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Start the Holy Face Novena on Wed Dec 24 to Thu Jan 1 in prep. for 1st Friday on Jan 2

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Wednesday, December 24, 2025

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Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Paradise Island (1930) is a South Seas adventure about Ellen Bradford, who arrives in Tonga to marry her fiancΓ© only to discover he is a drunk. She becomes the focus of rival suitors—Dutch Mike Lutze, a corrupt schemer, and Jim Thorne, a gentleman adventurer. The film uses gambling, deception, and tropical excess as its backdrop. Drinks—champagne, rum, and cocktails—appear in nightclub and poker scenes, symbolizing temptation and indulgence. Catholic lessons emerge in the contrast between false glamour and authentic virtue.


🎬 Film Summary

  • Setting: Tonga, a South Sea island full of plantations, scoundrels, and pearl divers.
  • Plot:
    • Ellen Bradford arrives to marry her fiancΓ© but finds him a drunk and unreliable.
    • She is courted by three men: the corrupt Dutch Mike Lutze, the honorable adventurer Jim Thorne, and others who see her as a prize.
    • Lutze cheats at poker with a marked deck, wagering plantations, pearls, and even Ellen herself.
    • Jim Thorne defeats Lutze, proving both his courage and his integrity.
  • Tone: A mix of melodrama, romance, and adventure, typical of pre-Code “exotic” films.

🍸 Drinks in the Film

  • Champagne Toasts: Used in celebratory or romantic moments, representing wealth and allure.
  • Rum & Tropical Cocktails: Implied in island taverns and poker games, reinforcing the South Seas atmosphere.
  • Poker Table Drinks: Whiskey or rum glasses underscore the corruption and temptation of gambling.

✨ Catholic Moral Lessons

  • Sobriety vs. Drunkenness: Ellen’s fiancΓ© is revealed as a drunk, showing how addiction destroys trust and vocation. Catholic teaching emphasizes temperance as a virtue.
  • Truth vs. Deception: Lutze’s cheating at cards mirrors the danger of dishonesty. Catholic morality insists that justice and truth must prevail.
  • Authentic Love vs. Exploitation: Ellen is treated as a prize to be won, but Jim Thorne’s gentlemanly respect points to the Catholic vision of love rooted in dignity.
  • Wealth vs. Virtue: Pearls, plantations, and champagne symbolize worldly riches, but the lesson is that virtue outlasts extravagance.

🍷 Suggested Hospitality Pairings

To echo Paradise Island in your Catholic-themed hospitality curation:

  • “Pearl of Great Price” Cocktail: Champagne with a pearl-like lychee garnish, symbolizing virtue over wealth.
  • “Marked Deck Rum Punch”: Rum with tropical fruit, nodding to Lutze’s cheating at cards.
  • “Gentleman’s Temperance”: Sparkling water with lime, representing Jim Thorne’s integrity and sobriety.

In short: Paradise Island (1930) dramatizes the clash between drunkenness, deception, and authentic virtue. Drinks—champagne, rum, and cocktails—serve as symbols of temptation and excess, while Catholic lessons highlight temperance, honesty, and dignity in love.


Tuesday, December 30, 2025

 

Candace’s Corner-Try “Bangers and Mash”

·         Bucket List Trip: Titanic, anyone? Cunard’s Cruise Liners

·         How to celebrate Dec 30th

o   So, you wake up and its bacon day… or maybe baking soda day. What a combo, right? Start your day by whipping up some crispy bacon – classic and simple. No frills, just pure deliciousness. Feeling adventurous? Mix a pinch of baking soda into your morning coffee for a fizzy kick. Who knows, it might just become your new favorite brew.

o   Now, head out for a leisurely walk. Take in the sights and sounds of your neighborhood. Bring along a small pack of bacon for snacking, of course. Maybe share some with a friendly passerby – who can resist the smell of sizzling bacon?

o   Feeling a bit creative? Whip up a batch of homemade bacon and baking soda cookies. Yes, you read that right. The salty-sweet combo is surprisingly addictive. Share them with friends or keep them all to yourself – no judgment here.

o   As the day winds down, relax with a warm bath. Add a sprinkle of baking soda for a soothing and detoxifying soak. While you’re at it, why not munch on some bacon-wrapped dates for the ultimate relaxation experience?

o   And there you have it – a day filled with bacon, baking soda, and plenty of fun. Who knew these two unlikely companions could make for such a memorable day? Cheers to weird holidays and the endless possibilities they bring!

 

Worldwide Vineyard Tour, moving into Israel (Galilee) with the theme “Covenant Vine, Prophetic Pouring”.

 

πŸ‡ Candace’s Worldwide Vineyard Tour

 

Week 9: Israel (Galilee)
Theme: Covenant Vine, Prophetic Pouring
Dates: December 30, 2025 – January 6, 2026
Base: Galilee – Nazareth, Cana, and Sea of Galilee
Seasonal Note: Winter pruning,



Eucharistic clarity among covenant vines and prophetic hills.

 

πŸ—“️ Tuesday, December 30 – Arrival in Galilee

✈️ Travel: Flight to Tel Aviv → transfer to Nazareth (~$180 USD regional flight + $25 USD bus)

🏨 Lodging: Mary’s Well Nazareth Hotel (~$90 USD/night)

πŸŒ™ Evening walk through Nazareth’s Old City, toast with Galilee red wine

πŸ”₯ Symbolic Act: “Flame of Covenant” — light a candle at the Basilica of the Annunciation

 

πŸ—“️ Wednesday, December 31 – Cana & Vineyard Blessing

🍷 Morning visit: Cana Wedding Church

🚢 Vineyard walk near Cana, blessing one vine with covenant prayer

🍽️ Lunch: local taverna (~$25 USD)

🌱 Symbolic Act: “Prophetic Pouring” — pour a drop of wine at the roots

 

πŸ—“️ Thursday, January 1 – Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God

🍷 Visit: Galil Mountain Winery (~$32 USD tasting)

πŸ“– Journaling at vineyard overlook

πŸ₯– Shared meal: bread, olives, and Galilee rosΓ©

 Symbolic Act: “Marian Flame” — name one mercy received and one joy shared

Mass Option (Feast Day):

 Basilica of the Annunciation, Nazareth

πŸ•š Feast Day Mass: typically 11:00 AM

 

πŸ—“️ Friday, January 2 – Vineyard Walk & Prophetic Pause

🚢 Morning walk through Galilee hillsides

πŸ™ Pause at Mount Tabor shrine (site of Transfiguration)

🧺 Picnic with local produce (~$15 USD)

🌸 Symbolic Act: “Prophetic Pause” — leave a flower or stone at the shrine

 

πŸ—“️ Saturday, January 3 – Sea of Galilee Reflection

🚀 Morning boat ride on the Sea of Galilee (~$20 USD)

🍷 Visit: Tabor Winery (~$30 USD tasting)



✍️ Reflection on covenant and clarity by the water

πŸŒ„ Symbolic Act: “Eucharistic Clarity” — write a psalm of peace

 

πŸ—“️ Sunday, January 4 – Vineyard Benediction & Mass

🍷 Visit: Dalton Winery (~$28 USD tasting)

✍️ Write a vineyard blessing for the next traveler

πŸ₯‚ Evening toast with Galilee reserve wine

πŸŒ„ Symbolic Act: “Galilee Benediction” — bless the hills and covenant vines

Mass Option (Sunday):

 Church of St. Joseph, Nazareth

πŸ•š Typical Sunday Mass: 11:00 AM

 

πŸ—“️ Monday, January 5 – Pilgrim’s Covenant

🚢 Visit villages: Tiberias & Safed

🍽️ Shared meal with vineyard families (~$25 USD)

πŸ”” Symbolic Act: “Covenant Shared” — light a candle for vineyard workers

 

πŸ—“️ Tuesday, January 6 – Epiphany & Travel Day

🌟 Attend Epiphany Mass in Nazareth

✈️ Depart Galilee for next vineyard destination

🌍 Suggested next stop: Georgia (Kakheti) or Armenia (Areni Valley)

 

πŸ’° Estimated Total Cost: ~$640 USD

Includes:

7 nights lodging

5 vineyard tastings

2 symbolic meals

1 Sea of Galilee day trip with picnic

Feast & Sunday Mass


DECEMBER 30 Tuesday in the Octave of Christmas

Genesis, Chapter 26, Verse 24

The same night the LORD appeared to him (Isaac) and said: I am the God of Abraham, your father. Do not FEAR, for I am with you. I will bless you and multiply your descendants for the sake of Abraham, my servant.

 

Often when are lives are full of trouble it is hard to think of God’s presence and to realize we are His children, and we should be about His business. Isaac is involved in a dispute over water rights. In a sparsely watered land, wells were precious and claims on water could function as a kind of claim on the land. God helps Abimelech, the King, to realize that Isaac has brought blessing to his people and thus to desire to make a covenant with him the day following Isaac’s dream. When I was in the military, we had a witty maxim for this; “It is hard to remember your mission was to drain the swamp when you are up to your arse in alligators.” When our lives are so busy fighting off the alligators that we do not take time to listen or pray to God; that is when God may approach us in our dreams. Isaac was reassured by God not to fear for He is with Him.

 

In this you rejoice, although now for a little while you may have to suffer through various trials, so that the genuineness of your faith, more precious than gold that is perishable even though tested by fire, may prove to be for praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.  (1 Peter: 6-7)


Copilot’s Take

 

On this day we hear again the promise spoken to Isaac in the night: “Do not fear, for I am with you. I will bless you and multiply your descendants for the sake of Abraham, my servant.” The patriarch’s quarrel over wells reminds us how easily the urgent can eclipse the eternal, how disputes over survival can drown out the mission entrusted to us. Yet God’s word cuts through the noise: presence before fear, covenant before scarcity, promise before anxiety. Isaac wakes to discover that even kings recognize the blessing he carries, because God Himself has marked him. And so too with us: trials are not evidence of abandonment but the crucible where faith is refined, as Peter declares, “so that the genuineness of your faith, more precious than gold… may prove to be for praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” The new year begins with this assurance — that the God who guarded Isaac in his weakness guards us still, and that His fidelity will carry us through every dispute, every trial, every alligator in the swamp, until the covenant reaches its consummation in Christ.

 

Sixth Day of Christmas-Six Geese a-Laying = the six days of creation[1]

1st Day: Creation of light and its separation from darkness

2nd Day: Creation of the firmament and division of the waters

3rd Day: Collection of waters (sea) and formation of dry land (earth); creation of plants according to their own likeness

4th Day: Creation of heavenly bodies in the firmament (sun, moon, and stars)

5th Day: Creation of sea creatures and winged fowl from the waters

6th Day: Creation of cattle, creeping things, and beasts from the dry land; creation of mankind, male and female

December 30, Sixth Day in the Octave of Christmas - Day Six[2]

God is your beatitude. The things of time are toys. You are eternity's child, and your eternity has already begun! There is a compelling urgency every day and every hour of the day. In it we are to witness to the truth — that God greeted and gifted us at Christmas.

If you know what witness means, you understand why God brings St. Stephen, St. John, and the Holy Innocents to the crib in the cave as soon as Christ is born liturgically. To be a witness is to be a martyr. Holy Mother Church wishes us to realize that we were born in baptism to become Christ — He who was the world's outstanding Martyr. — Love Does Such Things, by Rev. M. Raymond, O.C.S.O.

·         Day Sixth activity (Gingerbread Bowls)

·         Day Sixth recipe (Lamb's Wool)

Bible in a Year Day 182 The Inescapable God

Congratulations, you've made it about halfway through the Bible in a Year journey! Today, we read again about King Ahaz's unfaithfulness in 2 Kings. We are also introduced to the prophet Micah, who is all about judgement and hope, and we read one of Fr. Mike's favorite psalms. Today's readings are 2 Kings 16, Micah 1-4, and Psalm 139.


Litany of Trust

“Deliver me, Jesus-From the fear that I am not enough”

Copilot: This petition names a fear that quietly shapes so much of human life: the belief that our limitations, imperfections, or failures somehow disqualify us from love, belonging, or purpose. It is the fear that no matter how hard we try, we will always fall short.

To pray this line is to bring that hidden anxiety into the light. It is to acknowledge that the world often measures worth by achievement, strength, or success—but Christ does not. In Christian faith, our value is not earned; it is received. We are not asked to be flawless, impressive, or self‑sufficient. We are asked to trust.

This petition invites us to release the exhausting pressure to prove ourselves. It reminds us that God meets us not at the point of our perfection, but at the point of our need. Where we see inadequacy, Christ sees openness. Where we see weakness, He sees a place for grace to enter.

To pray these words is to let go of comparison, self‑judgment, and the relentless inner voice that says we must be more. It is to rest in the truth that we are already held, already known, already loved—not because we are “enough” by our own strength, but because God’s love is enough for us.


Daily Devotions

·         Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: Today's Fast: The lonely and destitute.

·         Litany of the Most Precious Blood of Jesus

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary


Quick Answer: Borrowed Wives (1930) is a pre-Code comedy about a man who must marry by midnight to inherit a fortune, leading to mistaken identities, false marriages, and comic chaos. From a Catholic lens, the film highlights the dangers of deceit, the sanctity of marriage, and the virtue of truth over greed.

🎬 Film Summary

  • Premise: Peter Foley (Rex Lease) is set to inherit $800,000 from his grandfather’s will, but only if he marries before midnight.
  • Complication: His fiancΓ©e Alice Blake (Vera Reynolds) is delayed en route. To appease his uncle and creditors, Peter allows Julia (Nita Martan), his creditor’s girlfriend, to pose as his wife.
  • Chaos:
    • Alice is misled into thinking Peter is already married.
    • Joe Blair, secretly in love with Alice, tries to win her hand.
    • Julia’s jealous boyfriend, a motorcycle cop, pursues them.
    • Uncle Henry, pretending to be a paralytic, is revealed as a schemer.
  • Resolution: Despite the farce, Peter and Alice marry just in time, securing the inheritance.

✝️ Catholic Lessons

1. Marriage as Covenant, Not Transaction

  • The film treats marriage as a condition for wealth, reducing it to a legal formality.
  • Catholic teaching insists marriage is a sacrament, a covenant of love and fidelity, not a tool for financial gain (cf. Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1601).
  • Lesson: Do not commodify holy commitments—marriage is ordered to love, family, and salvation, not profit.

2. The Sin of Deceit

  • Peter’s willingness to “borrow” a wife illustrates how lies multiply into chaos.
  • Catholic tradition warns that deceit corrodes trust and leads to scandal (cf. CCC 2485).
  • Lesson: Truth sets us free (John 8:32). Even comic lies have consequences.

3. Greed vs. Providence

  • The inheritance plot shows how greed drives rash decisions.
  • Catholic moral teaching emphasizes reliance on God’s providence rather than manipulation for wealth (cf. Matthew 6:24–34).
  • Lesson: Seek first the Kingdom of God, not riches.

4. Justice and Exposure of False Authority

  • Uncle Henry pretends to be paralyzed to control the inheritance, but is exposed as a fraud.
  • Catholic reflection: False authority collapses when confronted with truth.
  • Lesson: Authentic authority serves others, not self-interest.

πŸ“– Reflection for Today

Though played for laughs, Borrowed Wives dramatizes how falsehood, greed, and misuse of marriage lead to disorder. The Catholic takeaway is clear:

  • Marriage must be honored as sacred.
  • Truth must be upheld even under pressure.
  • Wealth without virtue is empty.

This film, like many pre-Code comedies, shows the cultural temptation to trivialize vows. For Catholic families, it’s a reminder that integrity in love and life is worth more than any inheritance.


Direct Answer: In Borrowed Wives (1930), drinks are not a major plot driver, but as with many early-1930s comedies set around hotels, inheritances, and romantic entanglements, beverages appear in background scenes—primarily champagne, cocktails, and casual bar service. They serve as markers of festivity, wealth, and social aspiration rather than being central to the story.


🍸 Drinks Context in Borrowed Wives (1930)

  • Champagne Toasts:
    The film’s premise revolves around a man needing to marry to inherit wealth. Champagne is implied in celebratory or romantic moments, symbolizing prosperity and festivity.

  • Cocktails in Hotel Settings:
    Much of the action takes place in a hotel, where cocktails and mixed drinks are part of the social backdrop. They reinforce the atmosphere of sophistication and indulgence.

  • Wine at Meals:
    Dinner scenes suggest wine service, typical of hotel dining rooms in comedies of the era.

  • Absence of Signature Cocktails:
    Unlike screwball comedies later in the decade, Borrowed Wives doesn’t spotlight specific drinks. Alcohol is more atmospheric than thematic.


✨ Catholic Hospitality Reflection

  • Champagne → False Security vs. True Joy:
    Champagne in the film represents worldly wealth and inheritance. Catholic teaching reframes joy as rooted in sacramental life, not material gain.

  • Cocktails → Temptation & Disguise:
    Mixed drinks symbolize the blending of appearances and reality—just as the protagonist borrows a “wife” to secure his fortune.

  • Wine → Communion & Fellowship:
    Wine at meals points to fellowship. Catholic hospitality sees this as a reminder of unity and Eucharistic communion.


🍷 Suggested Pairings for Your Bar

To echo Borrowed Wives in your hospitality curation:

  • “Inheritance Toast”: Champagne with a splash of brandy, symbolizing wealth and festivity.
  • “Borrowed Bride Cocktail”: Gin martini, nodding to the borrowed-wife scheme.
  • “Hotel Fellowship Wine”: A modest red table wine, representing communion and shared meals.

In short: Drinks in Borrowed Wives (1930) are background elements—champagne, cocktails, and wine—used to highlight themes of wealth, disguise, and fellowship. They can be reimagined in Catholic hospitality as lessons in discernment, humility, and true joy.


Monday, December 29, 2025

 

Texas Statehood 1845

Christopher’s Corner-John Voight born 1938

·         Today in honor of the Holy Trinity do the Divine Office giving your day to God. To honor God REST: no shopping after 6 pm Saturday till Monday. Don’t forget the internet.

·         How to celebrate Dec 29th

o   It’s time for a day filled with productivity, music, flavorful dishes, and time management. Begin by creating a to-do list for” Still Need To Do Day.” Prioritize tasks, set achievable goals, and reward yourself along the way. Incorporate the soothing sounds of a cello to add elegance and inspiration to your day. Play classical music in the background or even try your hand at playing a few notes yourself.

o   For lunch, celebrate” National Pepper Pot Day” by cooking a warm and spicy pepper pot soup. Use basic ingredients like broth, meat, vegetables, and of course, peppers to create a hearty meal.

o   As the day winds down, embrace the importance of time with” Tick Tock Day.” Reflect on how you’ve spent your hours, organize your space, and plan for tomorrow. Remember, it’s not about the quantity of time but the quality of how you use it. End the day feeling accomplished, nourished, and mindful of the moments that make up your life.

πŸ•―️ Bucket List Trip [3] – Part 10: USA 70-Degree Year Journey

Dates: December 29, 2025 – January 5, 2026
Theme: Caribbean Light – New Year Pilgrimage
Route: San Juan → Old San Juan → El Yunque Rainforest → Caguas → Ponce
Style: Island pilgrimage, New Year reflection, Eucharistic hospitality
Climate Alignment: Daily highs 79–81°F

πŸ’° Estimated Cost Overview

Category

Estimated Cost

Lodging (7 nights)

$720 (civilian mid‑range) OR ~$490 (military lodging at Fort Buchanan)

Food (daily meals)

$245

Fuel/Transit

$90 (local drives, rainforest excursion)

Symbolic extras

$100

Total Estimate

$1,155 (civilian) / $925 (military)

πŸ›️ Lodging Options

Civilian: Hotel El Convento (Old San Juan), Caribe Hilton

Military: Fort Buchanan Lodging

🌠 Day 1 – Monday, December 29

Location: San Juan Cathedral – Catedral de San Juan Bautista
Symbol: Baptismal Light
Ritual Prompt: “Begin anew in the waters of John.”

Evening Mass at the Cathedral

πŸ₯— Foodie Stop: RaΓ­ces Restaurant (~$25)

🏞️ Day 2 – Tuesday, December 30

Location: Old San Juan
Symbol: Walls of Memory
Ritual Prompt: “Memory guards the pilgrim’s path.”

Walk Castillo San Felipe del Morro

Journal: “What walls protect my spirit?”

🍲 Foodie Stop: Princesa Gastrobar (~$30)

πŸŽ† Day 3 – Wednesday, December 31 (New Year’s Eve)



Location: Condado Beach
Symbol: Threshold of Time
Ritual Prompt: “Time turns—grace remains.”

Sunset vigil at the beach

Attend New Year’s Eve Mass at San Juan Cathedral

πŸ₯˜ Foodie Stop: Santaella Restaurant (~$40)

πŸŽ‰ Day 4 – Thursday, January 1 (Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God)

Location: Our Lady of Providence Cathedral, San Juan
Symbol: Marian Beginning
Ritual Prompt: “Mary mothers the year into being.”

Mass for the Solemnity of Mary

🍷 Foodie Stop: Jose Enrique Restaurant (~$35)

🌌 Day 5 – Friday, January 2

Location: El Yunque Rainforest
Symbol: River of Renewal
Ritual Prompt: “Renewal flows where waters meet.”

Hike to La Mina Falls

🧺 Foodie Stop: roadside lechoneras (roast pork stands) (~$20)

🌲 Day 6 – Saturday, January 3

Location: Caguas
Symbol: Town of Tradition
Ritual Prompt: “Tradition roots the pilgrim’s joy.”

Visit local markets and plazas

🍽️ Foodie Stop: El MesΓ³n Sandwiches (~$15)

🎢 Day 7 – Sunday, January 4 (Epiphany Vigil)

Location: Ponce Cathedral – Catedral de Nuestra SeΓ±ora de Guadalupe



Symbol: Star of the Magi
Ritual Prompt: “The star guides pilgrims to Christ.”

Mass at Ponce Cathedral

Blog reflection: “Epiphany Light in Puerto Rico”

🍷 Foodie Stop: Lola Eclectic Cuisine (~$35)

 This leg gives you New Year’s Eve in San Juan, Marian devotion on Jan 1, rainforest renewal, and Epiphany light—all within the 70‑degree rhythm.


December 29 Monday in the Octave of Christmas

St. Thomas Becket-Pepper Pot Day

 

Genesis, Chapter 21, Verse 14-18

Early the next morning Abraham got some bread and a skin of water and gave them to Hagar. Then, placing the child on her back, he sent her away. As she roamed aimlessly in the wilderness of Beer-sheba, the water in the skin was used up. So she put the child down under one of the bushes, and then went and sat down opposite him, about a bowshot away; for she said to herself, “I cannot watch the child die.” As she sat opposite him, she wept aloud. God heard the boy’s voice, and God’s angel called to Hagar from heaven: “What is the matter, Hagar? Do not FEAR; God has heard the boy’s voice in this plight of his. Get up, lift up the boy and hold him by the hand; for I will make of him a great nation.”


Hagar was the servant of Sarah. Hagar was also the mother of Abraham’s firstborn illegitimate son Ishmael. The situation here was horrendous, due to Sarah’s practical nature; she gave her slave to Abraham to raise as a son to give his inheritance, too. According to Islamic sources it was Ishmael that Abraham tried to offer as a sacrifice to God at the Dome of the rock in Jerusalem. A war ensued between the mother of Ishmael and the mother of Isaac. Now that Sarah had her own son--Hagar and her son was a threat to Sarah and Sarah wanted her and her son dead. Fear is the root of the evil between Sarah and Hagar. Sarah and Hagar feared the loss of life and property for their son’s; and unfortunately this in-house squabble continues today with the descendants of Abraham (The Jews and the Arabs). Here we see God sends his angel to pronounce to Hagar, dying of thirst and having to watch her son die of thirst, to not be afraid. Legend has it that the angel produced life giving water for Hagar and Ishmael and the courage to continue. Blood feuds are the worst and are usually caused by fear which leads to puffed up pride and envy. Pride and envy are a slow poison to avoid. Today would be a good day to reflect if we have given in to this type of poison. 

Copilot’s Take 

Hagar’s moment in the wilderness is not the story of a child dying but of a mother who has already surrendered to fear, convinced that loss is inevitable until God interrupts her despair and reveals that Ishmael’s life and future are secure. That same fear-driven imagination — the belief that something precious must be taken from us — fuels every human feud, from Sarah’s anxiety over inheritance to the political collision between Henry II and Thomas Becket, where fear of losing authority or integrity hardened into rivalry and violence. Scripture shows that God steps in before tragedy becomes destiny, preserving Ishmael, lifting Hagar, and even transforming Becket’s martyrdom into a king’s repentance. The pattern is clear: fear writes false endings, pride defends them, and God keeps breaking the cycle. 

St. Thomas Becket 

St. Thomas Becket, the Archbishop of Canterbury, suffered martyrdom by the king's men in 1170 on this day.  There is an excellent movie about his life “Becket” if you have time to watch tonight which stars Richard Burton and Peter O'Toole. Becket was a man of strength.

Things to Do[1]

·         Read more about this historical event. For some web sources see The Murder of Thomas Becket, 1170, and more information on Henry II. Watch this You Tube video of Canterbury Cathedral.

·         Some wonderful literature is based on this saint. Canterbury Tales by Geoffrey Chaucer (1342 - 1400) follows a group of 30 pilgrims traveling to the Canterbury Cathedral, the pilgrimage spot of St. Thomas Becket. T. S. Eliot wrote a play called Murder in the Cathedral based on St. Thomas' murder.

·         See Catholic Cuisine for other recipes ideas for St. Thomas Becket.

·         Today would be a good time to gather with family and friends enjoy some Christmas goodies and spend an evening singing Christmas carols.

o    The saints who are assigned immediately following Christmas are honored because of their special connection with Christ. December 29, the Feast of Saint Thomas Becket, Archbishop of Canterbury, who was martyred in his cathedral by the soldiers of Henry II in 1170, is the true anniversary date of his death. Because of the great shock and sensation that this martyrdom caused at a time when all of Europe was Catholic, the Roman authorities, in the thirteenth century, deemed it appropriate to assign the celebration of his feast within the privileged days of Christmas week, thus adding him to the group of "Christ's nobility."

o    In the Middle Ages, Christmas week also assumed the note of a hallowed time within the homes of the faithful. Many observances of a religious character were introduced locally and spread over large sections of the Christian population of Europe. For the farmers and their animals, it was a time of rest and relaxation from laborious work; only the necessary chores were done in a stable and barn. Thus, the whole week became a series of holidays. More time than usual was spent on prayer and religious exercises. It is still the custom in many sections of Europe to light the candles of the Christmas tree every night while the whole family says the rosary or performs some other devotion, followed by the singing of carols.

o    Carol singing from house to house is an ancient tradition in central Europe on the twelve nights between Christmas and Epiphany. The Poles call these nights the "Holy Evenings" (Stoiete Wieczory). Another widespread practice is the performance of religious plays portraying events of the Christmas story (such as the Nativity, the visit of the Magi, the flight into Egypt, and the massacre of Bethlehem). In southern Germany and Austria many such plays are still performed in rural communities. Among the northern Slavs (Poles, Ukrainians, Czechs, Slovaks) a puppet theater (szopka) is in vogue; its religious scenes alternate with secular dramatic exhibits. In the cities of Poland children put on Christmas dramas (jaselka). A similar performance (Bethlehemes jatek) is done by children in Hungary; a representation of the manger is carried from house to house, little dramatic plays are enacted, and carols sung.

Christmas Calendar[2] 

Read about St. Thomas Becket, once a royal chancellor of England. He was slain in his own cathedral for defending the Church from interference by King Henry II. 

Reflect: Christ's kingdom is already present, but it is not yet fulfilled. The destruction of the last enemy, death, is still to come, and then, says St. Paul, God will "be all in all." This is why we pray "Thy kingdom come." When we pray "Thy kingdom come," we are praying for a kingdom of truth, life, holiness, grace, justice, love, and peace. Yet, let us also remember that for the sake of this kingdom many of our sisters and brothers are suffering persecution. 

Pray: Becket gave up his life for the sake of justice. Pray today for the many Christians who still face persecution and death because of their faith.  

Act: Take time to pray the Rosary for justice and peace today.

Fifth Day in the Octave of Christmas - Day Five[3]

Given the tempo of the liturgical season with its feasts it is easy to overlook that one saint who for many centuries was, after Mary and Joseph, the most venerated person in European Christendom.

Devotion to him spread like wildfire. He was enshrined in the hearts of men, and in their arts. In statues and stained glass, in song and story this good bishop was everywhere to be found France, Italy, Spain, Sweden. Many miracles were attributed to his heavenly advocacy. — Excerpted from Days of the Lord

Five Golden Rings 

Today is the 5th day of Christmas the Five Golden Rings representing the five books of the "Pentateuch" [Genesis, Exodus, Numbers, Leviticus, and Deuteronomy].

Pepper Pot Day[4]

Pepper Pot, a thick and spicy soup that is an American staple dish, especially in the southern regions of the United States. What is Pepper Pot? Well, it’s a soup that contains twelve different ingredients. Now that we know the ingredients for the Pepper Pot, let us look into the history of the day named for it, Pepper Pot Day, shall we? In the modern world of today, Pepper Pot Soup has many, many variations to it. But the soup’s true origins began on December 29th of 1777 during the Revolutionary War, the Continental Army had been experiencing an exceptionally harsh winter during the battle of Valley Forge. The soldiers were low on food because the farmers in the area had gone and sold all their supplies to the British Army for cash rather than the weak currency that the Continental soldiers could offer them for their crops. Christopher Ludwick, a baker general of the Continental Army, gathered whatever food he could scrounge together to feed the cold and frail soldiers. The chef was able to find scraps of tripe, meat, and some peppercorn. He then mixed the ingredients together with some other seasonings and created the hot, thick, and spicy soup we now know as pepper pot soup. It quickly became known as “the soup that won the war.” The soup gave the soldiers the warmth and strength that they needed to push the enemies back through the harsh winter weather.

How to celebrate Pepper Pot Day

To celebrate this holiday, all we have to do is gather the necessary ingredients to make our own Pepper Pot Soup and share it amongst our friends and family. Pepper Pot soup is a great way to warm up on a cold and dark winter’s night, huddled around the fireplace and listening to stories narrated by family members who always have interesting stories to be told to everyone they can tell them to. Want to make your own? The ingredients are four cups of water, four tablespoons of chicken bouillon powder, two medium grated potatoes, two medium sized carrots which are also grated, two finely chopped celery stalks, one finely chopped onion, one and a half cups of finely chopped green, red, or yellow peppers, one half cup of all-purpose flour, two teaspoons of salt, one teaspoon of pepper, one more cup of water, and finally, six cups of milk.    

Bible in a Year Day 181 Jonah and the Whale

Today, we hear the story of the prophet Jonah, who, unlike Amos, does not want the people to repent. The readings are 2 Kings 15, Jonah 1-4, and Psalm 138.

Daily Devotions

·         Today's Fast: Unite in the work of the Porters of St. Joseph by joining them in fasting: The Sick Afflicted and Infirmed.

·         Offering to the sacred heart of Jesus

·         Drops of Christ’s Blood

·         Universal Man Plan

·         Rosary

🎬 Beautiful but Broke (1944) — Summary

A wartime musical‑comedy about resourcefulness, integrity, and unexpected vocation

Beautiful but Broke (1944) is an American musical‑comedy directed by Charles Barton and starring Joan Davis, Jane Frazee, and John Hubbard. The film follows Dottie Duncan, secretary to theatrical agent Waldo Main. When Waldo is drafted into the Marines, he hands the failing agency over to Dottie, who suddenly finds herself responsible for keeping the business alive.

With most male musicians away at war, Dottie recruits her office neighbors—Sally and Sue—and organizes an all‑girl orchestra to fulfill a big contract. But everything goes wrong at once:

  • The railroad gives their seats to military personnel.
  • Dottie misplaces her purse containing the tickets.
  • The group becomes stranded in a small town.

Instead of giving up, the women adapt. They work at a daycare center supporting mothers engaged in wartime labor, and they perform at charity events to boost morale. Eventually, Dottie discovers that Bill Drake, who has been arranging their local activities, had her purse the whole time—keeping the tickets so the band wouldn’t leave.

The film blends slapstick comedy, wartime patriotism, and musical numbers, offering a light but meaningful story about perseverance and purpose.


✝️ Catholic Lessons & Reflections

Even though Beautiful but Broke is a breezy wartime comedy, it carries several themes that resonate deeply with Catholic social teaching—especially around vocation, solidarity, and the dignity of work.


1. Vocation Often Emerges Through Disruption

Dottie never planned to run an agency or lead a band.

  • Her calling emerges only when her world is upended.
  • Catholic spirituality teaches that God often reveals vocation through unexpected responsibility.

Lesson: When life shifts suddenly, grace often hides inside the new duty.


2. Solidarity in Times of Hardship

The women support one another, share burdens, and adapt together.

  • This mirrors the Catholic principle of solidarity, especially in wartime or crisis.
  • Their cooperation becomes a witness to communal resilience.

Lesson: Hardship becomes holy when borne together.


3. The Dignity of Work—Even Humble Work

Stranded and broke, the women take jobs at a daycare center and perform at charity events.

  • Catholic teaching affirms that all honest work—especially work that serves families—is dignified.
  • Their labor becomes an act of service to mothers supporting the war effort.

Lesson: Work offered for the good of others becomes a form of love.


4. Integrity vs. Manipulation

Bill Drake’s decision to hide Dottie’s purse is played for comedy, but it raises a moral tension.

  • Catholic teaching emphasizes truthfulness and respect for others’ freedom.
  • Even well‑intentioned manipulation undermines trust.

Lesson: Good ends never justify deceptive means.


5. Women as Agents of Renewal

The film highlights women stepping into leadership roles during wartime.

  • Catholic tradition honors the unique genius of women—creativity, relational strength, and moral clarity.
  • The all‑girl band becomes a symbol of feminine resilience and contribution.

Lesson: Women’s gifts are essential to the flourishing of community and culture.


6. Joy as a Spiritual Weapon

The musical numbers, humor, and camaraderie are not escapism—they are morale‑building.

  • Catholic tradition sees joy as a fruit of the Spirit and a force against despair.
  • Their performances lift the spirits of a weary community.

Lesson: Joy offered to others is a form of charity.


🌿 A Closing Reflection

Beautiful but Broke is more than a wartime musical—it’s a portrait of ordinary people discovering purpose through service, creativity, and perseverance. It affirms the Catholic conviction that God works through small acts, humble work, and unexpected responsibilities.


Direct Answer: In Beautiful but Broke (1944), drinks are not a major plot element, but as with many wartime comedies set around nightclubs, radio contests, and social gatherings, beverages appear in background scenes—primarily champagne, cocktails, and casual bar service. They serve as markers of festivity and aspiration rather than driving the story.


🍸 Drinks Context in Beautiful but Broke (1944)

  • Nightclub & Radio Contest Setting:
    The film’s central action revolves around a nightclub and a radio contest. Drinks like cocktails and champagne are implied in the nightclub atmosphere, reinforcing the glamour and escapism of wartime entertainment.

  • Champagne Toasts:
    Champagne is used in celebratory moments, especially when characters dream of wealth or success. It symbolizes aspiration and festivity.

  • Cocktails & Mixed Drinks:
    Cocktails appear in nightclub sequences, reflecting the social culture of the 1940s. They underscore the contrast between the characters’ financial struggles and the glamorous world they aspire to.

  • Casual Bar Service:
    Background scenes include waiters and bartenders serving drinks, typical of nightclub comedies of the era.


✨ Catholic Hospitality Reflection

  • Champagne → Hope & Aspiration:
    Champagne in the film represents longing for a better life. Catholic tradition reframes this as hope rooted in faith rather than material wealth.

  • Cocktails → Temptation & Escape:
    Mixed drinks symbolize the temptation to escape hardship through glamour, reminding us that true renewal comes from virtue.

  • Bar Service → Fellowship & Community:
    Even in wartime comedy, shared drinks point to fellowship. Catholic hospitality sees this as a reminder of communion and solidarity.


🍷 Suggested Pairings for Your Bar

To echo Beautiful but Broke in your hospitality curation:

  • “Radio Contest Fizz”: Champagne cocktail with a sugar cube, symbolizing aspiration and festivity.
  • “Nightclub Glamour”: Gin martini, nodding to the nightclub setting.
  • “Beautiful but Broke Spritz”: Sparkling water with limoncello, representing resilience and joy amid hardship.

In short: Drinks in Beautiful but Broke (1944) are background elements—champagne, cocktails, and nightclub service—used to highlight aspiration and festivity. They can be reimagined in Catholic hospitality as lessons in hope, discernment, and fellowship.


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