defend the mountain passes by defending our faith.

·         However, the most important preparation for siege is spiritual through prayer and fasting.

·         Note Mary the Mother of Christ via Fatima apparitions tell us that we like the Israelites must continue in prayer, making reparation and consecration to God.

·         The key is cry unto the Lord.

 

The Book of Judith symbolic of the Virgin Mary[2]

Judith was a holy widow.  She wore haircloth and fasted almost every day. She spent most of her time in a chamber of her home, praying. The land of Israel was in distress, being under siege by Holofernes. It is when Israel is in it's greatest need that she comes forth from the chamber to save them by her intercession. This is symbolic of the Blessed Virgin Mary and her victory over Satan in the very last days to come. What is most interesting and noteworthy is the talk she gave to the leaders of the people. Her words apply to us in the latter days of this great apostasy from the Catholic faith. We should pay heed and learn from her as they are words Our Lady would no doubt address to each of us: Have patience, be humble, pray to God for mercy, it was our fathers that drew down this chastisement upon us: Our part is to suffer these tribulations as penance for our sins. It is for our sanctification.

 

Judith was symbolic of the Virgin Mary

 

And they came to her, and she said to them:

 

What is this word, by which Ozias hath consented to give up the city to the Assyrians, if within five days there come no aid to us? 

 

And who are you that tempt the Lord? 

 

This is not a word that may draw down mercy, but rather that may stir up wrath, and enkindle indignation. You have set a time for the mercy of the Lord, and you have appointed him a day, according to your pleasure.  But forasmuch as the Lord is patient, let us be penitent for this same thing, and with many tears let us beg his pardon: For God will not threaten like man, nor be inflamed to anger like the son of man. And therefore, let us humble our souls before him, and continuing in an humble spirit, in his service: Let us ask the Lord with tears, that according to his will so he would shew his mercy to us: that as our heart is troubled by their pride, so also we may glorify in our humility.  For we have not followed the sins of our fathers, who forsook their God, and worshiped strange gods. For which crime they were given up to their enemies, to the sword, and to pillage, and to confusion: but we know no other God but him.  Let us humbly wait for his consolation, and the Lord our God will require our blood of the afflictions of our enemies, and he will humble all the nations that shall rise up against us and bring them to disgrace. And now, brethren, as you are the ancients among the people of God, and their very soul resteth upon you: comfort their hearts by your speech, that they may be mindful how our fathers were tempted that they might be proved, whether they worshiped their God truly.  They must remember how our father Abraham was tempted, and being proved by many tribulations, was made the friend of God.  So Isaac, so Jacob, so Moses, and all that have pleased God, passed through many tribulations, remaining faithful.  But they that did not receive the trials with the fear of the Lord, but uttered their impatience and the reproach of their murmuring against the Lord, Were destroyed by the destroyer, and perished by serpents. As for us therefore let us not revenge ourselves for these things which we suffer.  But esteeming these very punishments to be less than our sins deserve, let us believe that these scourges of the Lord, with which like servants we are chastised, have happened for our amendment, and not for our destruction. And Ozias and the ancients said to her: All things which thou hast spoken are true, and there is nothing to be reprehended in thy words.  Now therefore pray for us, for thou art a holy woman, and one fearing God.    JUDITH 8, 10-34

 

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[3]

Want to start a small group? Download our 33 Days to Eucharistic Glory Study Guide

Day 17

On this 17th day, to have a mind filled with victory through humble obedience to your will.

Copilot:

To cultivate a mind filled with victory through humble obedience to God's will, consider these spiritual practices and reflections:

Daily Spiritual Practices

  1. Prayer for Guidance: Start your day with a prayer asking God for the wisdom to understand His will and the humility to follow it. Prayers like the Prayer of Surrender or St. Ignatius' Prayer for Generosity can be particularly powerful.
  2. Meditation on Scriptures: Reflect on passages that emphasize victory through obedience and humility. For example, Philippians 2:5-11 describes Christ's humility and obedience, leading to ultimate victory.

Strengthening Obedience and Humility

  1. Sacraments: Regular participation in the sacraments, especially the Eucharist, provides grace and strength to follow God's will.
  2. Spiritual Reflection: Spend time reflecting on areas in your life where you can grow in humility and obedience. Consider keeping a journal to document your thoughts and progress.

Reflecting on Victory through Obedience

  1. Acts of Service: Engage in acts of service and kindness, seeing them as opportunities to practice humility and obey God's call to love others.
  2. Gratitude Practices: Cultivate a mindset of gratitude by acknowledging the victories and blessings in your life, both big and small, that come from following God's will.

Example Prayer for Humble Obedience

Here’s a prayer to help you seek victory through humble obedience:

Heavenly Father, Grant me the grace to humbly obey Your will in all things. Fill my mind with the wisdom to understand Your guidance, And the strength to follow it with a humble heart. May Your will be done in my life, Leading me to victory through faith and trust in You. Amen.

Catechism of the Catholic Church

PART TWO: THE CELEBRATION OF THE CHRISTIAN MYSTERY

SECTION TWO-THE SEVEN SACRAMENTS OF THE CHURCH

CHAPTER ONE-THE SACRAMENTS OF CHRISTIAN INITIATION

IN BRIEF

                   Day 179

1315 "Now when the apostles at Jerusalem heard that Samaria had received the word of God, they sent to them Peter and John, who came down and prayed for them that they might receive the Holy Spirit; for it had not yet fallen on any of them, but they had only been baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. Then they laid their hands on them and they received the Holy Spirit" (Acts 8:14-17).

1316 Confirmation perfects Baptismal grace; it is the sacrament which gives the Holy Spirit in order to root us more deeply in the divine filiation, incorporate us more firmly into Christ, strengthen our bond with the Church, associate us more closely with her mission, and help us bear witness to the Christian faith in words accompanied by deeds.

1317 Confirmation, like Baptism, imprints a spiritual mark or indelible character on the Christian's soul; for this reason one can receive this sacrament only once in one's life.

1318 In the East this sacrament is administered immediately after Baptism and is followed by participation in the Eucharist; this tradition highlights the unity of the three sacraments of Christian initiation. In the Latin Church this sacrament is administered when the age of reason has been reached, and its celebration is ordinarily reserved to the bishop, thus signifying that this sacrament strengthens the ecclesial bond.

1319 A candidate for Confirmation who has attained the age of reason must profess the faith, be in the state of grace, have the intention of receiving the sacrament, and be prepared to assume the role of disciple and witness to Christ, both within the ecclesial community and in temporal affairs.

1320 The essential rite of Confirmation is anointing the forehead of the baptized with sacred chrism (in the East other sense-organs as well), together with the laying on of the minister's hand and the words: "Accipe signaculum doni Spiritus Sancti" (Be sealed with the Gift of the Holy Spirit.) in the Roman Rite, or "The seal of the gift that is the Holy Spirit" in the Byzantine rite.

1321 When Confirmation is celebrated separately from Baptism, its connection with Baptism is expressed, among other ways, by the renewal of baptismal promises. the celebration of Confirmation during the Eucharist helps underline the unity of the sacraments of Christian initiation.

Worldwide Candle lighting Day[4]

For hundreds of years, lighting a candle has been a way to show respect for those that have died. This beautiful gesture shows that although someone may be gone from this world, their memory will endure, and the light of their flame will continue to inspire and guide others. Worldwide Candle Lighting Day is a celebration of solidarity and memory. It’s a day on which people around the world gather to light candles for children who have died and to show that they will always be loved and never forgotten. The candles are lit at the same time in every time zone, meaning that a consistent warm glow passes around the planet for a full 24-hour day.

The History of Worldwide Candle Lighting Day

Worldwide Candle Lighting Day was a gift to the bereavement community from The Compassionate Friend. The Compassionate Friend’s Worldwide Candle Lighting Day started in the United States in 1997 as a small internet observance in honor of children who lived tragically short lives for any number of reasons, from sickness, to accidents, to war, but has since spread throughout the world. Nowadays, hundreds of formal candle lighting events are held in many different countries and thousands of informal candle lightings are conducted in homes as families gather in quiet remembrance of children who have died, but will never be forgotten. many organizations join in to observe this holiday, some f which are local bereavement groups, churches, funeral homes, hospitals, hospices, children’s gardens, schools, cemeteries, and community centers, and remembrance services have ranged in size from just a few people to nearly a thousand over the years since the creation of this special day. All of this just goes to show how necessary it was to set this day aside for this purpose.

How to Celebrate World Candle Lighting Day

As mentioned before, this day is celebrated with a quiet elegance: at 7 p.m. local time, people light candles for one hour to remember their loved ones. It is a moving occasion that bypasses geographical and cultural divides. As everyone lights their candles at seven pm local time, far-flung parts of the world get illuminated in turn, so that eventually the light has moved all around the globe. If you have experienced the loss of a child in your lifetime, this is a good moment to honor his or her memory by taking part in the candle lighting. You could also invite some close family members to spend this time with you and light their own candles for the late child.

This doesn’t only have to be a sad occasion, however. Children’s lives are mostly filled with fun and laughter, so reminiscing about all of the things the child you are honoring managed to enjoy before he or she passed may should serve to lighten the atmosphere up a little bit. Of course, nothing will ever make up for the loss of a child, but there is some solace to be taken in the fact that the child’s life was a good one, however short. No matter whether you’ll be lighting a candle at home or joining a gathering Worldwide Candle Lighting Day it is a way to show love and community.

Jesse Tree[5]

Jesse Tree Scriptures (The Symbols Are Only Suggestions)

December 1 Creation: Gen. 1:1-31; 2:1-4 Symbols: sun, moon, stars, animals, earth

December 2 Adam and Eve: Gen. 2:7-9, 18-24 Symbols: tree, man, woman

December 3 Fall of Man: Gen. 3:1-7 and 23-24 Symbols: tree, serpent, apple with bite

December 4 Noah: Gen. 6:5-8, 13-22; 7:17, 23, 24; 8:1, 6-22 Symbols: ark, animals, dove, rainbow

December 5 Abraham: Gen. 12:1-3 Symbols: torch, sword, mountain

December 6 Isaac: Gen. 22:1-14 Symbols: bundle of wood, altar, ram in bush

December 7 Jacob: Gen. 25:1-34; 28:10-15 Symbols: kettle, ladder

December 8 Joseph: Gen. 37:23-28; 45:3-15 Symbols: bucket, well, silver coins, tunic

Claire’s Corner

 

·         Light a candle for a loved one

·         How to celebrate Dec 8th

o   National Donair Day calls for a hearty meal that satisfies your cravings. You can try making your own at home or support a local eatery that serves this tasty treat.

o   Plant a tree, start a compost bin, or simply take a walk in nature and soak in the greenery around you.

o   National Lard Day might seem a bit unconventional, but you can still join in on the fun by trying out a recipe that incorporates this ingredient. Whether it’s frying up some crispy treats or adding a dollop to your baking, embrace the day’s theme in your culinary adventures.

§  Lard or Tallow?

o   Up next is National Health Savings Account Day. Take a moment to review your health finances and see if there are ways to save or optimize your healthcare spending. It may not sound glamorous, but a little financial check-up can go a long way in the long run.

o   Lastly, embrace the beauty of Immaculate Conception by taking a moment to appreciate the wonders of life and the world around you. Reflect on the day’s journey through time, delicious treats, gratitude for hard work, environmental consciousness, culinary experiments, financial health, and soothing sounds. It’s been a day filled with odd and unexpected celebrations, but isn’t that what makes life interesting?

 

Daily Devotions

·         Today's Fast: Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Protection of Traditional Marriages.

·         Today is Lost and found day pray for the lost that they may be found.

·         Religion in the home: Preschool for December

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Make reparations to the Holy Face

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Rosary


Sunday, December 7, 2025

 



Claire’s Corner

·         Today in honor of the Holy Trinity do the Divine Office giving your day to God. To honor God REST: no shopping after 6 pm Saturday till Monday. Don’t forget the internet.

·         Spirit Hour: White wine pairing for today’s feast Pinot GrigioIts bright acidity is a classic pairing that cleanses the palate from the fried cutlet. 

·         Catholic Prayer: Novena to the Immaculate Conception

·         Feast: Cotoletta alla milanese

·         Zagreb Advent

·         How to celebrate Dec 7th

o   Start your day by lighting a candle in the morning, setting a cozy and calm atmosphere.

o   Cheers to National Rhubarb Vodka Day with a refreshing cocktail using this unique flavor.

o   Embrace Crate Day by getting outside for a picnic or barbecue, enjoying good food and company.

o   Explore the great outdoors on Global Fat Bike Day by going for a bike ride on trails or beaches.

o   Spread joy on Coats and Toys for Kids Day by donating gently used items to those in need.

o   End your day by lighting candles in your home to mark the Day of the Little Candles, creating a warm and peaceful ambiance.


Around the World in Perfect Weather: A 52-Week Dream Trip

🌿 Everglades & Gulf Coast Extension

December 7 – December 14, 2025

Dec 7 – Departure & Threshold Drive
• Morning: Final reflection at 
Basilica of Mary, Queen of the Universe – Mass Times
• Drive west toward Florida’s Gulf Coast
• Lodging: Fort Myers – La Quinta Inn (~$89/night)
• Meals: ~$55/day (casual breakfast + seafood supper)
• Symbolic Act: Journal blessing – “Guide my steps into creation’s wonder”

Dec 8 – Everglades Encounter (Feast of the Immaculate Conception)
• Mass: 
Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church – Immaculate Conception Mass
• Explore: Everglades National Park – mangroves, coral reefs, untouched wildlife
• Lodging: Homestead – Fairway Inn (~$72/night)
• Meals: ~$60/day (local Cuban breakfast + Everglades tour snack + dinner)
• Tickets: Everglades airboat tour ~$50
• Symbolic Act: Prayer of stewardship for fragile ecosystems

Dec 9 – Gulf Coast Sanctuary (Naples)
• Visit: 
Naples Botanical Garden – Tickets ($25)
• Lodging: Red Roof Inn Plus Naples Downtown (~$85/night)
• Meals: ~$65/day (garden cafΓ© lunch + Gulf seafood supper)
• Symbolic Act: Gratitude note for creation’s abundance

Dec 10 – Marian Gulf Reflection
• Mass: 
St. Ann Catholic Church, Naples – Mass Times
• Walk: Naples Pier at sunset


– Advent horizon meditation
• Lodging: Naples (~$85/night)
• Meals: ~$55/day (light breakfast + pierside dinner)
• Symbolic Act: Leave a seashell with a prayer written inside

Dec 11 – Sarasota Artistic Communion
• Visit: 
The Ringling Museum of Art – Tickets ($25)
• Lodging: Sleep Inn Sarasota North (~$79/night)
• Meals: ~$60/day (breakfast + museum cafΓ© lunch + Italian dinner)
• Symbolic Act: Sketch or photograph Marian light

Dec 12 – Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe
• Mass: 
Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic Church – Mass Times
• Lodging: Tampa – Quality Inn & Suites (~$82/night)
• Meals: ~$65/day (Mexican feast in honor of Guadalupe)
• Symbolic Act: Place flowers or a candle in honor of Guadalupe

Dec 13 – Tampa Bay Civic Joy (St. Lucy’s Day)
• Visit: 
Tampa Museum of Art – Tickets ($20)
• Lodging: La Quinta Inn Tampa Near Busch Gardens (~$88/night)
• Meals: ~$60/day (breakfast + museum cafΓ© lunch + Cuban dinner)
• Symbolic Act: Light a candle in honor of St. Lucy

Dec 14 – Clearwater Benediction (Gaudete Sunday – Third Sunday of Advent)
• Mass: 
St. Cecelia Catholic Church, Clearwater – Mass Times
• Walk: Clearwater Beach – Advent joy in ocean horizon


• Lodging: Clearwater Beach Hotel (~$95/night)
• Meals: ~$65/day (breakfast + seaside lunch + celebratory Gaudete supper)
• Symbolic Act: Journal on “Gaudete – Rejoice always” and leave a small token of joy (flower, shell, or note) in a public place


πŸ’° Cost Snapshot (Dec 7–14 Extension)

Lodging (7 nights): ~$590

Meals (8 days): ~$480–$520

Tickets/Activities: ~$145–$170

Transport (car + gas): ~$350–$400
➡️ Total per person: ~$1,600–$1,700 for the extension

 

🍷 Aperitif – Pinot Grigio Pairing

Wine Enthusiast – Pinot Grigio Food Pairing Guide

Wine Rooster – Best Foods with Pinot Grigio

πŸ₯— Appetizer – Zagreb Advent Inspiration

Visit Zagreb – Advent in Zagreb

Lovezagreb – History & Tradition of Advent

Vogue Adria – Advent Zagreb Guide

🍲 Soup & Simplicity – Sabbath Rest

(No recipe needed—keep it simple with seasonal broth or vegetable soup to honor rest.)



🐟 Fish Course – Gulf Coast Inspiration

Naples Botanical Garden CafΓ© Menu (for light seafood ideas)

Florida Gulf Seafood Recipes

πŸ– Main Course – Cotoletta alla Milanese

Philosokitchen – Recipe & History

Food52 – Step-by-Step Recipe

Recipes from Italy – Authentic Veal Milanese

πŸ₯¬ Salad Course – Seasonal Greens

(Use local citrus dressing to tie into Gulf Coast abundance.)

🍸 Dessert Course – Rhubarb Vodka Cocktail

Delicious Magazine – Super Easy Rhubarb Vodka

Leite’s Culinaria – Rhubarb Vodka Recipe

MyBartender – Best Rhubarb Cocktails

πŸ™ Prayer Course – Novena to the Immaculate Conception

EWTN – Novena Prayer

Pray Catholic Novenas – Immaculate Conception Novena

Immaculate Conception Center – Full Novena PDF


December 7 Second Sunday of Advent


Vigil Immaculate Conception-Pearl Harbor Day

Acts, Chapter 6, Verse 5-7

The proposal was acceptable to the whole community, so they chose Stephen, a man filled with FAITH and the Holy Spirit, also Philip, Prochorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicholas of Antioch, a convert to Judaism. They presented these men to the apostles who prayed and laid hands on them. The word of God continued to spread, and the number of the disciples in Jerusalem increased greatly; even a large group of priests were becoming obedient to the faith.

 

Are you a person acceptable to the whole community, filled with faith and obedient to the church?

 

Then perhaps you should consider being a deacon following these seven.

 

The Deaconate[1]

Among those first seven men who were called to serve was St. Stephen the Martyr, whose feast we celebrate on December 26. It’s not surprising then is it that St. Stephen is the Patron Saint of Deacons. So, what’s the significance of the Office of Permanent Diaconate in the modern church? It’s a centuries-old ministry that was abandoned by the early church around the fourth century but was revived as a result of the Second Vatican Council, which decreed that it be opened to “mature married men”, which was later clarified to mean men over the age of 35. While the early members of the diaconate (from the Greek diakonos, “servant”) were primarily concerned with ensuring the general well-being of the widowed and orphaned among them, modern day deacons can be found carrying out their ministerial responsibilities in parishes, hospitals and prisons, tending to the abused and battered, the mentally ill, the homeless and victims of discrimination. They are in large cities, small towns and rural communities, holding the hands of the sick and the dying, bringing the light of Christ into the darkest corners of our world. In a parish setting, a deacon’s general role is to assist the pastor in carrying out his pastoral responsibilities. As an ordained cleric, a deacon can preside at the sacrament of baptism; proclaim the Gospel and preach; preside at funerals, graveside services, and wake services; witness marriages, and of course, distribute Holy Eucharist. He cannot preside at mass which, of course, would include praying over the gifts of bread and wine that they may become the Body and Blood of the Lord, a privilege reserved for those ordained as priests. Nor can a deacon preside in celebrations of the sacrament of penance or anointing of the sick. With over 18,000 ordained deacons in the United States alone, these men, along with their wives and families, continue to serve the people of God.

Copilot’s Take

On December 7, the Second Sunday of Advent coinciding with the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception and Pearl Harbor Day, the Church recalls the call of the first seven deacons in Acts 6:5–7, men chosen for their faith and service to the community. Their ministry, embodied most fully in St. Stephen the Martyr, reminds us that the diaconate is a vocation of humble service, bridging altar and street, sacrament and suffering. Revived by the Second Vatican Council, the permanent diaconate today extends Christ’s compassion into hospitals, prisons, parishes, and homes, where deacons baptize, proclaim the Gospel, witness marriages, and accompany the dying. Though they cannot consecrate the Eucharist or absolve sins, their witness lies in embodying Christ the Servant, holding the hands of the marginalized and reminding the Church that true discipleship is measured not in power but in service. In this Advent season of waiting and preparation, the diaconate stands as a living sign of hope, calling each of us to discern whether we too are acceptable to the community, filled with faith, and obedient to the Church’s mission.

ON KEEPING THE LORD'S DAY HOLY[2]

CHAPTER I

DIES DOMINI

The Celebration of the Creator's Work

"God blessed the seventh day and made it holy" (Gn 2:3)

15. All human life, and therefore all human time, must become praise of the Creator and thanksgiving to him. But man's relationship with God also demands times of explicit prayer, in which the relationship becomes an intense dialogue, involving every dimension of the person. "The Lord's Day" is the day of this relationship par excellence when men and women raise their song to God and become the voice of all creation.

This is precisely why it is also the day of rest. Speaking vividly as it does of "renewal" and "detachment", the interruption of the often-oppressive rhythm of work expresses the dependence of man and the cosmos upon God. Everything belongs to God! The Lord's Day returns again and again to declare this principle within the weekly reckoning of time. The "Sabbath" has therefore been interpreted evocatively as a determining element in the kind of "sacred architecture" of time which marks biblical revelation. It recalls that the universe and history belong to God; and without a constant awareness of that truth, man cannot serve in the world as co-worker of the Creator.

Second Sunday of Advent 

The voices of Isaiah and John the Baptist tell us to prepare.

“As the journey of Advent continues, as we prepare to celebrate the nativity of Christ, John the Baptist's calls us to conversion and sounds out in our communities. It is a pressing invitation to open our hearts and to welcome the Son of God Who comes among us to make divine judgement manifest. The Father, writes St. John the Evangelist, does not judge anyone, but has entrusted the power of judgement to the Son, because He is the Son of man. “And it is today, in the present, that we decide our future destiny. It is with our concrete everyday behavior in this life that we determine our eternal fate. At the end of our days on earth, at the moment of death, we will be evaluated on the basis of our likeness or otherwise to the Baby Who is about to be born in the poor grotto of Bethlehem, because He is the measure God has given humanity. “Through the Gospel John the Baptist continues to speak down the centuries to each generation. His hard-clear words bring health to us, the men and women of this day in which even the experience and perception of Christmas often, unfortunately, reflects materialist attitudes. The 'voice' of the great prophet asks us to prepare the way for the coming Lord in the deserts of today, internal and external deserts, thirsting for the water of life which is Christ.” — Benedict XVI[3]

Goffine’s Devout Instructions, 1896.

HAVING taught us on the first Sunday of Advent to sigh with the prophets for the redemption through Christ, the Church on this day reminds us, in the holy sacrifice of the Mass, of the joyful promises of God for the salvation of the gentiles, and of Jesus Christ s actual coming, in order to quicken our desire for it, and to produce in us an alacrity in making ready our hearts by penance and love.

For this reason, she says in the Introit of the Mass: “People of Sion, behold the Lord shall come to save the nations, and the Lord shall make the glory of His voice to be heard in the joy of your heart.” “Give ear, O Thou that rulest Israel: Thou that leadest Joseph like a sheep.”

Prayer.

Stir up our hearts, O Lord, to make ready the ways of Thine only begotten Son, that by His coming we may be worthy to serve Thee with purified minds.

 

EPISTLE. Rom. xv. 4-13.

 

Brethren: What things so ever were written, were written for our learning: that through patience and the comfort of the Scriptures we might have hope. Now the God of patience and of comfort grant you to be of one mind one towards another, according to Jesus Christ: that with one mind, and with one mouth, you may glorify God and the Father of Our Lord Jesus Christ. Wherefore receive one another, as Christ also hath received you unto the honor of God. For I say that Christ Jesus was minister of the circumcision for the truth of God, to confirm the promises made unto the fathers. But that the gentiles are to glorify God for His mercy, as it is written: Therefore, will I confess to Thee, O Lord, among the gentiles, and will sing to Thy name. And again, He saith: Rejoice, ye gentiles, with His people. And again: Praise the Lord, all ye gentiles; and magnify Him, all ye peoples. And again, Isaias saith: There shall be a root of Jesse; and He that shall rise up to rule the gentiles, in Him the gentiles shall hope. Now the God of hope fill you all with joy and peace in believing that you may abound in hope, and in the power of the Holy Ghost.

 

What are we to learn by this epistle?

 

To be grateful to God for having called us, by His grace, to the true faith, and for having received us into the bosom of His holy Church. Again, we are taught that by envy, discord, pride, and hatred we lose our salvation. Finally, St. Paul refers us to the Scriptures for instruction.

 

Why do the Holy Scriptures profit us?

 

1. They teach, correct, and instruct us in justice, that we may serve God faithfully, and be ever ready for good works.

2. They sustain our patience in suffering, and our hope of eternal life, by many promises, and by the example of Jesus Christ and His saints.

 

Why is God called the God of patience, comfort, and hope?

 

1. Because He looks with patience and long-suffering upon our sinful lives.

2. Because He gives us grace to carry our cross with patience and joy and removes our despair by spiritual consolation.

3. Because He gives us hope that after this life, we shall possess Him, the object of our desire.

Aspiration.

O God of patience, comfort, and hope fill our hearts with joy and peace, and grant that we may become perfect in all good works by faith, hope, and charity, and that we may attain the promised salvation.

GOSPEL. Matt. xi. 2-10.

At that time: When John had heard in prison the works of Christ, sending two of his disciples, he said to Him: Art Thou He that art to come, or look we for another? And Jesus making answer said to them: Go and relate to John what you have heard and seen. The blind see, the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead rise again, the poor have the Gospel preached to them: And blessed is he that shall not be scandalized in Me. And when they went their way, Jesus began to say to the multitudes concerning John: What went you out into the desert to see? a reed shaken with the wind? But what went you out to see? a man clothed in soft garments? Behold, they that are clothed in soft garments are in the houses of kings. But what went you out to see? a prophet? Yea, I tell you, and more than a prophet. For this is he of whom it is written: Behold I send My angel before Thy face, who shall prepare Thy way before Thee.

Why was St. John cast into prison?

 

Because he rebuked King Herod, who was living in adultery with the wife of his stepbrother. This teaches us that we should not be deterred from our duty, though great suffering and misfortune should thereby befall us. Is it not nobler and more profitable to our salvation to be a martyr for truth, as St. John was, rather than to gain favor with the world by timidly looking on, or by deceitful flattery?

 

Why did St. John send his disciples to Jesus?

 

St. John sent his disciples to Christ so that they, too, might be convinced that He was the Messiah.

Superiors and parents should learn from this to see that their dependents and children are well instructed in the faith.

 

Why did Christ merely say to the disciples of St. John: Go and relate to John what you have heard and seen: the blind see, the lame walk?

 

Because they ought to have been convinced from the miracles He wrought, which were the fulfilment of the prophecies, that He was the promised messiah.

 

What was the object of the question, “What went you out to see?” which Our Savior asked?

 

1. To praise the constancy of St. John, who was not to be deterred from exercising his sacred functions either by the commands of Herod or through fear of imprisonment and death.

2. To approve the austere life of St. John, that we should thereby be encouraged to crucify the flesh and to do penance.

Why did Our Savior say that St. John was more than a prophet?

 

Because he was destined to see the messiah, to preach to men, and declare Him to be the Savior of the world. And as he was a messenger of God, to announce the coming of Christ and prepare His way, he was called an angel (Malachi. iii. T).

 

Why did Jesus add, “Blessed is he that shall not be scandalized in Me”?

 

On account of those who would be scandalized, at His humility, His poverty, His ignominious suffering and death upon the cross, and who would, accordingly, despise and reject Him; although the more He humbled Himself for them the more they ought rather to love and honor Him.

 

Why does the Church set before us this gospel?

 

In order that we, like the disciples of St. John, may, by His works, recognize Jesus as our Lord and Savior, and that we may make ourselves worthy of the grace of redemption by doing penance earnestly and firmly, thus preparing the way of the Lord in our hearts.

Consolation in Adversities and Afflictions

What can and should console us in adversity?

 

1. A firm belief that everything is ordered by God’s wise providence, and that no evil can befall us except by His permission, who never allows us to suffer more than is for our good.

2. That if we call upon Him in adversity God will help us, whenever it is expedient for our salvation. Thus, to encourage us He says, “Call upon Me in the day of trouble, I will deliver thee” (Ps. xlix. 15); and, “If God be for us, who is against us?” (Rom. viii. 31); and “Can a woman forget her infant so as not to have pity on the son of her womb? and if she should forget, yet will not I forget thee: behold, I have graven thee in My hands” (Isaias xlix. 15, 16).

3. That it is useless to resist Divine Providence, for all who have done so have been filled with shame and ignominy, “Who hath resisted Him and hath had peace?” (Job ix. 4.)

4. That our sufferings when borne with patience and submission lose their sharpness and bring us merit and reward. “For that which is at present momentary and light of our tribulation, worketh for us, above measure exceedingly, an eternal weight of glory” (n. Cor. iv.17).

Vigil of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary

Day of Fast and Abstinence[4]

Besides being the feast day of St. Ambrose, today is the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception.  And, consequently, today is traditionally a day of fasting and partial abstinence from meat.

For today, we as traditional Catholics are called upon to fast and to refrain from eating any flesh meat, except with the one principal meal allowed on a day of fasting.  Meat is considered to be the flesh and organs of mammals and fowl. Also forbidden are soups or gravies made from them. Salt and freshwater species of fish, amphibians, reptiles and shellfish are permitted.  On this day one, normal-sized meal and two smaller meals that do not equal the normal meal are allowed. Eating between meals, however, is prohibited although fruit juices and milk are allowed. The two smaller meals can not contain flesh meat.

History of the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception:

On November 30, 1879, Pope Leo XIII added the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception to the Universal Church's calendar, increasing the number of liturgical vigils from 16 to 17, which not including Holy Saturday, consisted of "the eves of Christmas, the Epiphany, the Ascension, Pentecost, the Immaculate Conception, the Assumption, the eight feasts of the Apostles, St. John the Baptist, St. Laurence, and All Saints." At this time, the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception was not yet a fast day. These 17 vigils mentioned were still in place at the time of the writing of the Catholic Encyclopedia in 1909.

On July 25, 1957, Pope Pius XII transferred the fast in the Universal Church from the Vigil of the Assumption to the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception on December 7, even though he had previously abrogated the Mass for the Vigil of the Immaculate Conception. Thus, this day starting in 1957 was a day of mandatory fasting and abstinence. This is preserved in the laws in force in 1962 for instance.

By 1962, the laws of fasting and abstinence were as follows as described in "Moral Theology" by Rev. Heribert Jone and adapted by Rev. Urban Adelman for the "laws and customs of the United States of America" copyright 1961: "Complete abstinence is to be observed on all Fridays of the year, Ash Wednesday, the Vigils of Immaculate Conception and Christmas. Partial abstinence is to be observed on Ember Wednesdays and Saturdays and on the Vigil of Pentecost. Days of fast are all the weekdays of Lent, Ember Days, and the Vigil of Pentecost." If a vigil falls on a Sunday, the law of abstinence and fasting is dispensed that year and is not transferred to the preceding day. Father Jone adds additional guidance for the Vigil of the Nativity fast: "General custom allows one who is fasting to take a double portion of food at the collation on Christmas Eve (jejunium gaudiosum)."

The Importance of the Immaculate Conception:

The Immaculate Conception is a dogma of the faith stating that Mary was conceived sinless in the womb of her mother Anne, and Mary remained without sin throughout her entire life. Remember, Mary is not just an average woman but the Mother of God; she is extraordinary (Luke 1:42). She is, by no means, divine in anyway, but she certainly is the greatest of all saints. She is the perfect model of charity. Let us try and imitate Mary by wearing her Brown Scapular and praying the Rosary. To imitate Mary, is to grow closer to Jesus Christ, Our Savior.

Ad Diem Illum Laetissimum:

An interval of a few months will again bring round that most happy day on which, fifty years ago, Our Predecessor Pius IX., Pontiff of holy memory, surrounded by a noble crown of Cardinals and Bishops, pronounced and promulgated with the authority of the infallible magisterium as a truth revealed by God that the Most Blessed Virgin Mary in the first instant of her conception was free from all stain of original sin. All the world knows the feelings with which the faithful of all the nations of the earth received this proclamation and the manifestations of public satisfaction and joy which greeted it, for truly there has not been in the memory of man any more universal or more harmonious expression of sentiment shown towards the august Mother of God or the Vicar of Jesus Christ.

ENCYCLICAL OF POPE ST. PIUS X ON THE IMMACULATE CONCEPTION, FEBRUARY 2, 1904 

Mary, Immaculate Virgin Mother of God, pray for us who have recourse to thee!

33 days to Christmas-Start the 33 days to Eucharistic Glory[5]

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Day 16

On this 16th day, to have a heart filled with spiritual courage that resists yielding to the world, the flesh or the pride of Satan for the love of God only.

Copilot:

To cultivate a heart filled with spiritual courage that resists yielding to the world, the flesh, or the pride of Satan, solely for the love of God, consider these spiritual practices and reflections:

Daily Spiritual Practices

1.      Prayer and Meditation: Dedicate time each day to pray and meditate, seeking strength and guidance from God. Prayers of devotion, such as the Rosary or the Prayer to St. Michael, can fortify your resolve.

2.      Scripture Reading: Reflect on passages that emphasize spiritual courage and resistance to temptation. Examples include Ephesians 6:10-18 (The Armor of God) and James 4:7-10.

Strengthening Spiritual Courage

1.      Sacraments: Regularly participate in the sacraments, especially the Eucharist and Reconciliation, to receive grace and spiritual strength.

2.      Spiritual Mentorship: Seek guidance from a spiritual director or mentor who can provide support and accountability.

Reflecting on Love for God

1.      Acts of Charity: Engage in acts of love and service for others, seeing these actions as expressions of your love for God.

2.      Gratitude Journaling: Keep a journal of daily blessings and moments of grace, cultivating a heart of gratitude and deepening your love for God.

Example Prayer for Spiritual Courage

Here’s a prayer to help you seek spiritual courage and resist temptation:

Dear Heavenly Father, Grant me the courage to stand firm in my faith, Resisting the temptations of the world, the flesh, and the pride of Satan. Fill my heart with love for You above all else And guide me in Your truth and righteousness. May Your strength be my shield and Your love my guide, As I strive to live for Your glory alone. Amen.

Bible in a Year Day 160 Jesus Warns the People

Fr. Mike guides us through Jesus' warning of persecution to the people of Israel as we near the end of Mark's Gospel. He also touches on how Jesus' behavior in the Garden of Gethsemane should serve as an example to us, and explains why Judas' betrayal was so heartbreaking. Today's readings are Mark 13-14 and Psalm 68.

Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day[6]

Today we honor the victims of Japan's attack on Pearl Harbor, an American Naval Station.  The attack is often cited as the catalyst for American involvement in the Second World War, given that President Franklin D. Roosevelt declared war on Japan the following day. At 8am on December 7th, 1941, without prior warning, the Imperial Japanese Navy Air Service attacked a Naval Station at Pearl Harbor, located on Oahu, Hawaii.  The base was attacked by 353 Japanese fighter planes. In total, 2,403 people perished, another 1,178 were injured, four U.S. Navy battleships were sunk, and 188 aircrafts were destroyed.  The aim of the attack was to immobilize the U.S. Pacific Fleet, which would allow Japan to advance into Malaya and Dutch East Indies.  On August 23, 1994, the United States Congress passed Public Law 103-308 to designate December 7 of each year as the National Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day.

Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day Facts & Quotes

·         Within hours of the attack, Canada was the first nation to declare war on Japan. The United States declared war the following day.

·         The Pearl Harbor Commemorative Medal was established by the United States Congress on November 5, 1990.  U.S. Armed Forces veterans and civilians who served, were injured or killed during the attack on Pearl Harbor were eligible to receive the medal to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the attack.  (Public Law 101-510, 104 Stat. 1721 and Public Law. 104-201, 110 Stat. 2654)

·         The USS Arizona Memorial was built in 1962 to mark the resting place of the 1,102 sailors and marines who died on the USS Arizona during the attack on Pearl Harbor.

·         ...commemoration of the attack on Pearl Harbor will instill in all people of the United States a greater understanding and appreciation of the selfless sacrifice of the individuals who served in the armed forces of the United States during World War II... (Public Law 103-308)

·         Yesterday, December 7, 1941 — a date which will live in infamy — the United States of America was suddenly and deliberately attacked by naval and air forces of the Empire of Japan. - President Franklin D. Roosevelt.  This speech by President Roosevelt is widely cited and referred to as the Infamy Speech or Pearl Harbor Speech.

Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day Top Events and Things to Do

·         Visit Pearl Harbor and the USS Arizona Memorial on Oahu Island in Hawaii.

·         Spend some time learning about the Second World War and the US involvement that began after Pearl Harbor.

·         Attend a remembrance ceremony at your local naval club, army base, naval base, or museum of war.

·         Watch movies about Pearl Harbor and World War II.  Here are some recommendations:
1) Pearl Harbor (2001)
2) Saving Private Ryan (1998)
3) Inglorious Basterds (2009)
4) Letters from Iwo Jima (2006)
5) Flags of Our Fathers (2006)
6) Empire of the Sun (1987)
7) The Longest Day (1962)
8) Tora! Tora! Tora! (1970)
9) Schindler's List (1993)
10) The Pianist (2002)

Father Aloysius H. Schmitt and the USS Schmitt[7] 

Aloysius H. Schmitt was born in St. Lucas, Iowa on December 4, 1909, and was appointed acting chaplain with the rank of Lieutenant (Junior Grade) on June 28, 1939.  Serving on his first sea tour, he was hearing confessions on board the battleship USS Oklahoma when the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941.  When the ship capsized, he was entrapped along with several other members of the crew in a compartment where only a small porthole provided a means of escape.  He assisted others through the porthole, giving up his own chance to escape, so that more men might be rescued. He received the Navy and Marine Corps Medal posthumously for his courage and self-sacrifice.  St. Francis Xavier Chapel, erected at Camp Lejeune in 1942, was dedicated in his memory. The destroyer escort USS SCHMITT was laid down on February 22, 1943, launched on May 29, 1943, and was commissioned on July 24, 1943.  The USS Schmitt was decommissioned and placed in reserve on June 28,1949 and struck from the Navy list on May 1,1967. 

Worldwide Candle lighting Day[1]

For hundreds of years, lighting a candle has been a way to show respect for those that have died. This beautiful gesture shows that although someone may be gone from this world, their memory will endure, and the light of their flame will continue to inspire and guide others. Worldwide Candle Lighting Day is a celebration of solidarity and memory. It’s a day on which people around the world gather to light candles for children who have died and to show that they will always be loved and never forgotten. The candles are lit at the same time in every time zone, meaning that a consistent warm glow passes around the planet for a full 24-hour day.

The History of Worldwide Candle Lighting Day

Worldwide Candle Lighting Day was a gift to the bereavement community from The Compassionate Friend. The Compassionate Friend’s Worldwide Candle Lighting Day started in the United States in 1997 as a small internet observance in honor of children who lived tragically short lives for any number of reasons, from sickness, to accidents, to war, but has since spread throughout the world. Nowadays, hundreds of formal candle lighting events are held in many different countries and thousands of informal candle lightings are conducted in homes as families gather in quiet remembrance of children who have died, but will never be forgotten. many organizations join in to observe this holiday, some f which are local bereavement groups, churches, funeral homes, hospitals, hospices, children’s gardens, schools, cemeteries, and community centers, and remembrance services have ranged in size from just a few people to nearly a thousand over the years since the creation of this special day. All of this just goes to show how necessary it was to set this day aside for this purpose.

How to Celebrate World Candle Lighting Day

As mentioned before, this day is celebrated with a quiet elegance: at 7 p.m. local time, people light candles for one hour to remember their loved ones. It is a moving occasion that bypasses geographical and cultural divides. As everyone lights their candles at seven pm local time, far-flung parts of the world get illuminated in turn, so that eventually the light has moved all around the globe. If you have experienced the loss of a child in your lifetime, this is a good moment to honor his or her memory by taking part in the candle lighting. You could also invite some close family members to spend this time with you and light their own candles for the late child.

This doesn’t only have to be a sad occasion, however. Children’s lives are mostly filled with fun and laughter, so reminiscing about all of the things the child you are honoring managed to enjoy before he or she passed may should serve to lighten the atmosphere up a little bit. Of course, nothing will ever make up for the loss of a child, but there is some solace to be taken in the fact that the child’s life was a good one, however short. No matter whether you’ll be lighting a candle at home or joining a gathering Worldwide Candle Lighting Day it is a way to show love and community.


[1]https://www.daysoftheyear.com/days/worldwide-candle-lighting-day/


Jesse Tree[8]

Jesse Tree Scriptures (The Symbols Are Only Suggestions)

December 1 Creation: Gen. 1:1-31; 2:1-4 Symbols: sun, moon, stars, animals, earth

December 2 Adam and Eve: Gen. 2:7-9, 18-24 Symbols: tree, man, woman

December 3 Fall of Man: Gen. 3:1-7 and 23-24 Symbols: tree, serpent, apple with bite

December 4 Noah: Gen. 6:5-8, 13-22; 7:17, 23, 24; 8:1, 6-22 Symbols: ark, animals, dove, rainbow

December 5 Abraham: Gen. 12:1-3 Symbols: torch, sword, mountain

December 6 Isaac: Gen. 22:1-14 Symbols: bundle of wood, altar, ram in bush

December 7 Jacob: Gen. 25:1-34; 28:10-15 Symbols: kettle, ladder

Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: Holy Bishops and Cardinals

·         Religion in the home: Preschool for December

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Make reparations to the Holy Face

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Rosary

Domus Vinea Mariae

Domus Vinea Mariae
Home of Mary's Vineyard

Bourbon & Cigars

Bourbon & Cigars
Smoke in this Life not the Next